Realm is a beautiful word.
When it comes to it, we will think of the realm of life, marriage, education and life.
Unconsciously, we all seem to be chasing a certain realm.
So, what is the realm?
I quite agree with a sentence:
Realm is a person's ideological consciousness and spiritual accomplishment, and it is also a kind of cultivation ability, which embodies a person's cultivation and accomplishment.
Have you reached all the following levels?
0 1, the highest state of life
Hold your breath, bend over and look up.
As the saying goes: cooked food often bows its head, and wise people often bow their heads.
If you can hold your breath, you can become a device; Bend down and lift your head.
Writer Jia Pingwa once said: a person's life, whether it is bitter or happy; Win or lose. What's important is that there can't be Yue Hui in a clear spring in my heart. ?
Life may have ups and downs, but if you have a peaceful mind, you can spend it calmly.
02, the highest state of happiness
There is scenery in the heart and light in the eyes.
Mr. Jiang Yang said: The most beautiful scenery in life is inner peace and calmness. ?
True happiness lies not in the outside world, but in your own heart.
If you have scenery in your heart, you are not afraid of desolation; Only when there is light in the eyes can we see hope.
Being a happy person will make life more lovely.
03, the highest state of marriage
Hold your hand and grow old with you.
Take Qi Mei as an example, to grow old together is the most beautiful appearance of marriage.
The greatest significance of marriage is that two people support each other and work hard together until they are old.
As Zhang Ailing wrote in "Love in a Fallen City":
In this turbulent world, money, real estate, everything eternal, are unreliable. Only the tone in her mouth and the people sleeping next to her are reliable.
I wish I could look back with years and grow old with deep affection.
04, the highest state of health.
Eat well, sleep well, get through it and be happy.
Health care must first raise the heart, if the mentality is not good, everything is in vain.
Eat well and sleep well, and your body will be healthy; If you want to overcome it, you will be happy.
As Feng Zikai said: Since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to be happy. Since there is no pure land, it is better to be pure. Since I didn't get what I wanted, I might as well be relieved. ?
The rest of your life is not long, so you must make yourself comfortable.
05, the highest degree.
I can clearly see that I can go far under my feet.
Mr. Ye Shengtao once said: Teachers are not teaching, but educating students. ?
Teaching is only a form, and education is the essence. To study in thousands of books, you should also take the Wan Li Road.
Real education is not to fill a bucket of water, but to light a fire.
Real education is to let children see clearly the road under their feet and have the ability to reach the distance.
06, the highest state of friendship
I haven't forgotten whether to contact or not.
Best friendship, probably? Not around, but in my heart? .
Not contacting does not mean not caring; Not saying hello doesn't mean you don't care.
True friendship will never fade because of time, nor will it be alienated because of distance.
To my long-lost friend: remember to add clothes when you are cold, and rest when you are tired. Life is not easy, you must take care of yourself!
07, the highest state of self-restraint.
Clean clothes, sincere heart, comfortable words and deeds, gentle face.
There is a saying on the internet:? No one has the obligation to find your beautiful heart through your sloppy appearance. ?
Dressing neatly and speaking gently is a person's most basic self-restraint.
Getting along with people who are really cultured will make people feel spring breeze and feel comfortable physically and mentally.
I hope we can walk with people who are comfortable with each other with a sincere heart.
08, the highest state of life.
Come crying and walk with a smile.
When we came into this world, everyone was laughing, only ourselves were crying.
When we left this world, everyone was crying. I wish I was laughing.
Life is like morning dew, who can have no regrets? If you don't let go, you will only torture yourself.
As the saying goes, there is no satisfactory life, only a cheerful life.
No matter how hard life is, smile and relax.
Life is a practice and a heart.
If you have peace of mind, life will be beautiful; If the heart is satisfied, life will be happy; Life will be happy only if the heart is happy.
All the joys and sorrows come from the heart, from our inner realm.