Maybe, once, once, you fantasized that if time could go back, I would …
Or maybe, at this moment, you fantasize that if time can go back, I will ...
However, is there really a "if, if, regret medicine …" in the world? There is no doubt that the answer is a firm "no".
What kind of mentality do those who want countless "ifs" treat what has happened?
Have you seriously reflected on the "if" you want every time? Many people deeply regret behind the "if". If I had worked harder, even a little, I would have been admitted to the university. Looking at the students who can strike up a conversation with foreigners, I fantasize about how good it would be if I went back to my old high school. I will definitely study English well. If I wasn't so headstrong, I wouldn't get hurt or involve others. I am so miserable and regretful; If I can start over, I will treat my dead relatives well, and it doesn't matter if I beat and scold them ... But if there is no if, have you found that almost everyone in this world wants to return to the regret of "if" and want to make changes?
However, there is no "if" regret medicine in the world, and no one can do it. Behind your regret, it must be that you didn't work hard, were careless, made an irrational decision, and made an impulsive choice ... all these bad consequences are nothing more than yourself.
Everyone has to pay for his mistakes, no matter how serious. Imagine if there is a if, then the reverse cycle of the world is like a myth, and everything in the world changes very quickly, which is impossible. It is absolutely human nature to feel sorry for this.
Not long ago, on Weibo, a netizen posted a Weibo: If time could go back, what would you like to do first? Countless netizens are almost second comments, and all kinds of wonderful answers are logical and logical. One of the netizens said: If I can start over, I will treat my father well, because my father has passed away because of my willfulness. I hope you won't make the same mistake again. Another network said: If I could do it all over again, I would definitely go back to school. Without my parents forcing me to study, I would definitely be admitted to a good university and I wouldn't have to work so hard now. Another friend said: If I could do it all over again, I would definitely say to my mother, "Mom, I love you and thank you for your hard work" ... These netizens expressed their feelings, regretted what they did or did not do in time, and expressed deep pain and responsibility. At the same time, another level also reminds everyone to cherish the present, cherish what they have at this moment, and don't regret it until they arrive.
Indeed, when everyone saw these comments, they seemed to wake up and remind themselves to treat their parents well and cherish the present. However, have you found that people have a bad habit of doing everything, and three minutes of enthusiasm and seven minutes of enthusiasm will pass? When I got home, I quarreled with my parents because I didn't agree. In a bad mood, because it doesn't matter, I do whatever I want, regardless of the feelings of others; Because I hesitated, I missed the opportunity ... This irrational behavior completely ignored my previous "treat my parents well and trim myself well ...".
Since you became a director, many soul chicken soup and inspirational stories have been sprinted in your mind, but they have only been digested for a short time and have not brought any impact on your later life. Your true nature is still exposed. The most terrible thing is that when you really lose it, like a netizen, you post a Weibo or comment on a Weibo, telling others with your example that "you should cherish what you have, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it". However, have you ever thought that you once reminded yourself in other people's warnings: cherish the present and cherish what you have. However, you didn't, and what happened to others happened to you. How sad and ridiculous this is!
A lot of things, you always do it over and over again, but never think that things will happen to you.
This seems to be everyone's weakness. Everyone's nature always sighs with regret. If time can go back, few people can really change themselves from other people's examples or from experiences and lessons.
A poem by San Mao describes the human desire for "if" in a particularly interesting way:
If there is an afterlife, be a tree.
Standing forever. There is no gesture of sadness and joy.
Half in the dust.
Half of them are flying in the wind.
Half in the shade.
Half bathed in sunshine
Very silent, very proud
Never rely on, never look for.
……
Reading San Mao's poem "If there is an afterlife", we can not only feel the feelings revealed in the poem, but also feel the beauty of rhythm from the poem, which well reflects people's desire for a stable life if there is an afterlife. Just like your pursuit. Just like your desire for "if" after many life disasters. Just, you don't know, even if you live again, it will still be the same as now, and your desires will always be infinite and unsatisfied. So, how important it is to live in the present and cherish what you have now!
How wonderful the "if" written by San Mao is, but where does the "if" in life come from? You can always use beautiful language to modify and express countless "ifs", but you will never change the past facts because of those "ifs" you say. Isn't it the best to live in the present and cherish it? The more extravagant you are, the more you lose.
In this world, there is no time to go back. I hope that when you are eager for "if", you will try to find the present and consider the future, because the past will make you think, not regret, you can only grow up in thinking, and regret will only make you more degenerate and incompetent.