His newlywed wife was suffering from cancer. He faced the misfortune with strength, took good care of her and never left her. The unit was reorganized, and stranger comrades came to help him. They raised money for medicine to help him tide over the difficulties, and Look at the story that happened to Li Zhiliang, a sergeant in a brigade of the 77th Group Army -
For love, I am willing to bear the burden and move forward
On June 30, Li Zhiliang was accompanied by his family and supported him Following his wife out of the hospital, he planned to go home to recuperate. When he walked out of the door of the inpatient department, he took a long breath and shook his wife's warm hand.
Li Zhiliang’s wife is called Li Wenting. Seven days ago, she had just completed the robot-assisted full uterine double appendage + lymphatic omentum appendix + pelvic lymph node dissection surgery. She looked at her husband with red eyes next to her and cuddled up. Being by his side, I want to give him the greatest warmth, even though the weather is not cold.
At this moment, the couple who have just experienced life's hardships want to cheer each other up through mutual comfort.
Back in December 2015. At that time, Li Zhiliang, who was serving in a brigade of the 77th Group Army, was introduced to his wife Li Wenting. When they first met, the young and beautiful Li Wenting left a deep impression on Li Zhiliang. The two met, got to know each other, and eventually fell in love. A year later, the young couple The lovers came together with the blessings of family and friends.
Wedding photos of Li Zhiliang and his wife Li Wenting
Although life after marriage is dull, there is also sweetness belonging to the two of them. Because of the special nature of Li Zhiliang's career, the two have been living separate lives in two places. They can only express their feelings to each other over the phone. Whenever they see each other on the screen, the two feel particularly happy and sweet.
In the Spring Festival of 2017, his wife Li Wenting came to Li Zhiliang’s army to celebrate the New Year with him for the first time. This was also the first time the two of them had spent the New Year together in the two years since their marriage.
During this period, Li Zhiliang had a smile on his face and happiness in his heart. Li Wenting was always smiling, with a happy and sweet face, but there was one thing that weighed on the couple like a stone. In my heart, that is the child.
In the past two years, although the couple wanted to have a child, they were never able to do so. Especially in the two months since Li Wenting came to the army, this uneasiness has become more intense.
In March, Li Zhiliang decided to take advantage of his vacation to go to the hospital for examination with his wife. After the vacation, the two of them had six examinations at the maternal and child health hospital and the central hospital in their hometown, but the examination results were never confirmed. On March 23, Li Zhiliang resolutely took his wife Li Wenting to Xijing Hospital for reexamination.
After the examination, the doctor said that it might be a bilateral ovarian cyst and that he needed to be hospitalized for surgery immediately. At that time, Li Zhiliang checked the relevant conditions of the cyst online and learned that the cyst was not a serious disease, so he did not pay attention to it. He comforted his wife not to be afraid. This disease has no impact. She only needs a minor operation and she will recover immediately.
April Fool’s Day is April Fool’s Day. Most of what happens cannot be taken seriously, but fate played a joke on Li Zhiliang that day.
On the third day when he accompanied his wife to the hospital, Li Zhiliang received a notification from the hospital for the operation. The operation started at 10 am. Li Zhiliang had been waiting at the door of the operating room, waiting for news that his wife's operation was successful. At 12:30, Li Zhiliang, who was waiting at the door of the operating room, suddenly heard the hospital loudspeaker shouting "Li Wenting's family in bed 29, please come to the negotiation room!" At that time, Li Zhiliang thought that the operation was over, but what he never expected was that the doctor told him Judging from the removed lesions, the situation is not very good. It is possible that complete resection surgery is required and further examination is needed.
At this time, Li Zhiliang felt uneasy, but the situation was still unclear. He could only pray silently for his wife in his heart. Time passed by, and about an hour after the operation started, the bad news completely shattered Li Zhiliang's fantasy.
Photos of wife Li Wenting after she fell ill
Cancer! Bilateral ovarian cancer! The doctor told him that the situation was very urgent and that he had two options before him: the first was to perform ablation surgery to remove only the lesion and preserve fertility; the second was to completely remove the organs near the lesion to prevent the spread of cancer. The doctor's words seemed to plunge Li Zhiliang into the abyss. He felt dizzy. He couldn't figure out how his beautiful and kind-hearted wife suddenly got cancer. He repeatedly told himself that this must not be true! But the cruel reality is right in front of him, and it happens to his closest people. what to do? Just when Li Zhiliang was in great pain, he suddenly realized that his wife who was lying in the hospital bed needed him at this time, and he had to be strong.
Li Zhiliang quickly began to analyze. Although the first option preserves fertility, the chance of having a child is slim, and there is a huge risk of proliferation, which can easily threaten the life of his wife. Although the second option is infertile, it can save the wife's life to the greatest extent. After careful consideration, Li Zhiliang made a decision to keep his wife healthy no matter what. He picked up the pen with a trembling right hand. He knew that after he signed, his wife would lose the right to be a mother. He was filled with grief when he thought about this, but Still slowly signed his name.
