20-30 years old is really important. If it is wasted, it will take about 30-50 years to make up for it.
If you are at this age, please work hard.
If you pass 30, please work hard! When you decide that you must go all out to do one thing well, you are not far from success.
What do you think of 20-30 years old in your life? (Original question)
The age of 20-30 in life was originally thought to be a lush season. Now it seems that it is another season that is really unclear. I learned what I needed to learn, but when I used it, I suddenly found that I didn't learn it well, which was far from being used. Full of pride, hesitating in my chest, to be honest, I feel that I am really nothing, nothing. (wm 197049)
What is all this about? You need to boost your self-esteem. At this time, there is the bud of youth, and it is really not easy to make a difference. On the contrary, it is easy for obedient children in human shows to keep their impulses in their hearts and suppress a knot in their youth. People will point at him: children are obedient. Some people will say: loser.
Although you may graduate at the age of 23 or 24, by the age of 30, you have done a lot. Some people regard their first job as very important and compare it to their first love. I think it makes sense, but it's not that important. For ordinary people, the first job is the starting point of contact with society, and many things will take it as a reference in the future. Whether it is good or bad, whether it is gain or loss, you know it in your heart.
The first job is the starting point, not the starting point. Because you still have countless possibilities and countless opportunities waiting for you, especially now, few people are single-minded about their work. People are constantly improving and screening, and job-hopping has become the norm.
For you who are outstanding, the university must have tasted the taste of starting a business, whether inside or outside the school. This is related to family, and many things have nothing to do with family. You belong to the rich second generation, or the official second generation, or the official second generation. In short, the second generation has become your nameplate, at least an ordinary second generation, but it will never affect you to do anything else. You can have been in love many times, or you can belong to a few individuals, and you will eventually marry your first love.
However, the reality is that when you go to the society, you know that books really haven't solved a big problem, that is, how to walk in the society. You "mix" the only social knowledge that your family has come into contact with, and the poor social experience at school, as well as your vision for work and your imagination for life. ...
After working for a few years, you will have some experience. 27, 28 years old, more enthusiastic people, more relatives and neighbors, more friends and colleagues. You really should talk about marriage. You will accidentally think of your first love. She (he) at the same table in college really doesn't know where she (he) went. What comes into your eardrum is nothing but stories and legends.
You are too lazy to talk about marriage. Although you have attended several classmates' weddings, many of your high school classmates already have children. And you, alone.
Your family background helped you when you returned to your hometown. You may be a college student village official, you may have made small achievements in a comfortable company, you may have been admitted to a civil servant, you may still be unemployed at home, you may have done some small business, and you are exhausted. For you who are working hard in a foreign land, you really just adapted to this society. In these four or five years, you have become a standard office worker and migrant worker.
As a woman, you think marriage is a bargaining chip, and you need to sort yourself out. It's time to get married, but I'm vaguely unwilling, and I've saved some money, which is far from enough to do anything. As a man, you feel that everything has just begun. You just see your future road and marriage, and it's getting closer and closer. You can't imagine that you need a house. This is something that most people cannot escape. You need to start a whole new family. After work, I can only drive my second-hand car back to the rental house on the congested streets in a foreign land.
Although people increasingly realize that 35 is the best age for men to get married. But watching you approach 30, the worries of adults can no longer be erased from your face. Go home or continue? It has become a hurdle for many people. Just like looking at your college diploma at the beginning, whether to continue your studies or go to society.
20-30 years old is a wonderful transition, which is very easy to achieve and easy to be ignored. There are too many realistic things and too many thoughts. For everyone, it is either lack of thinking or external conditions. This is a decade that can easily affect a lifetime. Not high enough is not low enough. When you come out of college, you will find that you have lost it for many years. Some students started a company, some students inherited their father's business, and some students had two children, an adult mother or an adult father.
After four or five years, you will find that many things are really solved beyond your simple imagination. Where are you going? People like you exist all over the world, and there are many different ones. Adults always like to say whether it is high or not, but who is not high or not?
People need to be useful to be used. However, both useful and used have to bear double pressures, some are internal and some are external. From the age of 27 to 30, it seems that it is not appropriate to make any more choices, and it has been pulled down along the previous inertia. The original choice played a great role.
And some really mature minds are between the ages of 30 and 35, or even 30 to 40. Without decisive courage, 23-30 is easy to waste, especially in the four years of college. After a few years in society, you will find that the last four years in school are very important. (wm 197049)
What's more, there will be more and more choices in this world, and the choice will become more and more difficult, because the cost of choice is too high.
1, twenties, after graduating from school and entering the workplace, you should carefully choose your first job, because the first job largely determines your future career direction.
Although you have a degree, it doesn't mean that you can do a lot of work at once. As a newcomer, we should work hard and do what we should do. No one is a fool, everyone can see your performance. You can (not how strong you are, but your attitude), and there will be another job waiting for you. If you are lazy, the opportunity will slip away quietly.
As long as you work hard, you will keep going up (your salary, your ability).
How hard you work today determines what kind of life you will live in ten years.
At the age of 20, we need a good life coach, because at that time, we had no direction, no goal and no continuous focus, except for being young.
Your parents, brothers and sisters, teachers and leaders were the best life mentors when you were 20 years old. When you meet your tutor, you can ask him what he was like before 10 and what he was like 20 years ago, from which you can get the best answer.
Standing at the age of 30, you need independent thinking and ability. Being a man, doing things and choosing friends will be the greatest gain in your life.
It's decadent for me. Sick at the age of 23, the best time. If I can never, I will work hard for this decade. In these ten years, I will study, work, fall in love, get married, have children and travel, without wasting any time, but time waits for no one. When I wake up, everything is lost, so I can only cherish the decade of 35-45.
Twenty or thirty years old is the golden age of life. I like to imagine that Lao Tzu is the best in the world. He dares to speak and do, and what he does is clear from right to wrong. But young people must do something and have principles. This is the highest state of mankind. The word "degree" can be loose or tight, and everything will be smooth if you grasp it well.
Life is not that complicated. Twenty to thirty years old is the stage of learning and accumulation. No matter what industry you do, choose a career you don't hate and stick to it. After seven to ten years of accumulation, you can become an industry elite. This line of work is the most taboo these days, and it won't work in the end.
My answer is simple. At this age, I read a book, Memoirs of Jimmy Carter, a former president of the United States. I will remember a sentence for the rest of my life and often remind my daughter. My daughter is now studying at a university in Australia. I said you should cherish the opportunity given by God: try your best to study not only book theory, but also to integrate into society, so she often participates in various activities, volunteers, restaurant work, shopping and so on. So this age is the most important time to fight. Investment guru Rogers once told his daughter not to fall in love or get married before the age of 28.
Our life can last for decades. Between the ages of 20 and 30, this is the beginning and development stage of our life, and it is also our best time. So what should we do in this best time?
1.25 Before the age of 25, some people are married and have children, and we need to bear the corresponding responsibilities. First of all, we need to find a job, support our families, or start our own business.
Some people are still in college before the age of 25, so we need to study more, establish our own outlook on life and plan our lives reasonably.
After the age of 2.25, we are also under greater pressure. We need to give ourselves a reasonable layout to make our future road go more smoothly.
In this decade, we have developed rapidly from ignorance to maturity. We should grasp ourselves and make ourselves better based on the society.
People in their twenties have fun and surf well. After the age of 30, you can't afford to wave, followed by family, mortgage, adults and children are counting on you, people have told you.