These unintentional words often cause psychological harm to children. The following are some reprimands commonly used by parents. I hope that parents and friends can "show mercy" to their children in their lives after reading it.
"The older you get, the more disobedient you are."
1-2-year-old children have limited range of activities and autonomous ability, but when they are 3 years old, their activities increase obviously. He is full of curiosity and exploration about the world and can't be "good". He always goes through naughty and egocentric stages.
But as a parent, it is easy for you to yell at your child: "The bigger you are, the more disobedient you are!"
Tip: Parents should understand the growth characteristics of children at this stage of development and respect their growth behavior.
"The older you get, the more disobedient you are." Not only is it easy to cause psychological harm to children, but it will also make children feel at a loss. "What did I do wrong?"
Parents are advised to use some sympathetic sentences when blaming their children, such as: "I know you really want to go out to play, but only if you finish breakfast, otherwise how can you have the strength to play?"
"I'm just teasing you."
The whale teacher watched a short video the other day. In the video, a 4-year-old boy has a small wound on his leg. His mother said to him, "honey, close your eyes. Mom will take care of it for you."
The little boy closed his eyes and asked his mother to help him dress the wound. In the video, the mother painted "blood" on the boy's wound with lipstick, pretending to be frightened. "What should I do?" Bleeding more ... "
Looking at the face of the little boy who cried but pretended to laugh, his mother laughed her head off. ...
Tips:
For children, don't be funny with words that seem humorous but actually hurt people. Some words are really not suitable for children to say.
"What did I say just now?"
I said "rules" before going out, but my words went in one ear and out the other.
Tips:
In this case, if you really care that your child doesn't meet your requirements, I suggest you don't use "what did I just say?" To blame him.
You can clearly remind your child to say, "I'm a little angry now. We made an appointment before going out and could only buy two things. "
"I can't do it if I sayno."
Don't show off your parents in front of children "because I am your father". This self-centered discourse of "I can't do it if I say no" is too professional and arbitrary, and it is difficult to be sincerely obeyed without making a reasonable explanation with facts.
Tips:
"Arbitrariness" is not the best way of education. Learning to discuss with children and respecting their choices is the choice of wise parents.
Being a parent is the best practice in life.