The person who despises Liu Bei the most in "The Romance of the Three Kingdoms". Whether it is Cao Cao's comment that "the juniors in Peixian County regard themselves as 'uncle of the emperor', which is a waste of loyalty, the so-called 'gentlemen are outside and villains are inside'" or the "big-eared thieves" who "weave mats and sell their children", we can see that Liu Bei The teacher’s popularity in the Three Kingdoms! Liu Bei became the emperor of Shu from a humble commoner who "weaved mats and sold shoes". It cannot be said that he was without merit. It is not difficult to see that Liu Bei's foundation depends on his employment and leadership skills.
The most famous part of Liu Bei's art of inviting people is the section "Three Visits to the Thatched Cottage". To be honest, Liu Bei does not have much talent, which can be seen from his attitude towards Pang Tong and Ma Chao. However, when it came to asking Kong Ming to come out, he showed another side of his talent.
First of all, in terms of attitude, Liu Bei can take good care of himself. His attitude is disguised again and again, even to the point of being a bit artificial, especially his attitude towards Zhuge Liang's family, friends, relatives, servants, and children. It even looks a little disgusting. Even his third brother, Comrade Zhang Fei, couldn't stand it. He felt that he had gone too far, but he read "Spring and Autumn". It truly embodies the premise of "people-oriented and respectful attitude".
Secondly, from the perspective of movements, Teacher Liu Bei also fully demonstrated the employment skills of "one modest, two moves and three high". First of all, "modest" means modesty. Through the introduction of Liu Bei, Sima Hui, and Xu Shu, we fully understand Zhuge Liang's habits and character. We know that Zhuge Liang is a conceited young intellectual. He is often a good teacher and likes to be superior to others. Therefore, when it comes to inviting Zhuge Liang to come out, you must first position yourself correctly, instead of raising your status first and then saying "clan of the Han Dynasty" in order to win the favor of his disciples. In fact, Liu Bei had a clear mind and knew that Zhuge Liang would not recognize him. He was very familiar with this intellectual mentality.
Second, saying "pat" is flattering. By understanding Zhuge Liang's self-comparison with Guan Zhong and Le Yi, Liu Bei will definitely make targeted flattery in this regard. Liu Bei would say in his heart, Teacher Zhuge, don't you compare yourself to the two politicians Guan Zhong and Le Yi? I just took a picture of you at home and directly called you two founding fathers Jiang Ziya and Zhang Zifang, which made Zhuge Liang faint. So he not only waited at home quickly, but also carefully prepared a good interview answer He played "Longzhong Pair" and hit it off with Teacher Liu Bei. Third, when you say "high hat", you naturally mean "wearing a high hat".
Liu Bei is best at giving Zhuge Liang a high hat. Putting aside the high hat of "Tuogu Baidi City", he can directly use death to complete the Zhuge Liang family's calculations. Just say these words and ask Zhuge Liang to come out, you can see the height of this hat. For example, when I visited the village, I wrote a letter to Zhuge Liang. The letter said: "Thanks to Mr. Wang's love and loyalty, and thanks to his talent and wisdom, the world is blessed! The society is very lucky!" Zhuge Liang not only put on Jiang Ziya A big hat like Sean, and it has directly risen to the heights of the world and the country! Zhuge Liang said modestly: "Liang is a man who tills the land. How dare he talk about the world?" Second, the public is wrong. Why can't the general give up jade and look for hard stone? At that time, Liu Bei directly gave Zhuge Liang the title of "Wizard of the World" and "Thinking of the World". He directly regarded Zhuge Liang as a wise man, forgot his reserve, and took the initiative to put forward his own idea of ??"three parts of the world". What's more, he was afraid that Liu Bei wouldn't understand, so he even took out a map he had prepared in advance. He had to say that Teacher Liu Bei was a genius.
Thirdly, from the perspective of the parties concerned, it is not difficult to see the characteristics of "stable, accurate and strict". Stability mainly means that a host who invites people like Liu Bei must have a stable mentality. No matter what kind of tests and accidents happen, he cannot interfere with his mentality. Be very clear that thick skin is the key to a good attitude. Accuracy means to look at people and things accurately, at least to see the characteristics of the other party, especially the weaknesses. Only by grasping the opponent's weaknesses can you be targeted, get twice the result with half the effort, and win directly. Ruthless, not decisive, but clean and not sloppy. Just like when Liu Bei saw Zhuge Liang being deceived, he never gave Zhuge Liang and A Liang a chance to think about the pros and cons, and took them away without any regrets. This is the real "short, flat, fast" and high efficiency!
Liu Bei's employment skills were not very clever, because some words were told to Cui and others, but in the end only Zhuge Liang won. This shows that the skills of employment are targeted and specific. Only by applying what you have learned can you win. Only then can it become true art, rather than simple "flattery".