One weekend night, my son was doing his homework on the table after dinner, and I also took a book and sat beside it.
"Ding-dong ..." The doorbell rang suddenly, and I quickly got up to open the door. Standing at the door is Tao Zi, whom I know. A man carrying a bag followed him with a humble smile. "Tao Zi, who is this?" Tao Zi is my youngest son, and I quickly took the person behind me to introduce me: "This is my old classmate, surnamed Tian, who has been working in real estate development."
After giving my seat to the guests to make tea, Tao Zi knew that I was a straight shooter, so she came straight to the point and said her purpose: "I heard that the business tax levied on local taxes will soon be levied by your national tax. Old classmates have just won a project and are going to register and set up a company soon. Say hello to the national tax administrator and take care of it. " With a smile on his face, tian teacher quickly took out two cigarettes from his bag and put them on the coffee table: "Yes, yes, help, build a line and a bridge." We are familiar with each other once and for all, and we need you to take care of us in the future. "
It turns out that there is a connection. I was about to politely refuse manager Tian's gift when my son left his desk and ran over and said loudly, "Dad, you can't accept this cigarette!" " It's all on TV. If you accept it, you will become a fly! "
"Ha ha, you smelly boy, two cigarettes don't have much money, how did your father become a fly?" Tao Zi hit his chin with a smile.
"Tao zi, Tian manager doesn't know. Don't you know the rules of my family? " When I asked him a word, Tao Zi blushed and stood there. Tian always looks at him inquiringly.
"Tian always embarrassed, I know your purpose, and I am very grateful. You can take these two cigarettes back. As long as you pay taxes in good faith according to law, taxpayers will serve your business development well. "
Out of my door, Manager Tian inexplicably asked Tao Zi, "What's the matter with you? What are the rules in his family? You have nothing to say when you say this! "
Tao Zi sighed and said shyly, "It's my fault! My father used to be in business. Once, he went to see my little father because his cash flow was not good. His father is also a tax official. It was called the finance and taxation office. That year, he was responsible for the examination and approval of working capital to increase production and income. Father also brought a gift to his home to give him some money. As a result, one gave a gift and the other didn't accept it. The two old people quarreled and turned against each other. But strangely, a few days later, the tax collector called my father, went through the formalities and approved a little money to help my father revitalize his business. Since then, our neighbors have learned that people in his family can help you enthusiastically, but it is his family style to keep the bottom line and not accept gifts. "
Essay on the Story of Clean Family Style II
Who can tell me how many great women there are on the earth with a drop of water in the Milky Way? Who can tell me, our 9.65 million square kilometers of land, in the bustling city, in the stormy island, where there are no female footprints and laughter? Who can tell me, the family is harmonious and happy, neat and warm, how can there be no sweat and hard work spilled by women?
Women's feelings are rich, gentle and delicate, and they have built a warm spiritual home for each member and cared for the physical and mental health of their families. Faced with the scourge of "pornography, gambling, drugs and evil", many female compatriots bravely took up legal weapons, moved them with emotion and reason, and pulled their misguided families out of the deep swamp; When the powerful people who were carried away by money and beauty were ready to extend the black hand of "corruption and bribery", the "gang leaders" had a deep sense of justice, sounded the alarm, set up a high defense line, became "supervisors" and "goalkeepers", and saved the souls on the verge of degeneration ... Women beautified the home environment, improved the cultural taste of the family and purified the family and even the society with their true, good and beautiful hearts.
Zhu Hongyan, the wife of Kuang Guanghua, deputy head of Anyuan County, Jiangxi Province, is one of the "Top Ten" incorruptible wives. She always remembers the old adage of "honesty and health" and always helps her husband to be honest and self-disciplined. In 20XX, a distant relative came to my hometown to thank the county magistrate for sending 200,000 yuan. When Zhu Hongyan knew this, he urged her husband to return the money to others, but after he promised, he still put the bag with money in the desk drawer, and often sat at the desk with the bag in his hand and full of worries. Zhu Hongyan knew that because his father was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer, he needed drugs for the first stage of treatment, and the money was like a lifeline. Do you want it or not? When her husband hesitated, Zhu Hongyan offered his own idea: this 200,000 yuan must be returned. As for medical expenses, they will use their savings for many years to solve them, and then borrow them from relatives and friends. But on the seventh day after the operation, Zhu Hongyan's father refused to take medicine and injections, insisted on leaving the hospital, and even opposed chemotherapy. When his daughter cried and begged him for another treatment, he reached out his bony hand and grabbed her sleeve and said, "Stop fooling around, son. I understand what this disease is. You have done your best. " Zhu Hongyan ran out of the ward sadly and secretly shed tears. At this time, her husband stood behind him and whispered, "I'm sorry." I made you lose your filial piety. If the money is not returned, your father will be saved. " But Zhu Hongyan said firmly, "You can't take that money." Two months later, Zhu Hongyan's father died of a serious illness. It is painful for her to lose her loved ones, but she can feel at ease without taking ill-gotten gains.
