The relationship between husband and wife is the most other relationship in the world. It is established by two people of different sexes who have no blood relationship, and sometimes it is closer than blood relationship.
So, for a long time, people have spent a lot of effort to study this relationship, and various books about the relationship between husband and wife have appeared, and there are endless literary works to describe this relationship, including sad or beautiful poems, tortuous or romantic novels and touching essays.
In short, the relationship between husband and wife has become the most concerned relationship among many people. In fact, it is not surprising. Parents and children are always separated, and friends don't meet often. Only the relationship between husband and wife is the relationship of getting along with each other day and night, which is more related to a person's life happiness.
Are we happy or not? In many cases, we look after our families instead of individuals. Only when our families are happy can we live a happy life.
In this way, it is most important to maintain a good relationship between husband and wife. What is the most important thing to maintain a good relationship between husband and wife? Speaking of which, you may not expect it.
Some people say that it must be mutual trust. Only mutual trust can make each other go further. Only in this way can the relationship between husband and wife remain good.
Some people say that it is a good economic foundation, and a family that has nothing to worry about must be able to maintain a good relationship between husband and wife.
Some people say that if this is not the case, it must be mutual kindness and love. A loving couple will never have a problem, right?
There may be many other sayings, but I don't agree with them. I think the key to maintaining a good relationship between husband and wife is to meet each other's urgent needs.
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Only by meeting each other's urgent needs can we build a foundation of mutual trust.
mutual trust can only be said verbally, or it is not reliable in your heart, because if you don't know each other's needs in time, he or she will feel that you don't have her or him in your heart, and over time, the so-called trust foundation will fall apart.
Trust will disappear in a small mistake. Once trust is gone, good relations will be gone.
There are some needs that the other party doesn't want to say clearly. She's insinuating, and she deliberately mentioned them, but you didn't notice them, so you lost the tacit understanding.
Therefore, it is necessary to discover each other's needs in time to establish a trust relationship and maintain a good relationship between husband and wife.
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Having a good economic foundation is certainly good for maintaining a good relationship between husband and wife, but blind material satisfaction can't maintain a good relationship between husband and wife.
Many families can't be profligate. Even if they can be profligate, your money is not spent in her heart, which will get twice the result with half the effort.
People's needs are different with different family circumstances. Many people are very rational, because they have a home in mind and will not expect things beyond their own consumption level.
See through each other's thoughts and satisfy her in time. Maybe very little money can meet each other's psychological needs, and a good couple can maintain it well.
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kindness and love are our goal, but kindness and love are not just words, we need to cultivate each other.
To cultivate a loving and loving relationship, we need practical actions, a shopping trip, a pick-up and a meal, and so on. Everyone is vanity, and a little satisfaction with each other has a good effect.
You know, how the sweetness of the love period before marriage came from the process of constantly satisfying each other's vanity, which was established by China. After marriage, this is still a magic weapon, which cannot be discarded or forgotten.
The relationship between husband and wife is related to all aspects of our happiness, and we need to do everything we can to maintain it. The most important thing to maintain this relationship is to meet each other's urgent needs.