The sky contains every cloud, no matter its beauty or ugliness, so the sky is vast;
This mountain contains all the rocks, regardless of their size, so it is magnificent:
The sea contains every wave, whether clear or turbid, so the sea is boundless.
Tolerance is the lubricant of the world. With tolerance, there will be less disputes and more peace. Less hostility, more beauty. With tolerance, the world will become a beautiful paradise.
A pair of ancient couplets wrote: harmony is a family heirloom for the world, and patience is an elixir for the world. In other words, as long as people can live in harmony, they are the most precious wealth in the world; As long as we insist on forbearance, no matter how deep the contradiction is, it can be resolved.
Remember the good of others, forget the bad of others, and you will fly freely under the happy and tolerant sky!
God gave us the same life. When we come to the end of life, what will be left? What will we leave to others? Learning to tolerate others is also a way to be kind to yourself. Living in tolerance is getting wider and wider. Time will dilute the pain, but why wait for time to dilute it? Learn to forget, forgive and enjoy life as soon as possible. Won't there be more beautiful days in life?
The beauty of time is that it has passed and will never come back. Being able to spend more time in a limited number of days is to prolong life!
Learn to tolerate others. When we are old, we will find that every endpoint of life will no longer have regrets brought by narrowness, and it will also add happiness and highlights to others' lives. After all, only beauty is eternal!
Clear water makes no fish, while people look at it without friends. A person must have the ability to tolerate resentment and humiliation, plus an attitude of tolerating all good, evil, morality and stupidity, in order to tolerate others.
Shuttling through the vast sea of people, facing a small mistake, often a faint smile and a gentle apology bring tolerance and understanding, which is tolerance; In life, people are often not understood and trusted because of a trivial matter or a casual remark, but don't be too hard on anyone. It is also tolerance to discipline people's rhythm and forgive others with forgiveness. The so-called "don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" also means this.
Learning to tolerate means that you no longer have doubts.
The widest ocean in the world, the sky wider than the ocean, and the human mind wider than the sky. Hugo
According to legend, one night, an old Zen master was walking in a Buddhist temple when he suddenly saw a chair near the corner. At first glance, he knew that a monk had violated the temple rules and went out for a walk. The old Zen master didn't say a word, went to the wall, moved the chair and squatted down on the spot. After a while, a young monk climbed over the wall and jumped into the yard on the back of the old Zen master in the dark. When his foot touched the ground, he realized that he had just stepped on the master instead of the chair. The young monk suddenly panicked and was tongue-tied. But to the little monk's surprise, the master didn't scold him sharply, but said in a calm tone, "It's cold at night, so you should put on more clothes." The old Zen master forgave his disciple. He knows that tolerance is a silent education.
Psychologists point out that moderate tolerance is conducive to improving interpersonal relationships and physical and mental health. This tolerance refers to taking appropriate "shame policy" for the mistakes made by children or others in life, work and study, effectively preventing the situation from expanding and aggravating contradictions and avoiding serious consequences. A large number of facts have proved that it will not tolerate others and will also hurt itself. People who demand too much from others or themselves must be in a state of tension. Because of inner conflict or emotional crisis, it is easy to cause endocrine dysfunction, such as excessive secretion of catecholamine substances-adrenaline and norepinephrine, which causes a series of inferior physiological and chemical changes in the body, leading to increased blood pressure, accelerated heartbeat, decreased secretion of digestive juice, gastrointestinal dysfunction and so on. And may be accompanied by dizziness, insomnia, dreaminess, fatigue, loss of appetite, upset and other symptoms. Neuropsychological stimulation will affect endocrine function, and the change of endocrine function will in turn aggravate people's neuropsychology, form a vicious circle and endanger physical and mental health. Some extremists even lost their minds, causing disasters and serious consequences. Once you forgive others, you will experience a huge psychological transformation and purification process, and interpersonal relationships will have a new turn for the better, and many troubles and boredom can be avoided or eliminated.
Tolerance means that you won't punish yourself for other people's mistakes.
Tolerance is a kind of broadness, which can accommodate the joys and sorrows of the world; Tolerance is a realm that allows people to jump over the steps of generosity and openness. Only tolerance can "heal" unpleasant wounds; Only tolerance can eliminate artificial tension.
