2. Maybe some people are hateful and some people are despicable. And if we put ourselves in his shoes, we can know that he is more pitiful than us. So please forgive and tolerate all the people you meet, good or bad.
3. Every love will change from * * * to insipid. At first, the electric shock-like excitement and infatuation gradually became gentle and calm, less impulsive, and began to perceive people's shortcomings in their hearts, and they would be agitated because they lost their freshness. In fact, love is only the person who stays around after the prosperity is gone. Just, who would you like to see that long water flow with?
4, life is alive, you have to experience countless injuries. The harm comes not only from the enemy, but also from relatives and friends. Sometimes it comes from yourself, and what hurts yourself is the real harm.
In the process of growing up, we have done a lot of wrong things, some of which can be redeemed and some of which can't be made up. Forgive our past, because forgiving our past means being kind to our future, and taking our past experience as a gift of life, our future life can be better.
6. In life, we always have too much dissatisfaction and too many extravagant demands, blindly asking for everything we want from life and wanting more. We are always worried about this and that, always anxious. This is often the case. The more we have, the more we worry about losing, and the more we worry about losing, the easier it is to lose.
7. In love, there are no rules, no winning or losing, no right or wrong, no hero, no wise man, no genius ... In classic love, there are only two fools, holding each other's hands, loving stupidly, living stupidly and spending their lives stupidly. ...
8. Be a strong woman, face it calmly, experience it bravely, and forget the people and things that have disappeared. Those who can't have, know how to give up, and those who can't touch learn to hide in the snow. Instead of indulging in the past, it is better to bathe in the sunshine, throw away sadness and loneliness, get rid of helplessness and indifference, stop being afraid of the unknown, and don't be blindly confused. Tell yourself I can.
9. Don't give up flying when you can fly, dreaming when you can dream and loving when you can love. People always cherish what they don't get and forget what they have. Happiness is not because you have more, but because you care less.
10, life is inevitably stormy, and some days are doomed to be dark. But not every disaster in life is a curse, but early adversity is often a blessing. A good environment is a positive mirror, and a miserable environment is a temper of character.
1 1. Sometimes, we feel that we have come to the end, in fact, our hearts have come to the end. No matter how deep despair is, it is a process and will always end. Escape is always not the way. Courage, go forward, maybe the opportunity is in the next second. Jimmy said, I always see the most beautiful scenery in the deepest despair.
12, people should be able to afford it. It is survival to take up, and life to put down; What you can afford is ability, but what you can put down is wisdom. Some people can't afford it, and it doesn't matter if they can't put it down; Some people can afford it, but they can't let it go. If you can't afford it, you will be mediocre; If you can't let it go, you will be exhausted. There are many things in life that need to be put down. Only by letting go of those unnecessary burdens can we move forward smartly.
13, a person will cry because of pain; The reason why a person hurts is because he cares; A person cares because he has feelings; A person has feelings just because you are a person! So you feel, care, hurt and cry, which shows that you are a complete person. When you are sad, forgive yourself. You're just one person. There is no need to see yourself as so indestructible.
14, there will be countless regrets in life, which is also a charm of life (next88). The perfect life may be the most boring life!
15. Although no one will be successful and happy all his life, keeping a generous heart and accepting good advice can at least increase our happiness and reduce our pain. Similarly, there will be no people who have suffered failures all their lives. They can be swayed by considerations of gain and loss and scrimp on food and clothing, which will certainly enlarge their pain and reduce their happiness.
16. There are many detours, paths, dangerous roads and dark roads in the journey of life. Only those who are determined and never stop can hope to reach the distant place of victory. Without a clear head, no matter how fast you are, you will make mistakes; Without careful steps, no matter how smooth the road is, it will fall. To leave a footprint of life, one step at a time; If you want to take fewer detours in life, you must think twice before you leap.
17. Only we know how much we love each other, and we can't show off. If love is just a form, we will invisibly ignore its texture. Love is silent when you love deeply, and silent when you love deeply. Because of love, we are not afraid of the long life and the dark night after sunset. It's hard to last, and it's hard to persist. But with the support and understanding of mutual concern, everything will be solved.
