2. Keep your heart strong: As Mr. Feng Zikai said: Since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to be happy; Since there is no pure land, it is better to purify the soul; Since I didn't get what I wanted, I might as well be relieved. Since you can't change the world, try to make your heart strong. If the heart is strong enough, you can live the highest elegance from the humblest life.
3. Maintain true self-discipline: What is true self-discipline? It is to "do what you don't like but should do" and do it to the extreme. In other words, you should always force yourself into the state. In this way, you won't feel pain for those obligations that really need you to complete. Over time, this self-discipline behavior becomes a habit and dominates your behavior. People must force themselves to give full play to their potential talents and wisdom. Therefore, if you insist on doing what you don't like but should do, you will get unexpected cultivation and success.
4. Stay enthusiastic: An old woman named Shibata Toyo in Japan published her first book of poetry at the age of 98. /kloc-at the age of 0/00, she still lives an exquisite life, dressed brightly, going out to make up, with a mirror and lipstick at hand. She said: "Even if I am 98 years old, I will still fall in love, dream and ride the clouds that day." Romain rolland said: "The heaviest burden in life is not work, but boredom." If there is no passion for life, youth is just confused; If you are passionate about life, you will still be full of energy when you are over 100 years old. Halfway through life, your youthful vitality may have been exhausted long ago, but please clean up your mood and regain your enthusiasm. If the fire in your heart doesn't go out, you can live a prosperous life.
5. Keep an appropriate limit: when dealing with people, you should know how to be measured. If you don't have a good proper limit, you can call a spade a spade and everything can be forgiven. Light words will be boring, heavy words will get you into trouble.