Second, love is like tug-of-war. If one person lets go, another person will get hurt. One end of the train is always concerned, and the other end is always yearning. Some things last a lifetime. Not at first, not at last. Some love, have to let go, suddenly look back, has been unable to tell.
Third, all girls who have reached the age of love are always divided into two categories: one category says that it is happy to love each other more; The other school says that the other person loves me a little more, which is happiness. Maybe, we are all wrong. The form and weight of love have never been set in our hearts. What kind of love will you have when you meet a man?
A true friend is not someone who can't finish chatting together, but someone who doesn't feel embarrassed even if he doesn't say a word.
5. Say it if you don't understand. Don't say it when you understand it. Just smile.
Please don't forget what happened, just can't remember.
Seven, the cultivation of temperament, not for others, but to improve their ability to live. Self-cultivation is based on inner dialogue, in which man is both his accuser and his defender and judge. Cultivation is as important to the heart as food is to the body. Generally speaking, the easiest way to cultivate one's self-cultivation is reading. Educated people or ideal educated people are not necessarily learned people, but people who know their likes and dislikes.
Eight, there will always be things that you want to show off to the world but don't want to share with anyone.
Nine, we cherish a person, must be moved; You must be disappointed when you give up someone. People can only see clearly when they are down and out. Who poured cold water on the pots and pans, who was worried. People who accompany you can't do without a warm heart and an exchange of affection and righteousness. People who know you are irreplaceable, because they cherish you, so they don't leave. In fact, happy people don't get the best things in the world, but cherish the people they already have.
Ten, you were born in originality, don't die in imitation.
Don't wait for the perfect moment, seize the present and make it perfect.
Twelve, some people have big dreams, and some people have their own little happiness. There is no distinction between high and low, as long as you are happy. The sign of a person's maturity is not to disturb others' little happiness, nor to laugh at others' dreams, as long as they really participate in it. One day you will understand that it is impossible for everyone to like it, as long as the people around you and yourself like it. There is no need to listen to that noisy voice.
Thirteen, let those things that are not worth forgiving stay there to remind you that some people don't have to get along. I can be nice to you, provided that you are worth it. The most disappointed people in the world are swearing people. Intimacy is reserved for people who are kind to you.
Fourteen, many relationships don't have to be too close. When you meet so many people every day, not everyone should be friends. Many people just scratch the surface. A hedge between keeps friendship green. There is no need to exchange privacy or add WeChat. Most of the grievances and enmities are because they are too close, and they are not inferior. The originally polite relationship has begun to become awkward and uncomfortable. Where there is distance, there will be respect.
Fifteen, the west wind and yellow leaves are sparse, and there is no news for one year. Dreams are always empty unless you see them. Although dreams are empty, we meet in the middle of the season, and newcomers have no dreams. -Lu An Zhi
Sixteen, people who really love you will never leave you. Even if he has thousands of reasons to give up, he will always find a reason to stick to it.
Seventeen, sometimes I hate myself who is unwilling to be mediocre but does not work hard. I feel that I am not good enough and envy others to shine. In fact, most people are ordinary, but you don't see the efforts of others. Don't be depressed, don't panic, be a snail who climbs hard, or a stupid bird who keeps flying. We worked hard to grow up, stumbled all the way, and then we were black and blue. Stick to it, and one day, you will stand in the brightest place and live the life you once longed for.
Whenever there is nothing we can do, we like to say let nature take its course.
Nineteen, there are three ways to solve many of your problems: accept, change and leave. If you can't accept it, change it If you can't change it, leave.
Twenty, don't hesitate, don't entangle. It will be peaceful if you go far away. If you stand tall, you will know how to choose.
The more you know, the more you will find that you don't know.
Twenty-two, we are all a group of children who laugh recklessly in the sun, but cry hysterically in the moonlight.
Twenty-three, prosperous three thousand, bearish is a cloud; There are countless troubles, and it is sunny to think about it.
Twenty-four, if you have loved, it is best to leave, and those who have not come and met are the most suitable for you.