A clean family style is the foundation of family prosperity. If "domestic workers" always remember that they are the spouses of leading cadres and support their husbands' work in a subtle way, they can create a good family style of "being proud of honesty and ashamed of greed" and build a happy family. At present, the corruption of some corrupt elements has both personal reasons and the role of "greed to help others". For example, Xue Yuquan, former director of Shandong Gold Industry Bureau, has asked for and accepted money and goods from 83 units and individuals for 248 times, with a total value of 2.06 million yuan, of which one third was accepted by his wife. His wife also publicly said to people: "I don't recognize anything else, I recognize money." It can be seen what role Xue Yuquan played on the road of crime. Zhang Yafei, the wife of Ma Xiangdong, former member of the Standing Committee of Shenyang Municipal Committee and executive deputy mayor of Liaoning Province, flew to Hong Kong and Southeast Asia several times after the "accident" in Ma Xiangdong, transferred stolen money, and entered into an offensive and defensive alliance with relevant foreign businessmen. At the same time, she found a reporter from a major newspaper to write "internal reference" and "explain the situation" to the central government. She also spent a lot of money to find someone to "manage" in Beijing many times. She bribed the prison guards, and directly telephoned Ma Xiangdong three times to report the progress of her activities. Finally, Ma Xiangdong was sentenced to death and his wife was investigated for criminal responsibility. If they can always be vigilant, often blow the "integrity wind", manage the "integrity account" at home, and remind their families in time to "go to work honestly and go home with clean hands", will it eventually lead to a tragic ending?
"Living with good people is like entering Lan Zhi's room and not smelling it for a long time; Living with the wicked is like entering an abalone restaurant and not smelling it for a long time. " Being in the same room, a good woman is like Lan Zhi. She has been in Mika for a long time. The influence of "honestly helping your wife" on your husband can be seen. Fortunately, at present, China's reform and opening up has ushered in a golden age full of vigor and vitality. A large number of "good wives", "good mothers" and "good daughters-in-law", as well as "good police sisters-in-law" and "honest help" stand out, carry forward the tradition, keep pace with the times, interpret the rich connotations of these honorary titles, and make them "women".
Goethe, a great writer, has a classic poem: eternal women lead us upward. Female compatriots! In the new century, let's vigorously create a clean family style and make our home more warm and beautiful. We believe that modern women will lead our home towards harmony and happiness!
Essay 3 on the story of clean family style
A few days ago, * * * issued the "Guidelines for Honesty and Self-discipline of China * * * Production Party", in which Article 8 reads: Keep the family clean and consciously take the lead in establishing a good family style. This is the first time that "Qijia" has been included in the party's internal laws and regulations, and the family style of leading cadres has received unprecedented attention.
As * said at the Spring Festival group meeting, we should attach importance to family building, family education and family style, and lead a good social atmosphere with a good family style. The family style of leading cadres is not a personal matter, nor a family matter, but an important embodiment of the style of leading cadres.
Family style is the traditional fashion or style of a family or even a family, and it is the sum of living habits, ways of thinking, words and deeds that all members of a family admire. Family style is a kind of silent education, silent classics and silent power. A person's world outlook, outlook on life, personality characteristics and moral cultivation will be branded with family style. It can be said that what kind of family style there is, what kind of attitude and method there is. By reading the confessions of offenders, the cases are typical. There must be various reasons why they violate the law and go to the road of no return. One of them is the lack of family education, the influence of bad family style, and of course there are strict family education and parents' management of their own education. However, the ultimate root cause is the lack of party spirit, weak concept of discipline and rule of law, and disregard for political discipline and rules. Forgetting the rigid constraint of discipline, I thought I could get away with it and abuse my power, and eventually I changed from a "violator" to a "lawbreaker" and ended up in ruin.
If the family style is correct, the style is excellent, the party style is clear, and the political style is pure. The family style of cadres is the "wind vane" of their own clean and honest political atmosphere. How can we talk about governing the country if leading cadres have unhealthy family style and can't even manage their own families well? The family style is corrupt and the house smells of smoke. How can we keep our hands clean? In ancient times, Yan Jiaxun and Zeng Guofan's letters all reflected a good family style and played an important role in educating children about their future life direction. Self-cultivation is the premise of governing the country, and self-cultivation is the first step.
To create a good family style, leading cadres must first set an example and set a good example. As the head of the family, only good personal cultivation can set an example for the family. Impure thoughts, unhealthy style, and only seeking "welfare" and "green light" for family members will not bring a good family style. Judging from many cases, many official families have passed by on the road of corruption, and there have been phenomena such as "father and son soldiers" and "husband and wife files". Family-style corruption, in essence, takes kinship as the link and interests as the driving force. Husband and wife, father and son, seven aunts and eight aunts go into battle together and work behind the scenes, doing their best to corrupt, forming a * * * corrupt relationship circle.
Earlier, some media combed the data of senior officials at the provincial and ministerial levels and above who had fallen off the horse in the past seven years and found that "among the 40% officials who took bribes indirectly, the wife appeared the most frequently". This also shows from one side that family is an important link that cannot be ignored in fighting corruption and promoting honesty. Leading cadres are different from ordinary citizens. They have power and can allocate resources. The temptation and even "curiosity" are unimaginable to ordinary people. The family style of leading cadres is not a personal matter, nor a family matter, but an important embodiment of the style of cadres. Therefore, as a leading cadre, it is not enough to live a clean and honest life. The higher the position, the greater the power in your hands, the more you should manage your family and the people around you, strictly demand your relatives, and build a defense line against corruption in your family to prevent some people from opening the gap of corruption from home.
Family style is positive, children and grandchildren are full. A good family style is also the most precious "heritage" for future generations. Managing a family is the same as managing a country. Strictness is love, and looseness is harm. Strict education and management of family members, managing family members by influencing, influencing and setting an example, and staying away from "pillow talk", "combining the inside with the outside" and "playboy" are not only the needs of style construction, but also the foundation of managing the family, ensuring the integrity of cadres and the prosperity of the family.