No matter who you meet, he is the right person;
No matter what happens, it is the only thing that will happen;
No matter when things start, it is the right moment;
The past is the past;
If there is no result, please believe that all this is the best arrangement. -ding
First, learning is impermanent * * *
Jiang Xun said: Between people, apart from life and death, there is death.
Come to think of it, it's a fact.
No matter how good people are, they will be separated. No matter how good relationships and deep feelings are, they will eventually disappear.
This is a doomed result.
The difference is that sooner or later, predictable and unpredictable.
1057- 1066, Su Shi lost his mother, wife and father respectively in less than ten years. His closest relatives left him one after another.
Su Shi and Su Zhe lived together, supported each other and loved each other for life.
Su Shi once wrote to Su Zhe: May people live for a long time and have a beautiful scenery thousands of miles away. Pray that the two brothers will never be separated again.
In the Wutai poetry case, Su Zhe used his official position to plead for his brother.
In the history of the Song Dynasty, the evaluation of these two brothers is: in times of trouble, they are friendly and friendly, and there is no shortage of resentment, which is rare in modern times.
The impermanence of life does not immerse us in pain, but tells us to cherish friends, family and the present.
Don't be angry, don't wait, seize every moment to love, because we never know which comes first, tomorrow or accident.
Second, the best things can only be bought with severe pain.
The poet is unfortunate, but the poet is lucky.
In this world, all the best poems are flowers that bloom with all the strength of life after suffering.
Only suffering can make poetry reach heaven and earth, not superficial, not kitsch, and have the power to hit the soul directly.
Poets are like clams. The more he suffered, the brighter the pearls he produced.
Su Shi experienced ups and downs in his life, wandering for half his life and suffering the twists and turns of fate.
The capital is very famous. It was originally a spring breeze. Unexpectedly, my parents and wife passed away one after another.
Against the new law, Wutai poetry case was demoted to Huangzhou.
Offended the villain and was demoted to Hainan.
Wandering around the world, the youngest son died on the road of relegation, and Chaoyun died in Huizhou.
Fate gave him the deepest malice. He turned around and carved his life into the most beautiful poem.
Fate seems to be a superb stonemason, and Su Shi seems to be his most beautiful work.
After thousands of times of carving and polishing in Wan Jian, it finally shines like a mirror.
Third, conform to nature and do what you want to do.
All situations in life have their reasons, and I believe everything is the best arrangement.
Don't complain, don't regret and know how to get along with it.
Su Shi's original intention was to assist the son of heaven in the court and achieve something.
However, due to his bad relationship with Wang Anshi, he was forced to leave Beijing and be released.
After walking from Hangzhou, Mizhou, Xuzhou and Huzhou for nearly ten years, he had no chance to return to the capital and political center.
He is no longer obsessed with "Yao Shun".
At the local level, we have eliminated the disadvantages of the times, helped the victims and built water conservancy projects, and achieved remarkable results.
Every time he leaves office, people send wine to thank him for his kindness.
After being demoted to Huangzhou, he worked as a farmer, played the trumpet, and sang the adaptation of "Gui Xi Ci" with the villagers.
After being demoted to Huizhou, he improved the local farm tools and reduced the incidence of diseases.
After being demoted to Hainan, he put on Li clothes and gave Li people education and civilized folk customs.
No matter how rough life is, he can remain humble, adapt to the environment and help others and improve himself wherever he goes.
Go to water poverty, and then sit and watch Yun Qi. Let me go and let nature take its course.
The heart is strong and the stage is everywhere. Peace of mind, scenery everywhere.
Su Shi studied Buddhism in his later years. On his deathbed, his friends advised him to think about the western paradise, so that his soul could fly to the pure land.
He replied: hard work is poverty.
Follow your heart, nature and destiny, and be happy about it. Everything is the best arrangement.
Ding guijun
2065438+July 9, 2008