Can true love be witnessed in times of adversity? Don't take it seriously, if she truly regards you as a friend, she will pay attention to you all the time. One knows the pines and cypresses when the weather is cold, one knows true love in times of adversity; one knows the power of horses when the road is far away, and one knows the human heart over time.
First of all, what is true love? Real situations, emotions, and friendships include what people call family affection and friendship. It refers to different things in different situations. Emotion is a part of the whole attitude. It is coordinated with the introverted feelings and intentions in the attitude. It is a more complex and stable physiological evaluation of the attitude. and experience. Emotions include two aspects: the sense of morality and the sense of value. Emotions: the feelings produced by the interaction between life phenomena and the human heart. The objective aspect of emotion: Life phenomena contain emotions, and the human brain can feel this emotion. The subjective aspect of emotion:
First, even if they live the same life, beautiful people and ugly people have different feelings about life;
Second, their moods are affected by negative emotional stimulation. When it's bad, the ability to feel emotions decreases.
Therefore, emotions are determined jointly by life phenomena and human hearts, and cannot be determined by one party alone.
There is true love, but what counts as suffering? Tribulation is the calamity of sorrow. When you are in trouble, it is your friends who pull you up from the mud. When you are helpless and have no money, it is your friends who lend you money as soon as others find out. When you are hurt and no one knows about it, those who are not afraid of other people's opinions and rush over to comfort you are considered friends, and those who give you emotional guidance are also considered friends. When you are confused about how to make a decision or are tempted to do other things before you finish something, they will tactfully point out your mistakes and suggest you to make friends.
Is there true love in times of adversity? When you are not in trouble, your so-called friends flatter you. When you are in a dangerous situation or are blinded by public opinion, they speak ill of you behind your back. Is this called a friend? They are a group of lap dogs and white-eyed wolves. When you have something to feed them, they are obedient and obedient and run errands for you. If you don't bring your books for a day, they will lend them to you, and they will hand you some questions that you don't know. In exchange, if you are excellent, others will take advantage of you because she is your "friend"! If you teach her something she doesn't know, she will learn it humbly. When you are better than her, she will feel very uncomfortable but she won't say anything. Mentally, I grinned for fear that I would not be able to crush you. Could this be my friend? One day, someone called you hypocritical, two-faced, and insincere, and she followed suit and cursed you more vigorously than others, and you were not even a human being. Is this considered a friend? According to statistics, a person can only have five most true friends in his life. Lu Xun once said that it is enough to have a confidant in life. It's enough to have someone who really understands you and really thinks about you in everything. Don't expect too much. Only when you are sincere to others will you get the sincerity of others. True friends are not about quantity. When you are in trouble, your true and sincere friends will share the joys and sorrows with you, hold up a small umbrella with you and go against the flow of people amidst the rain of public opinion. The friendship between you is a friendship that even nitrohydrochloric acid cannot erase.
Adversity does not necessarily mean true love, and the absence of adversity does not necessarily mean there is no true love. The revelation of true feelings requires the efforts of both parties.
We care about each other from trivial matters to big disasters... We can't plan our encounters and the future. It's enough to live the present moment and take care of each other, care, and trust...