18, you can believe what others say to you, but you can't believe it all. However, when others say it, try to listen carefully and respond seriously. This is respect for people.
19, a person studying in a different place should learn to communicate with parents and listen to their elders. Learn to be patient There is nothing you can't stand. No matter how outrageous others' mistakes are, there is no need to punish yourself with others' mistakes.
20. Some people say that life is like a bitter gourd. Even if soaked in water, fed in the temple and put in the mouth, the bitterness will not decrease. This is the essence of life's bitterness; Some people say that life is like a glass of boiled water, honey is sweet and salt is salty. In fact, the bitterness and joy of life come from one's own heart. The heart is bitter, and life is like an endless sea of suffering; The heart is sweet, and life is full of beautiful scenery.
2 1, some people are very strong and like to enlighten and laugh in front of people who are crying; And omnipotent, always helping others solve problems easily; For the ideal, no matter how hard and tired you are, you are willing. But in the face of their own trauma, they will only hide in the corner and watch the wound grow bigger and bigger; Only in the face of the people I trust most will I abandon my helmet and armor and shed tears in grievance. After crying, I smiled and dried my tears and said, it doesn't matter, I can do it well.
22. Life can't bear too much affectation, nor can it sigh too much sadness and regret. Even with what kind of grievances and helplessness, it is just an ornament of life, brilliant and beautiful. All this is just many touching episodes in the course of life! In fact, there are too many surprises and discoveries in the world, and even if they pass away quietly one day, they will not feel sorry. After all, there are countless hopes and beauties in the journey of life.
23, some things, knowing that it is wrong, but also insist, because unwilling; Some people, knowing their love, have to give up because there is no ending; Sometimes, knowing that there is no road, we are still moving forward because we are used to it.
24. Life is endless slavery. Don't be afraid and refuse suffering. Transcending suffering is the power of life. So on the journey of life, all the roads are horizontal and vertical, and all the wry smiles are songs. You have to walk on high mountains and plains, and you have to taste the ups and downs.
25. For me, appearance is just sexual attraction, because it is not eternal. There is a carrier there, and I will eventually get tired of it. But wisdom is different. You never know how it will be presented in the next second-never tired of beauty!
26. If you want to become famous quickly, you have to sleep slowly. If you want to learn quickly, you have to be proud slowly. If you want to grow old slowly, you have to study quickly; If you want to be eliminated slowly, you have to be quick. Not afraid of the long road, but afraid of short ambition; Not afraid of slowness, but afraid of standing often; If you are not afraid of poverty, you are afraid of laziness; Not afraid of the fierceness of the opponent, but afraid of trembling.
27. When you smile at yourself, nothing in the world can bother you; When you are sincere to yourself, no one in the world can cheat you. Living in the applause of others is the easiest way to lose yourself; Being taken care of by others is the easiest way to weaken yourself. Those who dare to face difficulties are strong in life; People who dare to challenge adversity thrive. Thank the person who gave you advice, he made you mature; Be grateful to those who make it difficult for you. He made you strong.
28. Don't be sentimental about people easily, even if it is really sentimental. Others may not understand your sentimentality and have no obligation or responsibility. In this case, you want to vent to bring shame and deepen your pain.
29. There is no defect in a stable life, but if there is no fun, living is worthless. The joy of life lies not in the setbacks themselves, but in the sense of accomplishment of constantly overcoming them. Life has a dark color, in order to appear bright!
30. I left my job, but I was able to complete the long-awaited trip; Broke up, but the whole person is full of vitality. Failure in the eyes of others can be your own success. Anyway, there are many forms of success: cooking noodles, fighting and playing football are all successes. We don't have to say that there is no difference between success and failure in life because we hate the public's definition of success or failure. We can set standards for success or failure for ourselves.
