How to overcome this kind of indecision and indecision?
1. self-reliance: cultivate the courage and confidence of self-confidence, self-reliance and self-reliance, and cultivate the good quality of independent will in one's own personality.
2. decide whether to choose or not: don't pursue perfection. "There is no shortage of gold, no one is perfect", and people can decide whether to choose or not if they don't violate the general principle.
3. Be courageous and knowledgeable: According to psychology, people's decision-making level is closely related to their knowledge and experience. The richer a person's knowledge and experience, the higher his decision-making level; On the contrary, the lower. This is what the saying goes, "Be courageous and knowledgeable, and be knowledgeable and courageous." .
4. Active thinking: "Everything is given, it is established, and if it is not given, it will be abolished". Always use your head at ordinary times, study hard and think more, which is the premise and foundation of having an opinion at a critical moment.
5. Calm down when things go wrong: eliminate external interference and hints, stabilize emotions, and carefully analyze them from the outside to the inside, which is also helpful to cultivate decisive will.
If you can't make up your mind, just follow your sixth sense. No matter right or wrong, you don't have to regret success or failure, at least you have tried! 2. Excuse me, can you tell me some poems about change?
Poems about change:
1. Things are not empty and heartbroken, but people dream of entering Fangzhou Road.
2. Although the flowers can be pecked next year, it's impossible for people to go to the empty nest!
3. where long ago a yellow crane bore a sage to heaven, nothing is left now but the Yellow Crane Terrace. The yellow crane never came back, for thousands of years to see the long white clouds.
4. Clouds and shadows are lingering in the idle pool, and things change for stars to move for several years. Where is the son of the emperor in the pavilion? The Yangtze River flows freely.
5. All things are not right, and what comes with them is different.
6. Last year, today, in this door, the face of peach blossoms set each other off, and the face of peach blossoms still smiles in the spring breeze.
7. Life hurts the past several times, but the cold current is still on the pillow. Today, every sea is home day, so it is raining and reeding in autumn.
8. After three days, you should be impressed.
9. Where are the people who come to play with the moon? The scenery is vaguely like last year.
1. Who lives in Wuyi Lane? Looking back, I am grateful to my family.
11. Things are different. The mountains are long and the waters are wide, so you should think about them everywhere.
12. Things are people who don't do everything, and tears flow first.
13. is like a spring gale, come up in the night, blowing open the petals of ten thousand pear trees.
14. From the present to the present, things are different. In the world, only Jiangshan is not old.
15. On the Lantern Festival this year, the moon and lights remained the same. Not seeing last year, tears wet the sleeves of the spring shirt!
16. Have you seen how lovely locks in bright mirrors in high chambers and though silken-black at morning, have changed by night to snow?
17. When I heard the flute and axe in my hometown, I turned out to be a rotten ke.
18. The flowers are similar from year to year, but people are different from year to year.
19. Castle Peak is still there, and the sunset is red several times. The urgent need for change
Change yourself
Life is often not smooth sailing. Sometimes, in order to make greater progress, we need to change ourselves.
changing yourself is a process of self-improvement. Lu Meng, a famous Soochow player in the Three Kingdoms period, is a good example. At the beginning, Lu Meng only knew how to dance with knives and guns, but he could not be diligent in cultivating cultural knowledge. After Sun Quan pointed this out to Lu Meng, Lu Meng studied hard, and later even Lu Su said, "Don't be with me for three days." Because of Sun Quan's words, Lv Meng changed himself, and truly achieved both civil and military skills, laying the foundation for the achievement of Wu's hegemony. Lu Meng naturally perfected his personality and self-cultivation and successfully changed himself.
changing ourselves can temper our will. The caterpillar has changed into a butterfly, which has undergone arduous transformation. If it gives up, it will fall short. The process of changing yourself is like climbing a mountain. Facing the brand-new self at the top of the mountain, you can only reach the top of the mountain with unremitting efforts. Although you will encounter unexpected difficulties in the process of climbing, if you overcome it, you will eventually find that your willpower is stronger than before. When you change yourself, you also hone your will. This is fundamentally inevitable and complementary.
changing ourselves can make us better adapt to life. Everyone's life can't be smooth sailing. What will you do when you meet a brand-new living environment? The answer is to change yourself. Because you cannot ask society or others to change anything for you. I know two people, A and B. Their personalities are very introverted, even a little closed. After entering junior high school, in order to better adapt to the living environment and actively change himself, A made many good friends when he graduated from junior high school, and his social skills became stronger and his communication was wider. On the other hand, he is even more closed than before. It can be seen that changing ourselves can make us better adapt to the living environment.
fundamentally speaking, changing yourself is a re-understanding and re-creation of yourself. When you find that you need to make changes, it shows that you have a clear head. I can realize that I need to make some changes to live better. This is an improvement of self-awareness. This kind of promotion is what we need, and driven by this kind of re-understanding, you have re-created yourself. People who can change themselves are extraordinary people, and this re-creation is helpful for future life. When we face adversity or bumps, we immediately realize that we need to change and can put it into action immediately, and we have been able to reach the realm of "change".