Tolerance, first of all, includes tolerance for yourself. Only those who tolerate themselves can tolerate others. Half of people's troubles come from themselves, that is, painting the land as a prison and tying themselves up. The TV series "Growing Pains" is all about troubles, but their tolerance for children and neighbors eventually turned troubles into laughter. All sentient beings have their own advantages and disadvantages. There is a certain limit to being competitive, and you will often get tired of things outside your body and lose the fun of being a man. Only by admitting that you can't do something can you foster strengths and avoid weaknesses and not be swallowed up by the fire of jealousy.
Treating yourself with tolerance means working and living in peace. This kind of mentality is to enrich one's good state. It is important to enrich yourself. Only those who are prepared can leave no regrets when the opportunity comes. Knowing men and keeping women, indifferent to life, is a good way to endure loneliness. Vigorous is certainly a portrayal of progress, but those who achieve great things are by no means keen on fame and fortune.
As the saying goes, "the prime minister can punt in his stomach." However, the ancient teachings of being kind to others and cultivating self-cultivation warned the world that if a person has courage and an open mind, he can ride freely. If he is entangled in trivial disputes, he will not only lose his manners, but also be unhappy all day long. Only when you are always calm and tolerant of the world can you seize every opportunity to be harmonious and complete. Wei Zhi, an admonition official in the Tang Dynasty, often made faces, protested earnestly and rebelled against Longlin many times. However, Emperor Taizong was tolerant and magnanimous. He regarded Wei Zhi as a "mirror" and saw his own gains and losses clearly, and finally created a peaceful and prosperous time known as "the rule of Zhenguan" in history.
Anything you say will be beaten; If one thing is abrupt, it will plant a curse; A bad impression will bring you bad luck all your life. This is not tolerance, it will be called "chicken heart" by the people. True tolerance should be able to tolerate people's shortcomings as well as their advantages. We don't envy those who surpass our talents, but only seek "shine on you is better than blue", eager to recommend talents and be a ladder. This spirit will be praised by the world. The process of tolerance is also a "complementary" process. If others make this mistake, they can face it squarely and give criticism and help in an appropriate way, then a big mistake can be avoided. If you make a mistake, you don't have to be discouraged and depressed. You should also be tolerant and accept yourself, and try to learn from them, learn from them, absorb the strengths of others, make up for your own shortcomings, and re-raise the sails of work and life.
Tolerance means that you have a good psychological shell.
Tolerance can be a "spiritual tonic" for people who have no input and themselves. Learning tolerance is not only beneficial to physical and mental health, but also a necessary condition for winning friendship, maintaining family harmony, happy marriage and even successful career. Therefore, in daily life, we should have a tolerant love for children, spouses, the elderly, students, leaders, colleagues, customers and patients. Tolerance, it often reflects people's experience, the art of dealing with people, and good self-restraint. To learn tolerance, you need to absorb all kinds of "nutrients" by yourself, and you need to focus on improving your mental structure and psychological quality at all times. Otherwise, a poor child who lacks the sunshine of modern civilization will be sneered at and dismissed by people. Of course, tolerance is by no means unprincipled generosity, but moderate generosity based on self-confidence, helping others and benefiting society, and must follow the legal system and moral norms. For the vast majority of people who can be educated well, it is advisable to adopt the method of combining forgiveness with restraint; We must not be soft on those who are arrogant and unreasonable and refuse to change their minds after repeated education. In this sense, it is an attitude that "principle should be emphasized in major events and style should be emphasized in minor events". Tolerance of others everywhere is by no means weakness, nor is it helplessness in the face of reality. In a short life, learning to be tolerant means that your mind is happier. Tolerance is a philosophy of life.
Tolerance is an indispensable quality of human beings; The beauty of tolerance is also an indispensable ornament in life. Although human feelings are changeable and the world road is rugged, as long as we can always treat others with tolerance, why worry that the world can't be warmer, life can't be smoother and society can't be better?
Decent and indifferent, learn to be tolerant!
Hello, I hope I can help you. This is my opinion of myself, and it was also written by my teacher during the summer vacation. I'm not in your class, so it's okay. Let's go Goodbye!