A letter to Fan, the son of Senior Two.
Son:
When spring comes to us, you have been in high school for more than three or two and a half years, and there is less than one and a half years before the college entrance examination. Only 474 days, to be exact. 474 days may be short and fleeting in the long river of life, but it is very crucial for you. The road of life is long, but the key is only a few steps.
You have worked hard for a year and a half, and you may have earned it all your life. You have saved capital for your future. You have been admitted to one, two and three books. The result is completely different. Nowadays, the social competition is so fierce that college graduates mean unemployment. Self-reliance is enough to gain a place in today's talented society. Mom has never asked too much of you. As long as you work hard, it doesn't matter where you get into the exam, but you must not waste your youth and time. In this wonderful time of life, study hard, practice hard and stand the loneliness and temptation. The world of flowers and flowers, especially the post-90s generation, is in this ever-changing era. In this era of rapid development, the invisible hand of the Internet reaches out to every post-90s generation, and all doubts and injuries bring too many shadows to the post-90s generation, such as maturity and naivety, excitement and indifference, pursuit and evasion, meekness and rebellion, enthusiasm and numbness, so don't be lost by the trend. No matter how the times develop and how the society changes, it is fundamental to be truly talented, honest and trustworthy.
I also know that the post-90 s generation is a rebellious generation and a generation with great personality. There is a deep generation gap between them and their parents. Sometimes I don't want to talk to you too much, just downplay it. But sometimes what you do can't be solved by an understatement. It is the critical period of burning eyebrows, but you are not nervous and indulge in eating, drinking and having fun. This winter vacation, I basically didn't settle down to study. I feel very sad when I watch the time slip away like this. You must know how much you have lost! Your classmates are all studying hard at their desks, even now your opponents are turning pages. There is no shortcut to learning this road. Only by down-to-earth efforts can we reach the other side of the ideal. No pains, no gains, ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, are not all ten years of cold window? How can plum blossom fragrance be without biting cold? ? I don't need to go into this, you should know a lot.
Look around at friends and classmates. Some of them entered famous universities, some studied in big cities, and some returned home dressed in rags. Isn't this what everyone yearns for? Anything is possible if you work hard now. If you work hard a year later, it may be too late. By that time, it is already a yearning for you to return to the classroom of high school. Maybe you don't cherish this learning environment now, studying in a provincial key high school (which many people yearn for), receiving a perfect education, being lectured by famous teachers with rich teaching experience, and there are so many teachers who care about you, don't you keep up?
Son, as the saying goes, people strive for a sigh of relief, while buddhas strive for a column of incense. ? In life, who is willing to give up and who is willing to fall behind others? Of course, the world is complicated, and your efforts may not be rewarded, but after all, heaven rewards diligence and opportunities are for those who are prepared. What does it matter if we fail? As long as you work hard, there will be no regrets in life. Young life should always move forward with an upward heart, and young dreams should use their own efforts to win wonderful things? A great man should be ambitious.
Of course, son, I don't want to put any pressure on you, nor do I want to impose my will on you. You have your own survival rules. But as a mother, I have an obligation to teach you some principles and tell you some experiences. I don't expect much from you, as long as I can make a living in the society in the future (not very hard), have a few friends who care about each other, have a happy home, and live in peace and security is my greatest wish!
mother
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A letter to Gao Erfan's son
Son:
Hello!
Don't think about why mom wrote to you. Maybe your mother's heart will always hold you. I read the newspaper today and saw a well-written article, which I especially want to send to you. I hope it's good for you By the way, talk to your son.
You know what, son?
Dad and I both know that you have grown up and become more and more mature. You always tell us that we don't have to worry about our studies. Tell us? Not that I don't work hard, but that my opponent is too strong? This is an experimental class composed of students who scored well in the senior high school entrance examination in 2006. However, in the eyes of mother, you will always be a child. During the critical period of your growth, we dare not slack off. We are willing to do our best to help you through this period of middle school and not let my dear son leave some regrets.
