A few days ago, I read a few posts on Baijiahao, all about the tragedy caused by marital infidelity. Most of them are netizens who scold men for cheating. According to statistics, the divorce rate in China has been rising since 15 years, and this trend is still increasing. Modern people's life is more and more convenient, their horizons are more and more open, but their feelings are more and more complex and fragile. The reasons for divorce are very complicated, because men are still in the majority.
Even in today's society, cruel incidents such as self-mutilation, suicide, murder or throwing sulfuric acid at people still occur from time to time due to family emotional contradictions. No one is qualified to accuse a person of doing right or wrong, perhaps because of this, life itself is so colorful! Betraying love and abandoning a dross wife is not only the fault of men now, but also that of Chen Shimei, which has existed since history. This is also human nature.
The Book of Songs Meng is a love story that begins with chaos and ends with abandonment. When reading the Book of Songs, I only like to know the living conditions of the ancients, and I don't think about the structure and allusions of the poems in detail, but only skim over the traditional Chinese characters. Modern people can't understand the views and ways of ancient men and women treating feelings. Life is so closed, life is so monotonous and depressing, and women's social status is so humble. How should they get along and love each other? It can be seen from the Book of Songs that thousands of years ago, women valued emotion instead of material things, and some men also paid special attention to emotion.
For example, "out of its east gate, there are women like clouds." Although there are many clouds, I think of people. I love the green scarf, so I love it. Walking outside the city gate, the beauty is Kaya. Although it is not mine, it is not mine. I dress like a reed, I can talk and entertain. "Beauty like a cloud, I don't like it. Look at this love story. Which woman is not moved? This is a modern version of "I only take a ladle of water for 3 thousand", which makes people feel deeply.
When reading Meng, I couldn't help sighing to myself: Why did women have this virtue since ancient times? What "I can't see re-entry, I cry again and again;" When he didn't come to see her, she couldn't help crying secretly, hoping that the stars and the moon would finally come to him, and she was refreshed at once. Everything was really boring before meeting someone else. I can't help thinking of his voice and smile. Is he thinking about her, too? Who knows?
Men go out hard and busy. There are so many opportunities to meet so many beautiful women and so many talented fireworks girls. I'm really a little uneasy. She tried hard not to cry, but the tears came out on her own. As a poem says, "If I were a tear in your eyes, I wouldn't cry all my life because I'm afraid of losing you." But I am not a tear in your eyes, you are a mole in my heart, which is connected with my flesh and blood.
Therefore, I can't help crying when I can't see "re-entry". When I saw "Return", I immediately laughed and laughed, and all the grievances were gone. In order to protect myself, I want to live with you! I like your simplicity of "holding cloth and trading silk" and your kindness of "talking and laughing".
The woman broke through the shackles of the matchmaker's words and lived with self-protection before marriage. To my surprise, the woman lived with self-protection before marriage without the orders of her parents and the words of a matchmaker. Think about it, how much courage did society have to pay at that time?
However, the happy life didn't last long, just like having a nightmare, and everything changed. Why did you become like this, Meng? "Mulberry is like a leaf coat before it falls." I have worked hard in your house for so many years, but I can't bear to eat delicious food and wear good clothes, leaving only a good suit. My hands are chapped with cold, my skin becomes rough, my hair is getting drier and drier, and my skin is not as fresh and moist as mulberry leaves, but you want to dislike me and refuse to take me in.
I remember my best friend advised me not to indulge in love. I didn't listen to other people's advice. "I can also say that I am a scholar." You can't say you're a woman. "How can the human heart be so fickle? Those hateful words and violence are completely different from you. I love you as much as my life. How can I let you go? Your promise, your tenderness and your affection, why is everything empty? Does your promise really mean nothing? ?
The woman suffered for a while and finally figured it out: I can't die without you. Since you don't want me, I don't want you either. Self-protection, do you know how many people will be spurned by your initial confusion and final abandonment? "If you don't think about it, it's already embarrassing." To protect yourself, you don't love me, and I don't love you. Let's never meet again!
Self-protection means that farmers go into exile from other places in order to defend the country. He looks like a diaosi and a smile. Now I think he is a crafty little businessman. At the beginning, his honesty was false, his "joking" warmth was false, and his "sworn" loyalty was purposeful. He cheated an innocent and beautiful girl by false means and gained her body and mind. After marriage, when a woman's skin is not watery, he shows his true colors and hates her. When did the chaos begin and end? How much do you know about the past?
As Zhang Ailing said, there is no relationship that is not riddled with holes. Even if love hurts Linlin again, it is still a constant topic among literati since ancient times, and the story of cheating will repeat itself. No matter how it ends, if you love it, you won't regret it. If no one loves themselves, then women should love themselves well. It's really not easy to live a lifetime! The most beautiful sentences in the Book of Songs, the most beautiful names in the Book of Songs, famous articles in the Book of Songs, the most beautiful names in the Book of Songs, and classic sentences in the full text of the Book of Songs.