25. I really don't have to regret not meeting you in the most youthful and beautiful time, because what we want is not a love that can make the gods cry, but an everlasting warmth.
Twenty-six, neither cold nor hot, is the most comfortable temperature in nature, but in the emotional world, it is the most painful temperature.
Twenty-seven, I am a buttonwood, and the phoenix will come to live; I am the sea, and all rivers will come back.
Twenty-eight, too many times hope turned into disappointment, warmth turned into cold, and expectation turned into helplessness. People will feel tired and helpless in front of life. At this time, in addition to seeing the reality clearly, we need to learn to accept it. People who can't accept reality will be indifferent to reality.
Life is too short to leave regrets. If it's not the end, please go straight ahead with a smile.
When you lose everything, you know what you only want.
Many times, we always hope to get the good of others. At first, I was grateful. But after a long time, I just got used to it. Accustomed to a person's kindness to you, you take it for granted. One day, I am not good to you, and you will resent it. In fact, it's not that others are bad, but that our requirements have increased. When you get used to getting, you forget to be grateful.
The more people with stories, the more calm and simple, the more superficial and thin, and the more impetuous. The real strong man is not a man without tears, but a man who still runs with tears in his eyes. Be patient, be strong, and believe in yourself even if you can't see hope. The first thing we get old is not our looks, but our desperate enterprising spirit. Sometimes, you should dare to take on more burdens than you expected. After you really work hard, you will find yourself much better than you think.
Life can't be perfect, and there will be shadows in the sunshine, depending on what kind of mentality you use to look at life. Life is like this. Either you control your life, or you are led by it. How to get there is up to you.
Not all memories are beautiful, not all people are worth remembering, the river of years is too long, and most people and things will be washed away mercilessly.
Stop and relax when you can't finish the work; If you don't earn enough money, then look outside; Do not like the secular, quiet, let nature take its course; Endless sulking, speaking out, broad-minded; Endless entertainment, resignation, is good for health; Endless filial piety, take a walk and go home to see; Unfinished human feelings, weigh and do what you can; Endless future, slow down and stroll through life!
The most ruthless thing is not people, but time; The most precious thing is not money, but emotion; The most powerful thing is not the boss, but nature; The most terrible thing is not the disaster, but the helplessness after the disaster; The best thing is not to be professional, but to watch; The most terrible thing is not lovelorn, but psychosomatic insufficiency; The most comfortable place is not the hotel, but the home.
If you don't pursue what you want, you will never have it. Give time, let bygones be bygones and a new beginning.
Life is short, just a few decades. Living is a blessing, and health is a blessing. Since you are alive, choosing happiness is a day, and choosing pain is also a day. Why not choose happiness and live your life flatly? Maybe there are some things in life that are not only satisfying. If you are not alive, what is important? What is more important than health?
If you are still single, enjoy it. You are single not because you are not good enough, but because no one deserves you at present.
The saddest thing for people is not to lose too much yesterday, but to be immersed in yesterday's sadness. The stupidest thing about people is not that they don't find the trap in front of them, but that they fall in again for the second time. The loneliest thing for a person is not that the person he is waiting for hasn't come yet, but that the person has gone out from his heart. The most boring thing for people is not to dial a phone number casually, but to keep talking when others dial the wrong number.
Everyone has his own nature and lifestyle, and everyone has his own existence value. Don't sell yourself short and ignore other people's doubts, because there is only one you in the world.
The so-called maturity is not the aging of the heart, but the tears in the eyes, but we can still smile; There will always be a tear that makes us grow up instantly.
Many things in life are hard to meet and get, and those that are not expected often come unexpectedly. Therefore, we should have a carefree and comfortable heart, let everything go with the flow, without resentment, impatience, excessiveness, importunities, happiness for things, and sadness for ourselves. Fate is not resignation, but facing life with an open mind.
At every stage of life, cherish every moment with the person you love.