Mom's love is always eager to express, and dad's love is always hidden in his heart. In fact, your father is especially looking forward to the good news of your progress. Call me and ask me? Did your son call you to report the mid-term exam results? . When I told him you didn't call, he immediately said? Then why don't you call him in case he is stressed? . Even if my mother couldn't help calling you, she turned carefully to listen. I'm telling you this because my mother believes it's motivation, not pressure.
There are many good learning methods, and I know you know better than mom. The key is how to improve yourself as soon as possible according to your actual situation. In fact, the real purpose of writing this letter is that mom wants to tell you?
First, know your own shortcomings, realize your own shortcomings, overcome obstacles with your heart, brain and wisdom, and find a balance.
Mother printed an article written by teacher Wang Jinzhan, entitled? Why are children smart, but their grades are not high? I sent my blog post to you with my letter. Are you online? Their eyes seem different from others, and they always miss a lot of obvious information? ,? The real problem of these children is learning disabilities? (Learning disability) I drew the following two sentences in red to remind my son (mother knows her son too well, sometimes I clearly put three dishes on the table and my son sees two). Although this article by Mr. Wang is mainly written for parents and teachers, my mother still wants you to read it.
There are no obstacles, son. Just fly.
Second, the teacher is waiting for you, and so are your parents.
Last week, your father and I went to give you a parent-teacher conference. At noon, we will take you out for dinner. What was the first thing you said when you got on the bus? Mom, it's okay. The head teacher talked to me, and the teacher said he was waiting for me. ! ? Son, mom and dad are waiting for you, too? . I follow the sentences.
When I met the head teacher and told her this, my mother couldn't help crying. Mom was moved by the teacher's true love for you, by the teacher's timely encouragement and by your happiness? You have such a good teacher; The mother was moved by her son's confidence and good attitude towards herself.
We are all waiting for you, son. You must fly faster.
Third, it is very important to have a clear goal and adjust your mentality in time.
The teacher always tells you? Senior one is the foundation, senior two is the key, and senior three is the sprint? . Son, in this year, you should make a good plan for yourself. With a goal, you must shout loudly in your heart several times a day to cheer for yourself!
The destination is not far, next stop!
Take care, son!
Come on, son!
Dad, I believe you!
Mom and Dad, in the evening 165438+ 10/8.
A Letter to Fan Wensan, the son of Senior Two.
Dear:
The day before yesterday (Sunday), I was angry with you because you played computer for a long time. In a rage, you left with your schoolbag on your back. You didn't call me until yesterday. I feel very sad. But while I am sad, I am constantly reflecting on myself. After two days of thinking, I decided to write this letter to you, hoping to exchange some of my thoughts with you through this letter.
First of all, I made a mistake about the day before yesterday. I didn't expect that you are now a high school student, or you are still treated as a three-year-old child like in the past, and you are still treated hard, giving you no room for ideological maneuver, and you are not patient enough. Here, I want to say to you: I'm sorry, son, I hope you can forgive dad.
Secondly, I want to tell you what I really thought at that time. I hope you can understand, dad. I thought:
First, you have completely relaxed this holiday. Since the holiday, we haven't forced you to read and do your homework, let alone make up lessons (because you don't want to). You told me that you stopped playing computer since you made up lessons at 10. Besides, you played all morning that day, so you should have a good rest in the afternoon, so that you can have the energy to study at school. So, I won't let you play games.
Second, in fact, the most fundamental point is that your academic performance last semester was not satisfactory to us at all, and you didn't even dare to tell us your exam results. You want to be a parent and you don't even know your grades. What should we answer when others ask? Others will think, either we don't care about you, or we don't have a good relationship between father and son, otherwise how can we not know our son's grades?
Third, if you take up the computer, I have nothing to do. This is my selfish point.
Fourth, last month we went to XX Hotel for drinking and further study, as you know. Why doesn't your uncle go? He called me and asked me to help him preside over the ceremony. He said he had no face to eat because his son didn't do well in the college entrance examination and didn't even get into three books. I understand him, too. After the college entrance examination, I learned from others that his son didn't do well in the exam and didn't even call your uncle. Think about it. He is also a famous teacher in the field of education. He once taught the top scholar, and all his students were admitted to Tsinghua. This is what our mountain county should be proud of. As a teacher, he is excellent, but as a father? The children of my junior high school and college classmates have been admitted to universities one after another, and some are even famous universities. How do you think I should feel when I go to dinner?