3 1, there are always some roads in life, you need to go by yourself, and there are always some things you need to do by yourself. Whether it is bumpy or flat, whether it is smooth or difficult, some roads and things have to be faced by themselves. No one, regardless of personal relationship, can replace it; Difficult, you bear it yourself, rejoice and feel it yourself. The ups and downs of life, ups and downs, everything in life, mainly depends on yourself, and life is like this.
What you can control is your efforts, but what you can't control is the result. We can't predict the future, we can only work harder now! The best way to prepare for tomorrow is to concentrate all your wisdom and enthusiasm and do today's work perfectly. This is the only way to deal with the future.
33. Everything can be changed, but our ideals cannot be changed; Everything can grow, but our pride cannot grow; Everything can be old, but our young hearts can't be old; Everything can be retreated, but the pace of our progress cannot be retreated. We might as well lose what we have lost, because it will make us less disappointed; We might as well be less satisfied, because it can make us more awake.
34, facing, is not necessarily the most sad. Loneliness is not necessarily unhappy. It may not last long to get it. Lose, not necessarily no longer have. Don't love wrongly because of loneliness, and don't be lonely all your life because of wrong love.
35. The winner said: Although it is difficult, it is possible; The loser said, it is possible, but it is too difficult. What kind of mood, what kind of pattern, what kind of thinking, what kind of living method, what kind of action. Although this is only a small difference, it is doomed to a different result.
36. Only when there is spring in the heart can the heart bloom; There is a sea in the chest, and the mind can be broadened; With a good plan in your stomach, you can do things neatly; If you have a good eye, your eyes can be sharp; The arm has strength and the hand has a heavy punch; With rhythm, you can walk lightly.
37. We always care too much about love and care too little about our relatives. The former is like a delicious meal, a feast, which arouses a strong desire and makes people linger. The latter is like oxygen around us, nourishing us all the time, silently, but always ignored and forgotten. Desire will get you what you want most, and you will lose the most important thing. It's always too late to turn back.
38. If you meet someone who likes to be hot and cold with you, please turn around and leave. If you meet someone who likes to play hide-and-seek with you often and doesn't send text messages, please leave decisively. If you meet someone who likes to have an affair with you but doesn't make any promises, please leave quickly. Leave is to meet that person with a firm heart, and leave is for better happiness. All contacts that are not entrusted by life are hooligans, because those who pursue stability and permanence can't afford to be hurt!
39. Dealing with selfish people is not to hate her or ignore her, but to gradually get away from her, from the bottom of my heart, and then pretend that I don't know anything. If she goes to find someone else, then you will find that many people are far away from her.
40. The key to life is thought, spirit and mood. Let your thoughts Ming Che, enrich and support your spirit, and have an open-minded, peaceful and cheerful mood every day. This is the most important thing in life.
4 1, dealing with hypocritical people, not to scold her, not to expose her, but to let her continue to be hypocritical sadly, and then pretend that she knows nothing. Then slowly, many people will take the initiative to tell you how hypocritical she is.
42. Exercise makes people full of energy, music makes people full of romance and happiness, and thinking makes people full of wisdom and rationality. Without exercise, life is equal to lethargy; Without thinking, life is equal to blind obedience; Without restraint, life is equal to destruction; Without happiness, life is equal to solidification.
43. A girl with a good family background will have her parents paving a gorgeous golden brick road; A good-looking girl will have a boyfriend and husband who will be diligent after the saddle; A lucky girl will get the help of a noble person and rise to the top. Unfortunately. I can't seem to be among them, but I am lucky to know that "the mountain that relies on the mountain will fall and everyone will run." Although I am ordinary, I don't want to be attached. I firmly believe that it is the greatest luck to make yourself strong.
44. If it really isn't you in the end. After so many ups and downs, we have to part in the end. If the story is over, there are others around us. If memories, promises and determination to fall in love become insignificant in the face of reality. No matter what happens in the future, no matter how it ends. Now I still want persistent love. We wait for our last, last, last together.
