It doesn’t matter, I’ll give you some advice
1. Preparation stage
In various pubs, you can often meet people such as “musicians” and “famous writers” , NPCs such as "Wandering Artists", these NPCs will move to taverns in other towns every few days, talk to them or find out where banquets are being held. If you are willing to spend a sum of money, you can also learn The "poems" they teach (there are 5 poems) can play a role in improving relationships during the courtship process. Singing different poems to women with different personalities will have different effects. If the woman does not like your singing A certain poem will not improve the relationship).
You can first find a few more NPCs of this type, learn all 5 poems, and inquire about the personalities of these unmarried ladies. You can also click the "Record" menu below on the big map interface. Select "People" to see these ladies' closest family relatives. Choose your partner well (it is recommended to choose an unmarried lady from your own country, otherwise the courtship process will be very troublesome, especially if the two countries suddenly go to war during the courtship process, then every meeting must be in the territory of the other country, which is too risky = =! ). Then you can bide your time.
2. Get to know the target person
First of all, before meeting, it is best to go to the woman’s father to have a conversation, select "I want to ask you something", and then select the corresponding conversation requirements and He dated his daughter, and then met with his daughter for the first time after getting permission. Remember, this is very important. If you don't get the permission of the other person's father, it will be troublesome to keep silent every time you meet (sneak dates = =!). In addition, it may cause the father's rage and lead to a sharp decline in the relationship.
Note: If the reputation is lower than 400, no matter how good your relationship with her father is, the other party will only prevaricate you, such as: your daughter is already being pursued, etc.
What’s even more cruel is that if you and the woman’s father are the kind of lords with a relatively violent personality, they are likely to be rejected by the other party. And if you don’t give up and contact his daughter in private, then every time During the first meeting, as long as he asks about topics related to his daughter, his relationship will be directly reduced by 25 points! ! !
Okay, after meeting, just select "Madam, I am your most passionate suitor" in the dialogue menu to confirm the relationship first.
After that, you can meet and date this lady openly every time, and the guards will not stop you. During the date, you can read the poems you have learned to the other person to increase the relationship between you. In addition, if you win the championship in the competitive competition, you can also give her the honor of the competition champion, which will increase your goodwill a lot.
When the relationship reaches 20 or above, you can choose "Dear Madam, may I have the honor of visiting you again?" during a date. This conversation is essentially a proposal. If the other party accepts it, you will get more Give out a mission, "Formal Proposal".
I proposed to the woman’s father, and the answer I received was to prepare the bride price and then get ready to get married.
So, there is no end to the ways to make money = =!
After that, you can do whatever you want, just wait for news from the other party's father. The only thing you need to pay attention to is that if you have become the marshal of the kingdom at this time, you will not be able to wait for the news of the wedding (I don’t know what the programmer thinks = =!). You have to go to the king to resign as marshal, and then wait for the news. That’s it.
After a period of waiting, the other party's father will tell you that the wedding of you and his daughter will be held in a certain city, and I hope you can attend as soon as possible.
After that, enter the town where the wedding is located and talk to your father-in-law. After a cutscene of the wedding, your wife will automatically be transferred to your town/castle fief.
The above is a relatively formal marriage process.
However, if you are really attracted to a certain young lady, but her father does not agree to your request for a relationship, and you really don’t want to change your partner, then there is one last resort. Just a private tryst and finally an elopement!
The process is basically the same as above, except that there is no need to go through the cumbersome procedures of the other party's father, and there is no need to prepare wedding gifts. The only restriction is that they can only meet once every few days. And after elopement, the young lady who eloped with you will be cut off from all contact with her by her family, and you will not be able to get any assistance from her family. This point must be considered carefully, because the help given by the "family" in the game is still considerable. For example, after the war, it supports you to obtain a fiefdom somewhere, or when your town/castle is besieged, it may lead the army to the rescue. wait.