The only thing in the world that you can get for nothing is poverty, and the only thing that you can make out of nothing is a dream. Nothing can be done without hands. Although the world is cruel, as long as you are willing to go, there will always be a way; You can't see beauty because you didn't persist. There is no need to regret when you move forward. If it is beautiful, it is called wonderful; If it is bad, it is called experience.
Tomorrow's sun will not rise because of your disappointment; The moon won't stop setting tonight because of your complaints. Just because you are blindfolded doesn't mean that the world is dark; Blindfold others' eyes, when it's bright, it doesn't mean it belongs to you!
When you are alive, you always have to protect yourself with multiple thoughts. It is not the higher and deeper, but the happiness that is still strong in the big waves.
What faith can give a person is inner peace and dependence, rather than "talking about conditions and changing interests" with the gods-I believe you, you can make a fortune; If I believe you, I can have a harmonious family; I believe you, and I can get what I want from now on. When faith becomes an exchange of interests, it loses its meaning.
What we said, what we did, the road we walked, and the people we met are all memories of our future.
A person needs to have such a person in his life: even if he is thousands of miles apart, there are still endless topics when he meets you; Or, sitting next to each other, each busy, a few hours is just a whisper, still warm and full; In front of this person, you can lament with your eyebrows down, be arrogant, have no ambition, have no image, and have many shortcomings. This man is a confidant.
There is no road to despair in life, only a desperate heart. The other end of despair is hope, and the end of the crisis is the turning point.
Some things are destined to miss you, and persistence will eventually leave you; Some people can only be passers-by in your life If you linger on, all your expectations will eventually come to nothing. If it doesn't belong to you, then give it up. The world is vast and gloomy. What we can have is limited after all. Don't let endless desires bury the original happiness and happiness. If you want to catch anything, you can only catch nothing in the end.
The soul has a home, and life has a way out. Only by learning to be alone with yourself can the mind be clean, the mind mature and the mind broad.
When a person feels satisfied, bored, tired and peaceful, happiness is among them. When a person feels full, plays well, sleeps well and doesn't care, happiness is among them. What should be abandoned is helplessness, and what should not be abandoned is incompetence; Ignorance should give up if you don't give up, and persistence should not give up if you don't give up.
20 sentences about love: if you have love, don't touch ambiguity again.
1. There is a single person who can be desperate for love. What they are waiting for is just to let the person they are waiting for understand their mind, then choose themselves, and then, hand in hand, go on together. Don't be afraid of others' ridicule, because they always believe that the waiting person will come to your side and hug yourself.
2. Love means trying to be together. Don't believe the so-called Japanese and Korean soap operas that they leave because they can't make each other happy. Have you ever thought that you are each other's happiness? Love does not make you escape the responsibility of giving happiness to the other party, but makes you strive to realize the obligation of making the other party happy.
Many girls will soon fall in love with each other once they are moved. But I've always wanted to say that romance is not love, consideration is not love, and true love is to sacrifice part of yourself to make yourself better. What you want is not someone who can touch you, but someone who really loves you. Quotation network
4. Love can make people grow. Some things are really hard to remember, but please don't run away. If you get true love, you won't regret it. Love is the most precious wealth in a person's life. When you are too old to walk, believe that the richest person is yourself.
5. A beautiful meeting, a gorgeous opening is endless suffering. Just like love that is too young is never suitable for pursuit, because we are still on the road to growth. Some people can only leave; Some things can only be given up; Some memories can only be buried in my heart.
6. The person who really loves you is to accompany you to the future; True love is not a moment's commitment and confession, but the years we have passed together afterwards; True fate is not predestined arrangement, but mutual trust between two people.
7. In love, people who have really loved each other may break up, which is normal. People will change and their feelings will move, which is human nature. Unusually, people like to kidnap him or her for life with the past they once loved. Persistence is not necessarily true love, and letting go is not necessarily not knowing love.
8. When you fall in love with someone, you will be interested in getting to know him and willing to give yourself to him. Even if he makes you angry, you have made up your mind to forget him and ignore him from now on. When he whispers a word, you will forget all your complaints and just want to love him.
