What if people are dumb and can't talk? "Say" is an important bridge between people to express and communicate. Although almost everyone can speak, speaking seems simple, but it is actually a science. Some people offend people because they are dumb and can't speak. What if the following sharers are all dumb and can't talk?
What if people are stupid and can't talk? 1 First, improvise.
When you need to use language to control the rhythm, when you need to do a lot of instant feedback! Then you must do impromptu exercises. In your spare time, grab a newspaper, turn to a paragraph at will, and then try to read it all at once. After reading it, quickly sort out your thoughts and decompose and extend what you see until you have a clear structure and extension direction in your mind.
If you do this for a long time, your answering ability and reaction speed will become very good. Here, I suggest watching more news at ordinary times, and it is best to make short comments on the news.
Second, retelling exercises
When you need to repeat or relay what others say, when you need to confirm the content of other people's information! Then be sure to do retelling exercises. Simply put, it is to repeat what others have said. You can find a thought partner to train with. First of all, ask the other person to talk about a topic or a story casually. Listen carefully first, and then repeat each other. This connection lies in the coherence, improvisation and organization of training language.
It would be better if you could repeat it in front of everyone, which will also exercise your courage and overcome your nervousness. If you want to know the truth when you speak! Then you'd better film your own voice and speech process every time you practice, observe it repeatedly, and study repeatedly where it is stuck, where the gestures are not in place, where the expression is unnatural and so on.
In this way, you will consciously improve and break through yourself, and you will make real progress. This is an era when everyone can speak, the social tolerance is greatly improved, and everyone has the opportunity to stand in front of the stage to show themselves, so the ability to speak has become more important than before.
From super speaker to lecture, from youth to Qipa, from TED to a seat. Speech and eloquence are paid more and more attention in society, and you always have the opportunity to show your style. Don't hesitate, please act at once.
A method of practicing eloquence with a clumsy mouth and tongue
The most important ability to be a leader is to lead a team rather than work alone, and a person who is not good at words or even afraid to speak in public will certainly not be able to convince the public.
For example, Cai Zhenhua promoted Liu as head coach, not because of Liu's "Grand Slam". According to Cai Zhenhua's original words, "He can express himself clearly", then Kong Huiling, who is also famous for her clumsy mouth and tongue, can only be a successful athlete, not a successful coach with a team.
This also shows the importance of being good at verbal expression, especially the ability to speak in public, because it is an opportunity to show yourself in front of the public, and it is an opportunity for superior leaders and subordinate employees to recognize you and even admire you. If you can't show yourself in this opportunity, your personal development will definitely be seriously restricted.
1, first exercise the ability to speak in public.
The method of exercise can be combined with work. The first step is in the conference room. Every meeting, the occasion should be formal: everyone should sit down and the spokesman must stand in front of everyone and make a formal speech. In this way, you can gradually exercise your courage, because even "losing face" is small and not too embarrassing, so you can gradually cultivate everyone's face first.
Some companies require a morning meeting every morning, which is the best exercise opportunity. This method is particularly effective. Although some three or five people in the company usually speak eloquently, even this small meeting occasion can make most people blush and gasp. As long as you continue to exercise like this, after five or six times, you can make everyone "thick-skinned."
Anyone who wants to speak will stand on the podium and speak in front of everyone. If it is a group company, so much the better. Let the speaker make a formal speech in front of the employees of other branches, and the effect will come faster.
2. Dare to look directly into the eyes of the audience below.
The reason why ordinary people get flustered as soon as they go to the podium is because they feel that others are watching and paying attention to themselves, and people with "thin skin" are at a loss. In this case, there are essential differences between ordinary people and actors. Actors are all "crazy". The more people look at her (him), the more proud she (he) is. She (he) likes others to appreciate her (him).
Moreover, people with thin skin will be at a loss not only on the podium, but also on the street, because what they think is: someone is watching themselves. In fact, who will look at you in the street? Occasionally, I just glance at it. It's entirely my own psychology.
In the same way, people with thin faces must first have the idea that no one cares about themselves, that they are neither beautiful nor ugly, that no one likes themselves, and that no one hates being in public. As long as you think so, you can settle down first
Then we should be bolder, "cheeky": take the initiative to scan and look at the eyes and expressions of the opposite audience. As long as you look directly at each other, you can make them unnatural.
In essence, it is to defeat the audience with your eyes first. By doing so, your mood will be stabilized. Most people on the podium will be flustered if they just keep their heads down and dare not look up at the audience below. And people who don't look up and speak on the podium, even if they are fluent in language, will give you the impression that "this person is a little obscene"?
3. Write the main points of the speech in advance
If you want to say something, you must be prepared first and list 1, 2, 3 in your notebook or a piece of paper. When you speak, you won't forget what you want to say for a while. For what you want to tell the public at the beginning, you can write the content in detail. After the "skill" reaches a certain level, you can play it freely on the spot as long as you write a few key points. Of course, it still takes a long time to exercise to reach this level.