You are very wise. You are filial to your parents, polite, healthy and like sports. This is what makes us proud. But if you don't study hard and work hard, your academic performance will always be low, which is what we are most worried about.
Think of me thirty years ago, grazing cattle and mowing the grass by the river; Twenty years ago, I taught in a middle school. 10 years ago, I was lying in the intensive care unit of the hospital due to illness and flooded. Now, although I am barely alive, I can't do anything. In the past twenty years, I have made no progress or even regressed. I feel ashamed. First, I am sorry for your grandparents and failed to live up to their expectations of me. Second, I'm sorry for your mother. Without her, I wouldn't be happy today. My greatest hope now is that you are admitted to an ideal university.
Looking back on most of my life, it is worth mentioning that I was in the third grade. At that time, we had to jump out of the farm and eat the commodity grain that everyone envied (because the countryside was very hard at that time, there was no electricity and we lived in thatched houses). After studying hard for a year, I was finally admitted to a school that was still brilliant. It is also worth mentioning that twenty years ago, I took the college entrance examination for adults (because I wanted to dream of going to college), so I had to study while working. Through my own efforts, I finally got admitted as I wished. The most fortunate and proud thing is that I met your mother, our family is harmonious, and I have a smart and sensible son like you.
Reflecting on your life, why can't you do something to be proud of? I asked myself, I used to be ambitious, but in the end I was a mediocre person. I have worked hard for it, and I have fought for it. Why didn't I succeed?
First, suffering is not enough. Without the spirit of hard work, you can't do great things: if Heaven wants to belittle Sri Lanka, it must first suffer its mind, work its bones and muscles, starve its body and skin, and do whatever it wants. Doing things confuses what you do, so be patient, gain something, and not gain anything.
I study and work, and I don't suffer. Maybe you are influenced by me? Is a father still like this? , I can't? So my father didn't play a good role as a model.
Second, lack of perseverance. Do things with interest, and when enthusiasm comes, enthusiasm will be high. That is a rural dialect in our country: cock shit is sharp and spicy. I don't think you are the same as me. Are you sure?
Third, it is easy to gamble. I almost lost my life because of it. Gambling, in particular, is my achilles heel. Looking back at you now, you like playing games and I like gambling, which is the same. Why should I interfere with you?
Dear son, I fully show my shortcomings and my shortcomings. I hope you don't follow in my footsteps! You think carefully with your clever mind.
Son, you have grown up and are sixteen years old. You have your ideas and hobbies, and we adults should not impose our ideas on you. But remember one thing, we love you. Here, I want to give you some advice as a friend:
First of all, we should study hard, put everything aside and devote ourselves to study.
Second, pay attention to the discretion when treating friends. You are a student now, a sophomore. You must not make friends with your boyfriend and girlfriend. You think, we are a small mountain county, so big, and the outside world is wonderful and gorgeous, so we must take a long-term view;
The third is to learn from your good friends. Today you are friends, but tomorrow you may not be. If you don't study well, you can't get into a university or the university you get into is not good, the distance between friends will get bigger and bigger. You think you are riding a bike and others are driving a BMW. Can you still go with them?
Your classmate Zhang XX, whose mother is my classmate, told me that her daughter is very sensible now. She didn't go out to play this holiday, and she has previewed her English in Grade Two in advance. She also vowed to stop playing and concentrate on her studies. Now the liberal arts grade is second.
We don't ask you to be admitted to Tsinghua Peking University. A: Of course. What's wrong with that? ), but we hope you can try your best to burn your bridges. After two years of hard work, you can get into a better university and lay a good foundation for your future.
Son, I tell you my failure experience, I hope you can take a warning. You are in the prime of life. You are smart, studious and sensible. Dad believes you can do it. Remember: opportunities always favor those who are prepared? !
Finally, dad borrowed a poem from someone else to give you:
I sing for boys and girls,
I sing morning, I sing hope,
I sing about things that belong to the future,
I sing about the power of growth.
You are like the rising sun, and your tomorrow will be beautiful.
father
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