45. Location can increase people's power, but it cannot increase authority; Position can increase people's strength, but it can't increase people's ability; Lot can increase people's money, but it can't increase quality; Position can satisfy the desire for fame, and money can satisfy the desire for material things, but it cannot realize personal value and the meaning of life.
46. We can't choose how or when to die, but we can choose how to spend this life. Therefore, no matter how hard life is, we must continue to live, even if it is only to satisfy our curiosity.
47. Finding your own fault is diagnosis, finding something for yourself is tempering, analyzing yourself as a confidant, and laughing at yourself is encouragement! Life is a song: love is light music, work is symphony, struggle is rock music, entertainment is pop music, friends are pop music, and career is March. "Since God has given talents, let them be employed!" There is no rest in life; Stride forward, "everyone knows a gentleman"!
A mature person should be less indignant, less abusive and more tolerant and understanding. What you didn't understand in the past will be understood later, what you didn't understand when you were a child will be understood when you grow up, and what you don't understand when you grow up will be understood when you get old. Understanding others is actually understanding yourself.
49, life must remember two facts: first, compared with eternity, life is extremely short; Second, the world is only your temporary residence, and you won't stay here for long, so you should make good use of your life.
50. The beauty of life has nothing to do with material things or fame and fortune. All people love life, life is a poem, life is a song, life is an endless book, life is a cup of tea and life is a landscape. Learn to appreciate every scenery in life, whether it is rainy or sunny.
5 1, in love, there is always a protagonist and a supporting role, the tired is always the protagonist, and the injured is always the supporting role; Sometimes, love is also a kind of injury: cruel people choose to hurt others, and kind people choose to hurt themselves; Life is a load, and we need to learn to support it. Support the cause, support the family and even support the whole society. If you have support, you will definitely bear it. How much weight you support, how much pressure you bear.
No matter how strong you are, there will always be someone better than you. No matter how good you are, there will always be someone better than you. Only by constantly learning can you constantly improve yourself and become a wise person, so don't refuse to learn new knowledge easily, because you refuse not others, but your own growth.
53. If you have achievements, you should forget them immediately, so that you won't bother yourself. Remember when you make mistakes, so that you won't make the same mistakes again; Seize the opportunity immediately so as not to lose it; If you have difficulties, find countermeasures, so it will be easy to solve.
54. It doesn't matter how long two people are together. What matters is whether you stay in this person's heart or not. Some people will stay in their hearts for life even if they are together for one day; Some people have never spent a day in their hearts even if they have been together for a lifetime.
55. No one can repeat anyone, and no story can repeat other stories. Every sincere feeling and every picture that warms us will not have the same blueprint. That must be the only one. Everyone in the best years, standing under a street lamp in the middle of the night, the love from the corner of his eyes and eyebrows must be unique, unique.
56. I feel that it's really a day when I'm tired sitting in a chair every night. The most important thing in life is not hard work, but direction. The pressure is not that someone works harder than you, but that someone works harder than you several times. Even if you can't see the future, even if you can't see the hope, you still believe that you can't be wrong, the person you choose can't be wrong, and the life you choose can't be wrong. What woke me up the next day was not an alarm clock, but actually a dream.
57. Nowadays, many people are not unwilling to accept new ideas, but are unwilling to abandon old ones. But success is not how much you get, but how much you still lose.
58, if one day, you want to leave me, I won't leave you, I know you have your reasons; If one day you say you still love me, I will tell you that I have been waiting for you; If one day, we pass by, I will stop and stare at your distant back and tell myself that I once loved that person. Maybe a person can love many times in his life, but there is always one person who can make us laugh the most brilliantly, cry the most thoroughly and think the most deeply.
59. In fact, love, in the final analysis, is ordinary and ordinary, that is, men and women understand each other, respect each other, help each other, care about each other, learn from each other's strengths, comfort each other and understand each other. The scene of the story is always family and society; The plot of the story never exceeds that men fall in love with women or women fall in love with men; The ending of the story is either tragedy or comedy, and there is never a middle way.
