Reading Notes 35. Appreciate different beauties

Beauty of character, charm of manners, elegance of speech, and extraordinary demeanor are all our birthrights.

If we want to make ourselves more attractive on the outside, we should first learn to cultivate our character and strive to make ourselves more connotative.

Because every desire and intention in our hearts, whether beautiful or ugly, will be revealed through subtle changes in facial expressions.

Even those who have the most beautiful appearance will distort their expressions and become hideous and disgusting if they have any disharmony or any thoughts that may harm others.

Shakespeare said: "God gives you one face, and you make another for yourself." The implication is that inner emotions can create good and evil, beauty and ugliness at will.

No amount of cosmetics, massage, or drugs can eliminate the wrinkles on our faces caused by prejudice, selfishness, jealousy, impetuousness, and indecisive thinking habits.

Beauty comes from within. If everyone has noble and kind thoughts, then she will not only appear graceful in conversation, but her body will also appear delicate and toned. She will exude an extraordinary charm and superior temperament, which are far more fascinating than any external beauty.

An elegant and noble soul always has the magical power to make even the plainest face charming.

Although she was short and fat and had a red face, she exuded an unparalleled noble temperament that I can't forget. I have never seen a woman with such commanding presence in my life. No matter how beautiful you are, when you stand in front of her, you are destined to be overshadowed.

"There are no ugly women in the world, only women who don't know how to make themselves look more lovely."

The highest form of beauty, the beauty that transcends all appearance and physical beauty, exists in everyone's heart.

Any woman, even if she is average in appearance, can make herself more beautiful by adhering to the concept of beauty and cultivating a spirit of generosity, optimism and selflessness, striving to realize the beauty of her soul.

All human beauty in the true sense has the same origin, which is generosity, a charitable demeanor and a willingness to send sunshine and comfort to those around you.

External beauty is nothing but a manifestation of spiritual beauty. It is a body’s externalization of the habitual thoughts and main motives in the heart. Therefore, all expressions, behavior and demeanor should comply with the concept of spiritual beauty, and Improve it and strive to make yourself more elegant and beautiful.

We all love beautiful faces and soft figures, but we appreciate even more those faces that become moist, shiny and full of life because of the beauty of their souls.

If we are ordinary in appearance, we don’t have to be depressed. As long as we overcome the problem of sentimentality and learn to deal with the world calmly, we can become cheerful, lively, considerate and generous through acquired efforts. In this way, our defects in appearance and figure can be compensated and covered up by the brilliance of character and intelligence.

Only spiritual perfection has the most magnificent power and can create poetry and painting in the most monotonous environment. Only human perfection can transmit rays of sunshine to every dark corner of the world.

Parents need to have enough patience to cultivate their children's love and sensitivity to beauty. Everything in the home, from photos to wallpaper, has an impact on a child's growth, leaving an imprint on their young and sensitive minds.

Parents should not miss any opportunity for their children to appreciate works of art. We should also often read poetry and prose by famous writers to our children.

Every soul is innately sensitive to beauty, but this instinct to pursue beauty needs to be cultivated with the help of eyes and ears, otherwise it will degenerate or even disappear.

The ability to feel beauty depends on the mind’s ability to absorb and combine all the beautiful qualities in life.

The ability to be happy and content anytime and anywhere is a gift from God. It can make our life path broader, our life experience more profound, and our nature more noble. It is the power to inspire self-cultivation.

Know how to appreciate everything that others have. When a person fails to learn to appreciate the beauty of the world when he is broke, he misses the best lesson in moral cultivation and life experience.

The secret of happiness is to stay happy and contented. Rich people are those who cherish what they have in front of them and appreciate what others have.

No matter how humble your situation is, you can feel satisfied from the wealth, beauty and experiences that others have. Learn to be tolerant and learn to appreciate the truth, goodness and beauty in all things.