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There is a beautiful lyric in Faye Wong's Butterfly: Just like a butterfly can't fly over the sea, no one has the heart to blame it. Most of our parents are paying for us. When our marriage was opposed by our parents, most of our children chose to bow their heads. A marriage without a lover's blessing is unfortunate. Although it hurts, we know that parents are all for their own good, and no one can bear to blame them. Their opposition must be justified. Even if you choose to resist, you still bear the stigma of unfilial, and there is always a stalk stuck in marriage.
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Cousin lusa went home with her boyfriend, but her aunt didn't like her boyfriend very much. My cousin is high flyers, graduated from a junior college and has a stable job, while my cousin's boyfriend Jens is just a small clerk in an ordinary company. He has no stable job, his home is away from home, and he has a sick father to support. My aunt doesn't like her cousin very much. She said angrily to her cousin, "You'd better break up with him. We all disagree with you and him. " Cousin is very sad. She thinks he is a very capable person, self-motivated, not as miserable as his mother said. She was happy with him, but her family disagreed.
The next day, Jens was driven away by his aunt's house and asked Jens not to come to lusa again. Lusa won't be with him. Lusa was locked in the room by menstruation, and my uncle gave Jens a lift back. They have to be separated temporarily, but they are not going to break up.
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Menstruation advised her cousin Liu Sha to go on a blind date every day, find a local unmarried man, live a good life, and stop fantasizing about being with that poor boy. He doesn't particularly cherish her, and at first glance, he is a person with a hard life.
Cousin lusa was very sad, but she listened to her mother. She pretended to break up with Jens first, instead of looking for Jens, she went on a blind date. But after I met her, it was basically gone. Lusa tried to make himself unreasonable and make the other person feel disgusted. Menstruation relaxed his trip when he saw that lusa was going on a blind date. Cousin lusa often doesn't let her aunt and Yan Si Tong call. Soon her holiday will be over and she must go back to work.
In order not to let her mother accompany her, lusa drove back to work all night while her mother was asleep, and told her not to look for her. She promised not to associate with Jens.
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A few days before I went back, I had a telephone supervisor from menstruation. Cousin Louisa didn't dare to disobey her mother, so she held back her thoughts and didn't meet Jens. Until Valentine's Day, Jens came to see her with a bunch of red roses. She felt unable to let Jens go, so they were desperate to be together. As if they hadn't seen each other for years, they hugged each other tightly, kissed each other and whispered to each other, trying to tell all their love stories. They also went to the movies. The closest thing is to spend the night together. Cousin Louisa gave Jens her whole self. As long as she insists, her parents will agree one day. She believes that she and Jens will be very happy.
However, suddenly, my aunt went to my cousin Sha's apartment in person and saw Jens at my cousin Lu Sha's home. She is angry and annoying. She yelled at Jens, drove Jens away with a broom, called Jens a shameless bastard, and called lusa ungrateful, unfilial and disobedient. In order to stabilize her mother's mood, cousin Lu Sha had to let Jens go back first and convince her mother herself first.
My aunt sat on the ground and cried with anger. Cousin Louisa lifted her up and persuaded her with one reason after another: "Mom, how do you know Jens will not have a future?" As long as we work together, our life will get better and better. Where there is a bottomless pit, I know you despise Jens, but my father is so poor, but you married him without hesitation. Aren't you very happy now? " Mom, you can't leave dad. How can I leave Jens? Jens is very kind to me, letting me do everything and not quarreling with me. He also does housework. Mom, can't you try to solve Jens? "Aunt frowning a little stretch, probably because of thinking of the past with my uncle, become less sharp. Hey, let's leave the children to themselves. My aunt, who has been mainly in her heart, still said firmly, "I hope you won't regret it in the future." We can't beat you, it's up to you. "
The next day, my aunt drove home After all, her daughter made her sad. She has always felt that Jens is not as good as her daughter, and she is not the most concerned about her daughter. She is a bit hypocritical and insincere, but her daughter won't listen to her.
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Uncle menstruation couldn't beat Cousin Louisa, and he didn't want his daughter to cry all day for a man who didn't eat or drink, and he didn't want her to feel guilty and sad, so he gradually accepted Jens, although he was not very happy.
Just when all this was beautiful, Yan Si and his cousin Lu Sha proposed successfully, but during the preparation of the wedding, Yan Si's father got worse and needed a sum of money for surgery. Yan Si went to see her cousin Lu Sha, and she felt very sad when she learned about it. After all, this is her future father-in-law. She gave all her savings to Yan Si, but she was still a hundred thousand short. Cousin Lu Sha went to ask her aunt for it.
Because she couldn't borrow money, Yan Si was very grumpy and called her cousin Lu Sha a snob and heartless. He asked his cousin Lu Sha to stop working and help him take care of his father. He took a private job and couldn't afford the medical expenses at all. Cousin Lu Sha was very sad and felt that her kindness was not understood. She thinks Yansi is just crazy. She is a rich woman.
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Lu Sha cooks every day and then goes to the hospital to take care of her future father-in-law. It is her day's work to brush her body, feed her and visit the elderly. Sometimes her future father-in-law vomits all over with dirty things, and she also helps to clean them up. Although it is hard, she has no regrets.
When I went back at night, I saw a scene that broke her heart. Jens got off a luxury trolley and walked out of a fat woman. The woman kissed Jens intimately, and then they broke up. Jens came to the hospital, and his cousin Liu Sha hurried to a corner. Tears streamed down her face and she shouted in her heart, Why? Is this really her Jens? Is mom right? Did I do something wrong?
She walked back to her apartment like a marionette. When she got home, she burst into tears, took a sip of white wine and fell asleep drunk. She didn't wake up until Jens told her to take over during the day, but her heart ached and she woke up again. Everything will wait until after her uncle's operation. She quickly cooked a meal and then rushed to the hospital to take care of the old man. Jens is no longer in the hospital.
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In order to disillusion her last fantasy, cousin Liu Sha followed Jens and only saw things she didn't want to believe all her life. Jens actually entered the hotel with an ugly, fat and nouveau riche woman. A few minutes later, cousin Lu Sha took photos of them entering the hotel and left in pain. So that's how he took private jobs. Liu Sha suddenly felt sick, and she wanted to vomit all the food overnight. She thinks she is dirty, too.
Sure enough, a few days later, Jens raised enough money and happily told his cousin Lu Sha that several big deals had been signed and Jens's father's operation went smoothly. Because the time was just right, after the operation, Jens's father's condition was controlled.
He put forward the idea of continuing to get married to Liu Sha, but Liu Sha refused, saying that you should think about it again, and your uncle's condition needs to be seen again. A few days later, when Jens was taking care of her father in the hospital, she resigned first, then left home, then packed up and went back to her hometown, leaving the city that brought her endless pain.
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After leaving, she only left Jens a farewell letter and a photo that made her world collapse, changed her phone number and said goodbye to this person forever.
When I got home, my family knew that she had broken up and smiled happily. Looking at the smiles of her family, especially her mother's, she suddenly felt very guilty. She is really the stupidest person, so she must be filial to her parents in the future.
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Just like a butterfly can't fly over the sea, no one has the heart to blame-parents have broken their hearts for their children's life events, and they have raised strong objections for their children's happiness, and no one has the heart to blame; Children are desperate for their love, even if they resist their parents, it is because they firmly believe in their love and beliefs and have great guilt for their parents. Who can bear to blame them? The poor inherit the wind and spend more time with them to see the world.