60. The most difficult lock in the world is the heart lock, the most difficult door to open is the heart door, the most difficult lamp to open is the heart lamp, and the most difficult way to go is the heart. If you don't open your heart to this wonderful world, you won't come in. In life, we should thank two kinds of people, one is the one who opens our hearts, and the other is the one who accompanies us through the mental journey.
6 1, no regrets if you miss it. People and things you miss, others have a chance to meet, others miss, you have a chance to have. Everyone will miss it, everyone will miss it, and what really belongs to you will never be missed.
62. In this world, no one can really feel the pain of another person. You were shot in the heart, and you were in pain. This is just your own business. Others may sympathize and lament, but you never know where your wound is festering.
63. Except for parents, no one does not ask for something in return. Lovers treat you well on the premise of love and harmony, while friends treat you well on the premise of common interests and eliminating loneliness. Not to mention others.
64, you can not noble, but not * * *; You may not be great, but you can't be mean; You may not be smart, but don't be confused; You may not be knowledgeable, but you must not be ignorant; You can not make friends, but you can't be lonely; You can be pessimistic, but not world-weary; You can be generous, but you can't hurt others; You can not pursue it, but you can't be jealous; You can not make progress, but you can't go backwards.
65. At the beginning of life, don't treat people as young bullies; In the twilight, don't insult people when they are weak; Don't praise yourself in public in front of others; After people, don't treat people as monkeys; Above people, don't treat people as people; Don't treat yourself as a person. When you get used to a life, you only live one day in your life; If your life is always new, then you will have a wonderful day.
66. You can take any road, but you can't take a dead end; You can choose any road, but you can't choose the wrong one. Although the road of life is tortuous, it is beautiful. As long as you watch carefully, you can enjoy the beautiful scenery along the way. On the road of life, you should strut up the hill, be careful when you go down the hill, look ahead when you take the sunshine road, and look down at your feet when you take the narrow road.
67. Life is limited by time, but when you constantly explore yourself, improve yourself in your efforts, and constantly adjust yourself when you get along with others, you will find that life is endless, and it can be endless, and it is also getting better. It's good to be yourself, but why not be a better one? That's not giving up your personality, but letting yourself enjoy life and being yourself better.
68. Don't wait for a smile to show your charity; Don't wait to be loved to love; Don't wait to be lonely to understand the value of friends; Don't wait for the best job to start; Don't wait to have a lot to share with others; Don't wait for others to get hurt before begging for forgiveness; Don't wait to be apart before you think about saving it. Don't wait, because you don't know how long it will take.
69. If one day, you have an argument with the person you love and you let him or her win, what will he or she win at this time? Understand what? The so-called loss, what did you lose? Lose what? In fact, many times, the dispute did not leave any winners or losers, but lost a lot of feelings that should have been cherished.
70, a person can not noble, but not * * *; People can not be great, but not mean; The heart can be awkward and confusing; Life can be pessimistic, but don't be world-weary; Making friends can be generous, but you can't hurt others.
7 1, you can be silent, regardless of my concerns; You can ignore my anxiety by not returning messages; You can take my concern as a reason to upset you; You can put my ideas in the corner and ignore them. You can smile at others, you can hug others, you can be good to the whole world, but forget that I was sad. You like you just because of me, which is the only reason that makes me humble.
72. There are always many regrets in life. Everything in the world is not perfect, there is no need to regret for the regrets in life. Always keep a peace of mind, a calm pace, a belief in life, a passion for pursuit, a hope for tomorrow and a regret in life.
73. Any experience is an accumulation. The more you accumulate, the more mature you become. With many experiences, life has a length; Wide experience, thick life. Experienced sinister challenges, life has a height; After suffering, life has strength; After the test of setbacks, life has a bright future.
74. If one day I don't bother you anymore, if one day, there will be no me, no phone, no news, no concern and no small temper in your life. I showed everything, you know, know, know, finally moved, but I left. Strange today, familiar yesterday.
