"There is another analysis of powerlessness, which is whether we are disconnected from the source of power. A person who is often powerless must have an invisible reason behind it, that is, he is not connected with his parents. Parents give us strength. If we have a bad relationship with our parents, we will definitely have no strength. Do you remember, WeChat, we will talk about it in the second afternoon of the dormitory wisdom course. To gain strength, we need to connect with our parents. Connection. Ancestors, just like a light bulb. When a light bulb lights up, it must be driven by a power source. If the light bulb is not connected to the power source, it is just a light bulb. It will not emit light and heat. The powerlessness allows us to see the relationship between us and our parents. If the relationship between parents is not good, the connection with the power of ancestors will be even worse." This paragraph is a text shared by a friend in the group.
So I responded: "It is a process of cultivating internal strength. I think the connection with the source of love is the most important, and it is worth exploring. As described in the paragraph just now, the light does not light up and the power supply is not connected. The key. Otherwise, no matter what we do, the light will still not turn on. Thinking about it from this perspective, I can’t help but write about it later. [Naughty]
This got me thinking. Where is the source of love?
How important is it to connect to the source of love?
How do I think this is? Experience and feel the process of cultivating your own inner strength.
I heard yesterday that Yu Qi was loved so much that she could be affectionate and caring to the friends around her. I was really envious. I was touched and taught a lot. I am grateful to be with Yu Qi, the angel of love. I am very lucky!
Last night’s schedule was a great challenge for me, including picking up the baby, cooking, and spending time with the baby! The deadline for writing homework and online homework is today.
This busyness starts from the moment I pick up the baby (at this time, adjust your mentality and focus on the child for the rest of the time) to pick up the baby at around 5 o'clock. At this time, the child had diarrhea and pooped on his pants, so I asked him what was wrong and comforted him. Fortunately, my husband helped me give him a bath and make dinner. , but he used his loving service to help me, and I was very happy! I gave my husband a deposit in time before he went out, and he was so happy that our children saw it. While we were eating, we complimented Dad on how delicious the food was. He usually takes a long time to eat, but he finished it quickly tonight, and the food was delicious and he enjoyed it. At 7 o'clock, it was time for homework. I told the child in advance that mommy would also do homework at night and we needed to do homework together! The child picked up his notebook and did his homework. After I cleared the table, I started to make up for the online class. After an hour, the child only wrote two or three words, so I stopped what I was doing and walked over to the child. Without blaming him, I asked him: "Do you need mom to accompany you?" "So I was next to him trying to figure out how to help him (in the past, I would be very anxious and crazy in this situation, and would constantly criticize and correct mistakes, and the child would also be very angry and hurt). I thought that boys like challenges very much. , I encouraged him by saying, "Write one line now without stopping, just pass the game. Are you willing to challenge it?" ) The child's condition is getting better and better, and the handwriting is getting faster and more beautiful. Later, he will also care about me and say, Mom, you should also do your homework. I can finish it by myself.) Just like that, it can be done on time at 9:30. Go to bed. The process is very sad, but because of the element of love, I want to say that both of us passed the test.
I am very moved by sharing this! I went to the balcony while doing my homework. Once. When I came in, the child said: "Mom, I want to tell you a secret. He pulled me to the balcony and said, "Mom, my brother turned on the video on his phone just now and turned the sound very loud, which affected my homework." I told my brother, I am doing homework, can you turn off your phone and turn it down? Then my brother lowered his voice. I didn't say loudly to my brother like before, please turn off your phone, I have to do my homework, it's so noisy. Mom, I didn't force my brother. (The boy was talking and demonstrating his movements, like a little adult) I was so surprised and touched when I heard what my brother said! Give him a big hug. It turns out that a scorching night can actually become so harmonious and warm. Just as Yanyan shared this passage, "An analysis of powerlessness, are we connected to the source of power?" Reflecting on our changes last night, it may be because when there is a loving connection between husband and wife, when children There is also a loving connection with parents, so children can feel love, receive love, live out love, and even pass on love. Just like Yu Qi can live out love, convey love and become a messenger of love.