9. Love also falls into two categories. One is suspended in time and expands like fire and passion. One is deposited in the years, and the accumulation is still water and deep. Some feelings are always slow and late, it doesn't matter, as long as they are true. ......
10. The best love is that he is unmoved by ambition, not mercenary, and can cope with all kinds of challenges and temptations in life well. When he is with you, when he is brilliant, he will be proud of your glory; When you are down and out, he will cheer for your disappointment.
1 1. True love is the result. If there is no result, you can only call yourself loved. No matter who you love, there is only one result, and that is to accompany you to the end. That kind of love affair is actually getting farther and farther away from you, but it's a lie. Those who are full of true love and refuse to eat at all costs are just passing by.
12. Be kind to those who love you and don't want you to be upset, so force a smile and lie to you about those who are at ease, who care about you silently and never give up. If you are still hesitating, if you still care about him, you might as well give him a chance.
13. Love is always mixed with all kinds of feelings, but these feelings are changeable. They are not love itself, but the temperature of love, but you can decide what attitude to treat each other as long as you are willing. If you are good at water, follow good advice and follow your heart.
14. You can say that you are lucky when you meet the person you love, and you can say that you are happy no matter what the outcome is. It's good to grow old together, but if you love each other to the end, or grieve for love, it's also very happy, because, after all, you loved each other. ...
15. Some people are suitable for you but don't love you. Some people love you but it's inappropriate. If you want to know whether you love or not, don't listen with your ears, but look with your eyes. No matter how good the conditions are, you can't take what always makes you cry. What makes you laugh all the time is worth bearing. I'd rather smile and be tired than cry and enjoy it.
16. If there is love, don't touch ambiguity again. In the face of precious love, we need to be faithful. Withstand temptation and loneliness. Only in this way can we give each other the greatest sense of security and the road to love will be smooth.
17. In love, no one respects anyone, and no one dares to look at you. Please stay away from him; All confessions should be cherished, all hands should be blessed, don't look up to anyone easily, and don't deceive yourself against your will; Love is deep love, don't be afraid to lose it, superficial love is easy to dry up.
18. When you are injured, you will feel pain; However, one day, you will thank those who have loved and hurt you. All this is training. Then you will grow up, mature and wise. (This article comes from quotations. After crying all night, you will thank all the people who have known, loved, hurt and never been together. They created you.
19. Two people who cherish each other should not want to share each other, but feel good when they think of each other occasionally. More clear than ambiguity, more shy than ambiguity. You don't need a commitment, and you know it is the best meeting. If you ask for more in the name of love, it is not love, but possession.
20. Because we love him, we are afraid of losing him. We are afraid that if we are not careful, he will be abducted by some woman. As a result, we began to lose ourselves, become sensitive and suspicious. Love him, then we must trust him. Only by trusting him can you be happier.
Without her, he always wants to
In the days without her, he has been thinking that maybe after he is drunk, he really won't have sober thoughts and sadness, and maybe he can dance with her in the clouds after he is drunk. Maybe when he is drunk, he can hold her hand with tears in his dreams, and the words of * * * leave love. Maybe he won't feel a trace of sadness when he is drunk, but he is wrong.
If you are in full bloom, butterflies will come. If you are great, the days will be arranged by yourself.
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The best feeling is: fearless. Not afraid of losing, flattering, doubting love, being invisible, hiding, the future, external interference, and suppressing compromise. Without fear, you can fully accept the pay, and love will only accumulate under safe relaxation. He can be him, you or you. You are absolutely safe together.
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I'm not ignorant. I don't regret it.
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Life is about admitting the stupid things you do occasionally and then accepting the stupid things that others do occasionally.
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There are many people you think you can forget. Actually, no. They are always in a corner of your heart. Until the end of your life. In the end, you will miss the light in the dark in every corner, because they constitute your memories and feelings. But you can't hug them anymore. It was not until the end that I realized that the journey was a lost process that I never forgot.
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I think one day, I am suitable for a person, and we can have no computer and mobile phone all day. Eating delicious food, listening to music, talking about topics all over the world, and even sitting quietly all day, regardless of friendship or love, are taken for granted.