After walking out of the negotiation room, Li Zhiliang, who was completely weak, squatted in the corner next to the corridor. While comforting himself, he silently prayed that his wife would get better. Li Zhiliang told himself in his heart that he must be strong. Only in this way can there be a glimmer of hope. .
The operation ended at around three o'clock in the afternoon. For Li Zhiliang, these five short hours were like experiencing a nightmare, and he could not return to reality for a long time. After the operation, Li Zhiliang stayed by his wife's side and cheered her up.
Li Wenting, who has a weak constitution, the strong reaction and stimulation after receiving chemotherapy made her more unbearable than ordinary people. During this period, she could hardly eat any liquid food and could only supplement it with nutrient solution. Li Zhiliang saw that My eyes ached in my heart. During the hospitalization, because the weather in Xi'an was relatively hot, the patient could not use the air conditioner. Li Zhiliang had to wipe his wife's body, help her turn over and massage her every day.
Li Zhiliang is massaging his wife
Although life is hard, seeing his wife's health improving, Li Zhiliang feels that no matter how hard it is, it is worth it. It was not until May 10 that Li Zhiliang and his wife had just finished their second round of chemotherapy when they received the order to move the troops to the defense.
The relocation of the troops is of great importance. As the backbone of the army, Li Zhiliang is well aware of the burden he carries. However, his wife's condition also worries him. At this time, Li Zhiliang begins to be in a dilemma.
"You are a soldier and must obey the orders of the organization. The army needs you at this time, and I have just finished chemotherapy, so don't worry too much." Li Wenting, who was on the hospital bed, saw her husband's hesitation and encouraged her. He will return to the team soon.
Looking at his haggard wife with a large area of ??hair falling out, Li Zhiliang felt distressed and uncomfortable. He had no choice but to leave his wife to the care of his parents. He reluctantly boarded the train to return to the army. Before leaving, he repeatedly warned, The weather is hot, so you must be careful when taking care of it.
After returning to the army, Li Zhiliang devoted himself to intense work, but he was always concerned about his wife's condition and felt unwilling to let his wife endure such pain. He would use his breaks to search for information on the Internet, or ask acquaintances to inquire about relevant information. During that time, he rarely rested, but he was always attentive to his work. Whether it was gathering supplies or registering, there was no omission.
After the task of relocating the troops was completed, Li Zhiliang immediately asked for leave and returned to his wife in the hospital bed, and decided to go to Beijing to diagnose his wife. There was no ticket on the day he went to Beijing, so he could only buy a station ticket. He stayed on the train for more than ten hours. After being diagnosed by many hospitals and experts and professors in Beijing, he was diagnosed with bilateral ovarian cancer, Ic level, and the doctor recommended treatment. Second surgery. Li Zhiliang did not stay too long and returned to his wife from Beijing overnight.
On June 24, Li Zhiliang successfully made an appointment for his wife’s surgery at Xijing Hospital. The eight-hour operation went relatively smoothly. After the end, the doctor told him that the biopsy results were not very good, and the only treatment available was post-operative treatment. Chemotherapy can control the disease, but most people have a strong reaction after chemotherapy, and the body's immunity and resistance will be significantly reduced. Therefore, later treatment can only be based on the recovery situation step by step before making the next treatment plan.
Li Zhiliang is washing his wife's feet
During hospitalization, his wife had to undergo a review every three days. A total of 8 times of chemotherapy were required, with an average daily cost of 10,000. More than 50,000, the highest one day is more than 50,000. The cost in just a few months was nearly 200,000 yuan. Facing a large amount of follow-up treatment expenses, Li Zhiliang was extremely distressed. At this moment, Li Zhiliang, who was taking care of his wife, did not know that his comrades in the unit were preparing for his medical expenses.
Li Zhiliang’s unit had just been established. As a new member of the unit, he had few familiar comrades. However, after his comrades learned of Li Zhiliang’s difficulties, they spontaneously organized charity donations. More and more people came to the unit. Comrades joined in. Although the amount of donations was not large, it was a heartfelt sentiment. Everyone reached out to help him in the WeChat group and QQ group to raise money for him, hoping that he and his wife could get through the difficulties smoothly.
On June 29, Li Zhiliang, who was still worried about medical expenses, suddenly received a donation of more than 40,000 yuan from his comrades in the army. This moved him extremely, and his wife Li Wenting was also moved to tears.
Although more than 40,000 yuan cannot cover his wife’s medical expenses, it is undoubtedly a timely help for Li Zhiliang. Li Zhiliang said that the selfless help of his comrades gave him positive energy and convinced him that no matter how difficult it was, he would persevere. He would remember the selfless help of his comrades in his heart and would definitely perform his duties and responsibilities well. Like your comrades, help more people in need, let more people get out of trouble and know how to be grateful.
Li Wenting, who was lying in the hospital bed, shed tears silently after learning the news. He was proud to have such a good husband, and even more proud that her husband had such a good comrade-in-arms.
Wish Li Wenting a speedy recovery, so that this loving couple can be happy and stay together! bless! !