But there is no moon in the Spring Festival. Wrong, the cycle of the ancient Spring Festival was very long. From New Year's Eve to Lantern Festival, everyone is still wanting more. As a result, scholars of all ages have quoted the classic of "Sang Jian Pu Shang" to warn their children and grandchildren that it is ok to cultivate one's mind and cultivate one's nature during the Spring Festival, but it is not out of line.
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There is no need to explode this material again, is there? What does this mean? It shows that the ancient Spring Festival is just a good time for men and women to fall in love, and it is also a high incidence period for men and women to cheat. The reasons are nothing more than the following.
It's hard for slaves to come out, but you can be merciful.
Zhou Xiao's heartfelt words have universal significance in ancient times.
It's really hard for a big girl and a little wife to be away all the year round.
Yes, in the pre-Qin and even the Han Dynasty, women didn't have so many shackles, and there was an affair between men and women, which seemed to be supported by * * *. The Book of Songs says, "My Fair Lady makes a gentleman a good gentleman." "A woman fell in love with spring, and Ji seduced her." "A quiet woman is unique, as long as I am in the corner of the city." "The so-called Iraqis are on the water side." Liezi Tang Wen also said: "Men and women travel together and don't hire media." "Han Shu" also talked about the folk customs of Yan State: "In the land of Yan State, guests have passed, and women stay up late; On the night of the wedding, there is no difference between men and women, but they are proud of it. "
It can be seen that in those days, it was not shameful for men and women to fall in love or even have sex. But after the Middle Ages, the bondage of women began to increase. Men don't care, but the other half of the dragon has disappeared and can only sigh.
On the other hand, during the Spring Festival, * * * will hold various activities, such as Lantern Festival and various garden parties, but both men and women can't help traveling in different places. Both Han and Tang dynasties recorded that "Wu Jin couldn't help climbing high and looking far". "Jin Wu" means holding Jin Wu, the official name, which is equivalent to a corrupt policeman. In the Tang dynasty, the curfew was lifted for three days, allowing people to entertain all night.
"Historical Records" records: "At the meeting of Zhou Lu, men and women sat together, drinking and thinking, throwing pots for six strokes, shaking hands without punishment, and they couldn't help themselves. There is a fall in front of my eyes, a hairpin behind me, a column of wine in the sunset, a joint worship to promote sitting, men and women sitting at the same table, staggered, messy cups and plates, candles in the class extinguished ... Luo Luo unlined upper garment, I smell incense. " The so-called "Huizhou" is a large-scale garden activity organized by the local government.
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Sima Guang is a great scholar. During the Spring Festival, his wife Yang also said that she would go out to see the Lantern Festival. Sima Guang asked what to see, and Yang said that many people are busy. Sima guang is happy: strange, what is there to see in people? Am I not a person, but a ghost? This shows that traveling during the Spring Festival is also normal in the Song Dynasty.
As long as women take to the streets, "geeks" naturally have the opportunity to seduce and steal. So, we saw many ancient anecdotes.
There will always be one or two of him behind the custom.
Su Weidao's poem "The 15th Night of the First Month" says: "The fire trees and silver flowers are combined, and the stars and bridges are locked. The crowd is surging and the dust is flying under the horseshoe; Moonlight shines in every corner, where people can see the moon overhead. Prostitutes are rich in plums and songs are beautiful. Wu Jin couldn't help staying at night, and the jade leaked. " There are many women among them, and there are also many people who don't come home all night. The reason is custom.
There are two tasks for ancient women to travel during the Spring Festival, one is to stay away from all diseases, and the other is to touch the doornail.
The Qing Dynasty's Calendar Year Volume 1: "In Izayoi in the first month of Yancheng, women traveled in groups, and the first one held incense and made a name for it. Anyone who has a bridge has a high phase rate and is full of diseases. I also secretly touched the front doornail, and the winner was lucky. " Li Fuqing's "Du Men Zhu Zhi Ci": "The female companion wears a gold hoop tuxedo with long sleeves and leaves late. The nails in the front door are hard to touch. Who should it be this year? "
Walking away from all diseases is actually a fitness exercise, but it is not so ambiguous. The latter is hard to say. Touching the doornail means that the woman is married but not pregnant. It's like a woman worshipping Guanyin, and all the information comes out of this worship.
Monks also use this information to sow discord, let alone lay people.
In ancient times, carrying on the family line was an important event in a woman's life, as well as her position in her husband's family and her future destiny. Infertility, for a married woman, is much worse than infidelity, from the emperor's empresses to the gentry. Didn't you see that foreign infertile women came to China to borrow seeds? With the opportunity of traveling in the Spring Festival, it seems too much for the little wife to give birth to this idea. "Giggling considerate, slightly smelling the fragrance" or light. When you meet a lovely man, "I don't hate being born blind."
Go home and continue to be childhood friends.
Growing up, everyone has a person who can't let go of him (her). It is a childhood memory and an unforgettable memory. The Spring Festival is coming, and the wanderers in the distance are back. As an old lover, do you watch it or not? At the end of the year and the beginning of the year, today is the high incidence of reunion of old lovers and rekindling of old feelings, and it was the same in ancient times.
"Xue Fei Lu" said: "On the 16th day of the first month, northern scholars took nine lines of old calendar paper as a rope, and before and after the chaos, it was a sign of belonging, which was called the knot." Sticking a sheep intestine means "nine bends and ileum", which means that a woman loves spring: when she is like a pair of mandarin ducks, when she sees a distant lang. Unfortunately, on the 16th day of the first month, his heart hasn't come back yet, so it seems hopeless. With this ardent friendship, once that person stands in front of him and meets him, what happens after the meeting is not suitable for children.
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Zhou Bangyan in the Northern Song Dynasty described it most aptly: "A whip is clear and happy to go home, and a hangover is sleepy." There is a light rain at night, and the wind of the double swallow dance is oblique. The mountains are endless, and the water is endless. Send the taste of spring, the feelings of missing, and the dedication to Huayang. "It's delicious to go back to my hometown to see my old lover, but he still has to go after all. That parting is like seeing off spring, which is touching to read.
There is another one in the dim place of the Lantern Festival.
In a foreign land, as a stranger, I miss my loved ones twice on holidays. At this time, the moon is bright, what do you think? Xin Qiji strolled around Yuanxiao in the evening of January and wrote a sapphire case to tell you the answer:
"There are thousands of trees in the east wind night, and the stars are like rain. BMW carved cars are full of incense. Phoenix flute moves, jade pot turns, fish dragon dances all night. Moths, snow, willows, gold thread, laughter and incense are all gone. Look for him in the crowd. Suddenly looking back, the man was there, and the lights were dim. "
This is an affair in a foreign land, and there is another situation, that is, brothels.
In ancient times, Jiao Fang * * * belonged to an official prostitute, and she had to be an official whenever and wherever. For example, during the Shaoxing period in the Song Dynasty, Jiao Fang's name was abolished. In the event of a big meeting and a holy day, the conductor will line up and guide the music before driving, and the musicians in front of Lin' an yamen will dial ... "... but on the first day of New Year's Day, there is no formal service, so you can gather in the brothel to play orchestral entertainment. Wanderers in a foreign land can also take part in Spring Festival travel rush and enjoy a Spring Festival.
Private prostitutes are relatively free. If you are not shy, rent a prostitute as your girlfriend to celebrate the New Year together.
In a word, the Spring Festival is a period of high incidence of cheating between men and women in ancient times, which is beyond doubt.