So, let's all learn to change ourselves. In order to make greater progress, we should be good at changing ourselves and dare to change ourselves, so as to get a brand-new ourselves!
Change yourself
A big tree that has been growing in the mountains for many years was pruned and transplanted into a newly-built park. People around it, talking. One said, "Without this transplant, it will not be appreciated. To be appreciated, we must change our living environment." And I want to say: "to be appreciated, you must change yourself!" "
Everyone is a beautiful landscape, there is only one unique you in the world, and the world will not change for you. Therefore, we should change ourselves! The environment will never take the initiative to adapt to ourselves, but we can change ourselves, adapt to the environment and succeed.
Maybe, we don't have the romance of Zhuang Zhoumeng Butterfly, and Zhuangzi's detachment of "being in the mud"; Perhaps, we can't recommend Xuanyuan with blood like Lu Xun, a lonely fighter, and profoundly reveal the inferiority of the Chinese nation for thousands of years; Perhaps, we don't have Helen Keller's courage to explore the unknown world with her heart, but at least, we can change ourselves, accept the influence of Zhuangzi, accept the strong voice of Scream and Hesitation, accept the baptism of If you give me three days' light, and change ourselves with the help of books.
Tao Yuanming changed himself when he was an official for just over 7 days. He can't change the darkness of officialdom. He can only change himself. He doesn't bend his back for a bucket of rice, and keeps company with chrysanthemum. Although his official career is gone, his noble ambition is appreciated by history and remembered by future generations. When Li Bai, a royal scholar, called for the white deer that he kept among the green cliffs, that is, he rode to visit the famous mountains, he changed himself. Li Bai thought that he would show his ambition, but he didn't think that he was just singing praises for the court. Unable to change the officialdom, he had to change his ambition, send his feelings to the mountains and rivers, and look at the famous mountains and rivers. Although he failed to fulfill his dream of crossing the heavens and latitudes, he created half a poem in the prosperous Tang Dynasty, which was praised by later generations. They changed themselves, but also changed the times. Although they were not admired by the people of the time, they were remembered by future generations and shone in the sky of history.
those who can't change themselves can only be eliminated by the environment. Although the old shoemaker in john galsworthy's Quality has the best shoemaking skills in the city, he is unwilling to change himself, so that he can't keep up with the era of mechanization, insists on making each pair of shoes by hand, and finally starves to death in his own shoe shop. Only by changing yourself can we keep pace with the times and not be eliminated by the environment.
change is an eternal law. Only by changing yourself can the blood drops of will and the sweat of hard work be turned into the nectar of Mika, and only then can the eternal hope and the eternal dream be built into an impregnable iron wall ... 4. Poems about beauty
1. A gentleman is always striving for self-improvement.
As a gentleman, we should have a strong will, never-ending spirit of struggle, strive to strengthen self-cultivation, complete and develop our studies or careers, and only in this way can we reflect the will of heaven and live up to the responsibilities and talents given to the gentleman by the universe. 2. Don't do it with small evil, and don't do it with small good.
-Liu Bei's translation of the Three Kingdoms: Don't do anything just because it is a small and inconspicuous bad thing; On the contrary, for some tiny. A good thing that benefits others, don't stop doing it just because it doesn't mean much.
3. Seeing the good is not as good as seeing the bad. -"The Analects of Confucius" translation: When you meet a good person, you are afraid that it is too late to learn from him. When you see a good thing, you are afraid that you will not be able to do it.
Seeing evil people and things is like touching hot water. You should leave immediately and stay away. 4. It is far from complaining if you bow to others and blame others.
-The Analects of Confucius translation: Those who work hard and take the initiative to take the main responsibility for their mistakes are "bowing to be generous" and forgiving others more, which is "blaming others less". In this case, they will not resent each other. 5. A gentleman's adult beauty is not an adult's evil.
the villain is the opposite. -The Analects of Confucius translation: A gentleman always starts from the good wishes or the wishes that are beneficial to others, wholeheartedly urges others to realize good wishes and just demands, and does not look at the world with cold eyes.
Or fear that the world will not be chaotic, and will not add fuel to the fire when others have failures, mistakes or pains. The villain, on the other hand, is always "the evil of adults, not the beauty of adults."