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We should think better of others and always be grateful for small things. This has nothing to do with others, because he doesn't need to know what you are thinking. Doing so will only make you happier.
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When you are young, it is easy to regard good feelings as likes, likes as love, and temporarily as a lifetime. This is called childishness.
When you grow up, it's easy to treat like as goodwill, love as like, and life as temporary. This is called missing.
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If you are in full bloom, butterflies will come. If you are great, the days will be arranged by yourself.
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We all met all the way and said goodbye all the way.
I will never suffer for a person's sudden departure, nor will I be ecstatic for a person's sudden appearance. Some people always suddenly disappear from your side, and then gradually disappear from your life. It's not that there is some kind of problem between you, and don't always think that his departure must be something he did wrong. Actually, this is normal. Because we all met and said goodbye, you came to my world, I left his world, and then you left my world and turned to his world.
At the age of one year, you and I can enjoy many sunrises and dusk. People can live a lifetime and spend several spring and autumn periods. Many times we missed each other before we met, and some people we met forgot to say hello to each other. Later, we hurried by, but in the end, no one could remember who it was. So what is the meaning of those encounters?
At the beginning, we watched the same movie together and cried together. At the beginning, we listened to the same song and studied its melody together, but we never sang together again. At first, we walked through some streets together and passed a supermarket. At the beginning, we sat in the shade and talked about our planned future, but the future never came, and people around us had already changed one after another.
I used to listen to "Who will you think of when you are lonely" and it is still stored in my mobile phone. Now no one can remember it. Some songs are brought into your life with someone. One day, after that person turns around and leaves, these songs will stay in your life forever. They can easily take root and sprout and cannot be completely eradicated. Once you moisten them with a little emotion, they can sprout and grow into flowers at once. These flowers are beautiful and ugly, beautiful and smelly. It doesn't matter what flowers will bloom in the future. The important thing is that you are willing to let them sprout.
We have been in love for a while, because we didn't know what it was. We walked together for some nights to warm each other, quench our thirst with a little liquid in our mouths, walked together for a while, and then left each other without waving goodbye and disappeared into each other's world.
I thought I would remember it for a long time until I couldn't remember it for a long time, but suddenly I found that some nights had long been forgotten. At first, I remembered some people's faces, but in the end, I forgot all about their backs.
I don't know when to go to bed every day, and then I don't know when to get up. Walking in the street, I don't know which direction, and I don't know where you have been in the crowd. On another street or in another group of people? Do you rest with your eyes open or think with your eyes closed? These are the distances between you and me after saying goodbye. Although they are close, they are separated by thousands of ravines. You don't need to come and I don't need to go, because we are still waiting for our next meeting after saying goodbye. Your name will never appear in those encounters again.
Some people are like messages inadvertently pushed on mobile phones. If you are interested, you will read them. If you are not interested, just slip your finger and delete it. But in fact, whether you watch it or not, the result is the same. You will forget it after a long time, because you know there will be such news on your mobile phone tomorrow, so there is nothing to care about.
Say goodbye to each other one day after meeting, and it is the meaning of those encounters that those who say goodbye can live better than before. I have read many stories, and some others have their own. Now we may not be together recently, and those stories will always help us to be young.
We met all the way, then said goodbye all the way, and pushed each other forward into memories. One day I won't feel sad when I think about it, and I don't have to feel that those who have appeared will never appear again once they leave. In fact, they just met another you at this moment and said goodbye to you.
I know that many people will leave one day, so I hug each other and say my last wishes. I also know that more people will meet me, so just smile and say welcome.
Love is a process in which both sides constantly expose their shortcomings.
Love makes people naive, love makes people grow, love makes people hurt, and love makes people forget the hurt. This is the meaning of love.
In the eyes of many people, my ex is the best, and my long-distance love with him is equivalent to a kind of performance art of spiritual self-abuse. But in those years, I always thought with a sense of superiority that those who didn't understand why I liked him lacked basic aesthetics and understanding.