Sometimes, it is impossible to prepare the content of a speech in advance, so when listening to others in a meeting, you should learn to quickly record, summarize and refine while listening, quickly form your own speech points, and then quickly record them on a piece of paper. When it's your turn to speak, you can expand one by one.
I once saw a government leader invited to attend a meeting. He sat on the rostrum without saying a word when others spoke. When he spoke, he summed up what others said into four or five articles and expressed them in very refined language, which immediately won a full house applause! Of course, most people who meet him for the first time really admire him! -This is the charm of language. You can say more than you can do!
What if people are dumb and can't talk? The first step is to improve their courage.
I don't know if you have noticed, there are very few courageous, extroverted and inarticulate people. Some people feel stupid, so they don't like to talk and feel inferior. After a long time, they dare not speak. Therefore, speech is still in its infancy. If you are afraid to speak and have no self-confidence, then you can't be a very good speaker.
The second step is to thicken the face.
A thick skin can help you become a sweet mouth. Talking with people is often a battle of wits. Especially on the wine table, stupid people often blush when they are advised to drink. Be defeated.
And those who win the final victory are often super-thick-skinned and careless.
A method of exercising eloquence
1. Read different kinds of books and master knowledge in different fields. Just like cooking requires cooking first, without knowing and understanding the content and the development and changes in various fields, you will only have an empty mouth and still have nothing to say all the time.
2. Always read books and newspapers, improvise and accumulate, and practice the language. For example, reading poems aloud, reading novels and newspapers with sound is a kind of language expression training.
3. You can watch more talk shows. Experience the adaptability, logical thinking ability and language organization ability of the host. During the talk show. Through this experience and understanding, he will practice his topic privately.
4. Participate in public activities. College students can participate in speech contests and debate contests organized by the school; Or friendship competitions or exhibition competitions organized in the community; Annual meeting programs, cross talk, sketches, etc. Organized by the company. This can exercise your eloquence.
5. Persistence, self-confidence, action and perseverance. In addition to the above methods of exercising eloquence, the most important thing is to have a confident heart and insist on practicing with practical actions.
What are the eloquence training methods?
1, read aloud and recite. Read it by yourself and read it out loud. Keep reading some articles every day, not only can you practice your fluency, but you can also accumulate some knowledge and information. Everyone should read more positive articles, and it is recommended that you keep reading for more than half an hour every day.
2. Retelling method. To put it simply, retelling is to repeat what others have said. You can find a partner to train with. First of all, ask the other person to tell a topic or a story casually. Listen to yourself first. Then repeat it to each other.
This kind of practice is to exercise the coherence of language, the ability of improvisation and the ability of language organization. It would be better if we could repeat it in front of everyone. It can also exercise your courage and overcome your nervousness.
3. Recitation. Reciting doesn't just require you to recite a speech or essay, even if you have finished the task. What we require is "back" and "back".
This kind of training has two purposes: one is to cultivate memory ability, and the other is to cultivate oral expression ability. In the long run, those articles and words will naturally be transformed into their own words. After a certain period of practice, they will be able to open their mouths and make a blockbuster. So-called: read 300 Tang poems by heart, and you can sing even if you can't sing!
What if people are dumb and can't talk? 3 Talk less and do more.
If your mouth is too stupid to talk. Then in your work or life, you should talk less and do more practical things. Otherwise, your mouth is clumsy, you can't speak, and your speech is ugly. The more you talk, the more annoying you get. So talking less and doing more is also a good choice for people with stupid mouths.
Listen to other people's opinions.
I don't know how to say it, just listen to what others say. Listen to all kinds of people, what do others say under special circumstances? What do people say when dealing with different problems? I have heard this kind of words a lot, and I will learn from other people's experience when I encounter the same situation, and I will not be clumsy.
Look at what you say, look at what you say.
Dumb people who can't talk sometimes make others unhappy by saying a word. This is because dumb people can't read words and don't know what the other person likes to listen to, or when they say a word, others are already unhappy and they don't know it yet! Therefore, you should learn to read words, observe each other and decide what to say in the second half.
Learn more speaking skills.
No matter what you do, there are corresponding methods, and speaking is no exception. You can learn some speaking skills at ordinary times. Oral skills, there are many books on the internet, and there will be many training courses. Choose your favorite way to learn, and you won't be clumsy.
Spend more time with people who can talk.
Some people can speak very well even if they can't tell the truth, or they don't have any high education. Others like to listen to him. When dealing with various problems, a few words can solve them. If you meet such a person, you can associate with him more. And learn now, and over time, your mouth will not be so stupid.
Don't be afraid to make a fool of yourself
Many stupid people are either too timid or too reserved. If he doesn't speak well, he will lose face. The more so, the more stupid, so don't be afraid to make a fool of yourself when you speak at ordinary times. Because no matter how many speaking skills you learn, if you don't practice, it will always be an armchair strategist and a waste of time. So, when you have a chance to speak, don't make a fool of yourself, but speak out loud, so that you will slowly get rid of your stupid questions.