The realm of love
The egret stands in the snow, the fool sees the egret, the wise man sees the snow, the wise man sees the white color
This is a Zen poem written by Mr. Lin Qingxuan, a Taiwanese writer , quite worth pondering. The first sentence of "Egret standing in the snow" shows a picture. The following are the gazes and different viewpoints of three people, respectively holding the three words "heron", "snow" and "white", thus expressing the aesthetics of people. The realms are arranged, the explanation is thorough, and the argument is incisive. Zen is a unique wisdom in life. When it comes to love relationships, Mr. Lin Qingxuan has another short poem to illustrate: People in love are like the positive and negative poles of magnets that attract each other and are in harmony with the desire to find each other's location. The echo in the valley discovers a deeper inner connection due to projection and response. The portrait's reflection when facing the water eliminates each other's differences due to contrast and integration. These two poems correspond to each other: the person who only looks at the "heron", only looks at the "heron". It's just "in love", so he is a fool; but when he sees "snow", he is a person who is "in agreement", and this kind of person is smart; only when he sees "white", he can achieve "unbreakable", and he is very wise. It's none other than him.
This is the three realms of love.