The relationship between my mother and me, I don’t know since when, we have become good friends who talk about everything.
I think it is under the curtain of time that we have experienced some things together, participated in each other's lives, and had more connections in life, and have turned each other into an important person in our lives. people. People are together, but they don't communicate with each other, don't cherish each other, and don't grow together. Even family members are just strangers related by blood.
I read a book before and said that you should put your partner before your parents. I tried but couldn't do it. Why? Because when I was sick and weak, it was my mother who accompanied me to the hospital to see a doctor and made me medicine and supplements. It was also my mother who accompanied me in tears when I encountered every obstacle in life, and then hugged me and said : Everything you experience is growth. It will pass. It was my mother who gave me the courage and confidence that her daughter would be able to live a better and better life.
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Love is strength, but sometimes it is also a fetter. Because we think too much about each other and take each other's affairs to heart, we put a burden on our own emotions. We are also easily influenced by each other in handling some matters and cannot make rational decisions.
We also made some wrong decisions because we valued each other too much. I don’t want to talk about the specifics.
But I also asked myself: Do I regret it?
No regrets. Regardless of the final rationality, some of her words and deeds affected my decision-making, but that was also my choice. I am responsible for my own decisions. And it was because my position was not firm enough, or I didn’t know what I wanted at the time, so I gave the decision-making power to my mother.
She is my mother who loves me the most, and any advice she gives is out of love for me. I also know her as a person. She is kind and humble, and has many beautiful qualities that I admire. But she is also human, and there are times when she cannot see the situation clearly and makes mistakes. We are all trying our best to find a better solution, and we are constantly correcting ourselves in the process to seek a better future, but in the end we fail.
In the end, I can only say that it is my life.
Despite the bumps and tumbles along the way, we have never given up on each other and we have grown together. The relationship between mother and daughter is the fate we cultivated in our previous lives.
Sometimes, we would take a walk together and talk about each other’s experiences. I would talk about my reading experience, and my mother would talk about the inspiration from the news she had read recently. Sometimes, we would study dishes together and ask my mother to teach me some of her best dishes.
We are each other's friends and have gone through the waves of time together.
After experiencing so many small obstacles, I cherish the plain and fulfilling life now even more. Maybe others yearn for grandeur, but what I want to gain is just inner peace and tranquility. Then, I will walk my own path down-to-earth and make my mother feel confident and proud of me.