6. See the sage Si Qi, and introspect if you don't. -"The Analects of Confucius" translation: When you see someone who has more advantages and advantages than yourself in a certain respect, you should consult modestly, study hard, and try to catch up with him and reach the same level with him; When you see someone with some shortcomings or deficiencies, you should calmly reflect and see if you also have his shortcomings or deficiencies.
7. don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. Don't impose what you don't want (pain, disaster, disaster, etc.) on others.
8. Do your duty and don't yield to your teacher. -"The Analects of Confucius" translation: You should not hesitate to do something good, even if the teacher is on the side, you should rush to do it.
later developed into the idiom "do one's duty". 9. A gentleman is slow in words but quick in deeds.
-The Analects of Confucius translation: A gentleman can't talk big, but he is agile and dexterous in doing things. 1. two people are United, and their profits are broken; Words of one mind stink like blue.
-Zhouyi translation: people who work together are strong enough to break hard metal; People with one heart and one mind express their unanimous opinions, which are persuasive, and people are like smelling fragrant orchids, which are easy to accept. 11. A gentleman hides his weapon in his body and waits for the time.
—— Translation of Zhouyi: Even if a gentleman has outstanding skills, he will not show off or show off everywhere. But to display one's talents or skills when necessary.
12. full of losses, modest benefits. -"Shangshu" translation: Being complacent about what you have achieved will bring losses and disasters; Being humble and always aware of your own shortcomings can benefit from it.
13. Isn't it a gentleman to be ignorant and not satisfied? If I have made some achievements that others don't understand, I will never feel angry or wronged. Isn't this also a kind of gentleman's demeanor? 14. Keep your word and do what you want.
-Translation of The Analects: If you say something, you must keep your word; Once you have determined what you want to do, you must go ahead resolutely and boldly. 15. I don't care, I don't care, I don't care, I don't care.
-Translation of The Analects of Confucius: Tell the truth, not speculate out of thin air; Do not be arbitrary, willful, and feasible; Act flexibly and not rigidly; Everything is not centered on "me", not self-righteous, and people around you work together to complete the task. 16. In a threesome, there must be a teacher, choose the good one and follow it, and change the bad one.
-The Analects of Confucius translation: When three people are together, one of them must be worth learning in some way, then he can be my teacher. I choose his advantages to learn, and I will take warning from his shortcomings and deficiencies, and if there are, I will correct them.
17. A gentleman seeks himself, while a villain seeks others. A gentleman always blames himself, finding faults and problems from himself.
villains often look at others to find their shortcomings and shortcomings. An upright man is open and poised while a petty man is anxious and worried..
—— Translation of The Analects of Confucius: A gentleman is open-minded, frank and clean in thought, and his appearance and movements are very comfortable and stable. The villain has too many desires in his heart and a heavy psychological burden, so he is often worried and worried, and his appearance and movements are also uneasy. He is often restless and unstable.
19. don't complain, don't treat others. -Translation of The Analects of Confucius: When encountering setbacks and failures, never make excuses objectively and never shift the responsibility to others. Later, it developed into the idiom "complaining about others".
2. Don't be angry. Translation of The Analects: If you make a mistake, don't take it out on others, and don't make it again. )
21. If you can't bear it, you will make great plans. -"The Analects of Confucius" translation: What should not be done, even if you really want to do it, but insist on not doing it, is called "forbearance".
if you can't bear small things, it will affect the overall situation and ruin big things. 22. A villain's mistakes must be written.
-Translation of The Analects: A villain must cover up his mistakes. 23. It is too much to live without changing.
-Translation of The Analects of Confucius: If you make a mistake and don't correct it, it's a real mistake. 24. a gentleman's business is based on the truth.
-Translation of The Analects of Confucius: A gentleman devotes himself to the root, establishes the root, and "Tao" naturally comes into being. 25. A gentleman is ashamed of his words but not his deeds.
-Translation of The Analects of Confucius: A gentleman thinks it is shameful to talk too much and do too little. 26. Look before you leap.
-The Analects of Confucius translation: Every thing must be done after repeated consideration. 27. Many lines of injustice will hang themselves.
-Zuo Zhuan translation: If you do too many bad things, you will eventually bring about your own destruction. 28. No one has made mistakes, but they can change, and it is not a big deal.
—— Zuo Zhuan translation: Everyone may make mistakes and make hunting mistakes. As long as they are corrected, they are still the best people. 29. Don't hide your virtue with one brush.
-Zuo Zhuan translation: When judging a person, you can't deny his credit just because of a little mistake. 3. If a person can do it, he will do it. People can do it in ten ways, and they can do it in thousands.
-Translation of the Doctrine of the Mean: People can learn it at once. If I spend hundreds of times, I will certainly learn it. What others can master ten times, if I learn it a thousand times, I will certainly master it.
31. It's almost brave to know shame. To know what shameful behavior is is a good sign of courage.
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