At first, my parents understood me very well and didn't force me before my cousin got married. But after they got married, relatives asked me if I had a boyfriend as soon as they met. Slowly, my parents couldn't stand it, thinking that I would be ashamed to stay in this place until I found a boyfriend.
Chinese New Year is supposed to be a happy family together, but in recent years, my parents are sad every day because of my affairs. I am also sad to see my parents like this. At that time, I thought I would compromise and accept the blind date introduced by my relatives.
My friend advised me to insist. After all, marriage is a lifetime thing. If both sides have no feelings, you will not be happy after marriage. If you are unhappy, neither will your parents. Although your parents are unhappy at this time, this unhappiness is only temporary. If you are unhappy after marriage, it may be a lifetime of unhappiness.
I'm still a little confused. When I heard my friend say this, I resolutely refused the person introduced to me by my relatives and told my parents what I thought. Although they are also very anxious, they don't want me to be unhappy all my life.
In addition, my primary school classmates divorced again during that time, belonging to my village. Of course, my parents also know about it. Students get married in a hurry after blind date. Because there was not much communication before, I found that men were violent and loved to drink. When they get drunk, they hit people.
Afterwards, the woman ran back to her family and cried for divorce. When my parents heard about it, they felt that such a blind date was still not good, so they didn't rush me so much.
However, I still say not to get married too late. I can still try to talk to the right people. Although I occasionally hear their nagging after talking to my parents, it is good for me. After all, there is still time to find your own love and form a family with people who really love each other.