They don't know him, so they don't understand the mystery. As the person who knows him best and is closest to him in the world, I know all his good things clearly. And to this day, the reason why I am infatuated with him is still convincing.
Often he hasn't changed, and I haven't changed, so why? Will a relationship end?
Because when two people are together, they will experience various situations: the growth of age, the increase of experience and the change of environment ... all of these will make you look at each other with new eyes and bring about subtle changes in feelings.
The qualities that attract you in him. Because you love, it has become an unparalleled advantage.
He has the same trait of hurting you, because your resentment will become an unforgivable shortcoming.
When you complain about all his unconventional unreasonable troubles, you probably forgot to think about it. Didn't you go back because he was different?
You will fall in love with a literary person because your idealization is unrealistic, and his beauty caters to all your wandering imaginations.
You will fall in love with a complicated person because of your great curiosity, and you will have more impulses to people you can't understand.
You will fall in love with an indifferent person because you never lack love when you grow up, and all you have is your opponent's rebellious mentality.
Did you finally complain about his indifference? Please reflect on how you treat those passionate boys who follow you by texting every hour.
Do you finally hate his selfishness? Please reflect on how you indulged him in the same behavior for several years until it became a habit of both sides.
Finally, did you attribute the reason to the inability to communicate? Please reflect on how you are addicted to this unpredictable and unexplored for many years.
So take a look. This paragraph with EX is almost as inevitable as fate. Of course, all this has nothing to do with personality problems, and all the reasons for breaking up are shattered glass. Now I know deeply. All this, damn it, is fate.
I really want to be a happy dissatisfied housewife. Set yourself as a tragic heroine to win everyone's sympathy, and revile the most. But sadly, after I reflected bit by bit, I found that all the original plots were arranged by myself.
I am bound to fall in love with such a person, and I am bound to be infatuated with his characteristics. I was destined to be killed by the same characteristics. Am I, am I not a gourmet?
Now I know: my personality determines who I will fall in love with, my perception of things determines what temperament I will be moved by, and my style of doing things determines what problems I will encounter ... All the injuries I have suffered are due to my blind spots in logic and the dead holes in my personality.
Because it's not a happy ending, we should position him as the best and define this relationship as a tragedy?
That's not true. How can I not prove my appreciation for men? Of course I know, I love his kindness, honesty, talent, talent, profundity, persistence in ideals and single-mindedness in feelings. Maturity disproportionate to his age, and the beautiful world hidden in his heart ... Similarly, because of these excessively neat characters, he can't adapt to many imperfections, his state has been bad, and he is wary and suspicious of all good and smooth things. Laughing at my blind optimism, he finally couldn't let go of himself and finally hurt me, the closest person to him.
And that relationship, because we are sincere and focused, can be innocent. We are friends, lovers, partners and rivals. Because we have shared our growth for so many years since adolescence, we will not feel lonely because of each other's existence.
Do I hate him? No, I hate myself.
I hate that I can't get rid of negative emotions with optimism; I hate that my tolerance and understanding are not enough to get us through all the difficulties; I hate my idealism, but I still have to bow my head in the face of more and more complicated and difficult problems; I hate myself for loving in an immature and unskilled way, which leads to an unbearable situation for both sides.
At one time, I couldn't let go of all my investment and didn't want to face emotional problems rationally. I am too vague about all this, but now I admit that he made me, a stubborn and proud person, bow my head and admit my failure. He let me know more about myself, who to love and how to love. This is his last parting gift to me, and this is the best blessing I have ever received.
I found something I didn't have and experienced another state. My experience has changed. I entered a new stage.
In the final analysis. Everyone is a little "weird", isn't it? Everyone is good for others, and everyone has a silly side in the eyes of others.
Love is a process in which both sides constantly expose their shortcomings. You look at him with love, he is always gentle and lovely. After being together for a long time, you will always get valuable experience.
Love makes people naive, love makes people grow, love makes people hurt, and love makes people forget the hurt. This is the meaning of love.