How does a woman face marriage and love at the age of 30?
My girlfriend in her thirties is still in the boudoir, and the reason for her failure is that she is smart and capable. This is the common experience of female white-collar workers in modern cities. Because I am smart, I have a mirror-like account in my heart, and the pros and cons are clear; Because they are capable, fearless and arrogant, it is difficult for ordinary people to get into their eyes.
At the age of 20, you can fall in love with a man who has nothing, because he has a dream and a future; 30 years old, as far as I can see, proletarians have no place to stand. This is not to say that there is no emotion in my heart, only material things. It's just that in a real marriage, the more you have, the more you are asked to give. It is said that marrying a daughter is better than my family, and marrying a daughter-in-law is weaker than my family. Tradition is like this and will never change.
As a result, there are only the worst men and the best women left in this world. Needless to say, when girls are looking for the right man, how many hope that the other person is not as good as themselves? When a girlfriend doesn't buy a car, a man who drives to an appointment can make her sit up and take notice; My girlfriend has a Jetta car, and the owner of Li Xia Alto is naturally inferior; When my girlfriend opened the skylight and drove Passat to travel, I shouted: Don't open the date, it's so scary. Not to underestimate a man's confidence, but in any case, a young woman who drives a good car is somewhat stressed.
No man likes a woman who puts pressure on herself as soon as they meet. Why judge a stranger? Of course, it's those things that I first saw. At this time, you can't force others not to judge a book by its cover. Appearance, manners, speech, tolerance, even if it is love at first sight, the standard of judgment can not escape these.
And the way you look at people must have something to do with experience. This is not much different from "Jianbao". The connoisseur can see the real thing at a glance because he has seen too much. Only people who have never seen anything will treat all the broken cans as treasures. Reading countless people naturally loses the ability to fall in love at first sight. What a girlfriend has is exactly experience. A handsome guy driving a "Mei Jia" was very conspicuous when he took part in the travel activities organized by the club. His girlfriend kept an eye on the fire, listened to his words and deeds, and then concluded that he was just a driver.