Whether it is love or other things related to people, no matter how important you regard it, there is a fact that cannot be ignored: they are only accessories of life.
You can say that love is your life, but your life is not love. You didn't have love first, but you had love first. Love can make your life more meaningful, but it is not enough to support your life.
This is not to say that love is unimportant, but that the cart before the horse cannot be put. Love is important, but living is more important. If you can't even live a good life, what love can you talk about? Who can you love and who can love you?
Mr. Lu Xun once said in "Regret for the Past": People should live and love is beautiful. No matter what the background of Mr. Wang's era is, fundamentally speaking, as we said above, you live first, live well, and your love will have a chance to shine.
The so-called "don't forget your own initiative" can't just be the initial intention of "feeling how important love is". More importantly, you have to live well so that your love can have a foothold.