75. To be an authentic person, good people are rewarded; Work hard and your steps will be solid! It is mortal who obeys fate; It is the strong who dominate their own destiny; Those who have no opinion are blind followers, and those who think twice are wise. Wealth is a temporary friend, but friends are permanent wealth; Honor is a temporary glory, and success is a permanent foundation; Education is temporary knowledge, and learning is eternal wisdom!
76, a good mood will have a good scenery, a good eye will have a good discovery, and a good thinking will have a good idea. Happiness gives people comfort, but it also gives people an early death; Work can sharpen people, but it can last for a long time. People may not be beautiful, but they should be healthy; People can not be great, but be happy; People can be imperfect, but they should pursue it.
77. Life is a process of exchange. Youth is lost, wisdom is gained. Lost time and gained knowledge; * * * disappeared, the reason; The speed has disappeared, and it is profound. This is the trajectory of life.
78. It is not love that can be cultivated slowly, but habit. What you can get with time is not emotion, but emotion. So love is a gift in an instant. There is something, and there is nothing. On the other hand, love and marriage are not the same thing. Not all love needs marriage, and not all marriages have love.
79. Take a step, no matter how long the road is; Stagnation, no matter how short the road, is difficult to reach. Travel is not only about speed, but also about sustainability; Progress lies not only in speed, but also in whether we can keep the right direction.
80. There are many states and time and space in the world that cannot be surpassed and changed, but in a dangerous environment, life itself has many essences. People should learn to find these precious things from them. When people are alive, they should understand the true meaning of life from pain, gain survival experience from difficulties, be good at transcending suffering and realize self-satisfaction, so as to appreciate the beauty of life melody.
8 1. Good love is resilient and can be pulled away, but it cannot be stopped. Lovers are not bound to each other, which is a sign of their confidence in love. No one restricts anyone, and in the end, no one can live without anyone. This is true love.
82. To be a happy woman, you must be happy, but you must also create happiness if you are unhappy. Smiling may not make the world bloom, but it can relax your tight chest. Laugh when you are happy, so that everyone will be infected, cry when you are sad, be beautiful, talk, and then everything will be zero. Smile at your humble self, draw comfort and strength from it, trust and feel refreshed, and then you can dance.
83. Life always makes you feel complete with regrets; Appreciate the happiness of meeting from the thoughts of separation; Realize the value of loyalty from the pain of betrayal; Appreciate the deep feeling of being together in a long carriage from the sadness of lovelorn.
84. There is a dilemma in the world, and it is more difficult to find people in heaven; There are two sufferings in the world, and Coptis chinensis is more bitter and poorer; There are two dangers in the world, and the rivers and lakes are even more dangerous; There are still two thins in the world, spring ice is thinner and human feelings are thinner. Therefore, we should shape the value that we will never be replaced and used.
85. There will never be anyone you can't live without. Just because you can't live without now doesn't mean you can't live without forever. There is nothing you can't give up. If you don't give up, you may be given up first.
86. Kindness is the return of the soul to nature. This is a sincere conversion to human nature. Even if it's just a sincere greeting, even if it's just a sympathetic look, it will make us get a long-term touch and warm stay in the ever-changing life. The spread of evil and numbness will inevitably break through the moral embankment. Hurt others and drown yourself.
People are worried because they have a good memory. What should be remembered and what should not be remembered will remain in memory. And we often remember things that should be forgotten and forget things that should be remembered. Sometimes you have to be a cute and ridiculous fool, forget people's ridicule and indifference to him, forget the grievances in the world, forget the worldly fame and fortune, forget everything in this world, live in your own world, be happy as you like, and laugh silly.
88. The beauty of life has nothing to do with material things or fame and fortune. All people love life, life is a poem, life is a song, life is an endless book, life is a cup of tea and life is a landscape. Learn to appreciate every scenery in life, whether it is rainy or sunny.
89. The most secret secret in the world is that overcoming fear brings something safe and beneficial. Even overcoming a little fear will enhance your confidence in creating your own life ability. If we try to escape from fear, they will chase us like mad dogs. At this point, the most terrible thing is to close your eyes and pretend not to exist.