Ma Jiajue incident, as we all know, what is his achilles heel? There is something wrong with thinking and fighting spirit. Before committing the crime, he spent a lot of time and energy searching for information on the internet: what tools are the most concealed to kill, what route to take when fleeing, and so on. He spent a lot of time thinking about this problem. However, he didn't think of his parents in the whole process. Ma Jiajue didn't expect that when his parents knelt down to those parents who brutally killed college students, those old people would think with sticks ...-This is a mental problem. In addition, his will is very weak, others can knock him down with a word, and he has the idea of killing people. Ma Jiajue is very clever. When everyone plays poker with his classmates, he always wins. His classmates played a joke on him. You are a man with a problem. You always cheat at cards and always win. So, everyone doesn't like you, and you don't want to say that you are fake at the birthday party. For this sentence, Ma Jiajue gave birth to a murderous heart. ...
When the baby is born, no one will ask whether it is the president or the minister of health; Whether to be a boss or a wage earner; Whether it is a professor or a tramp, people will only ask: Is it a boy or a girl? Young master or daughter? For a newborn child, everything in the future is unknown, and no one knows and cannot know what kind of person he will become in the future. From this perspective, people are all the same at birth, and if there are any differences, they are generally only differences between men and women. However, with the passage of time, the change of environment, the difficulty of learning, the difficulty of the world and the warmth and coldness of human feelings, people's hearts and thoughts will gradually change, leading to the gap between people, so some people are very successful and some people are very unsuccessful; Some people are excellent, others are mediocre; Some people are happy, others are miserable. If you want to be a very successful, excellent and happy person in this highly competitive society, the key lies in whether you have a heart that will never be cold or die! Is there a will that neither subjective nor objective factors can overcome?
Let's listen to music and enjoy it in this beautiful afternoon. Let's open our hearts, walk into our inner world and have a dialogue with our hearts. Let's recall from kindergarten and find what we lost. ...
People live in the world, who doesn't want to do something for the society, repay their families and comfort themselves?
However, the wind and frost of the years, the hardships of the world and the warmth and coldness of human feelings have made many people numb and disappointed, indifferent, unwilling to make progress and afraid to struggle. ......
Over the years, who helped you when you needed it most? In the vast sea of people, who cares about you most and loves you most? Who will always care about and miss you when you are not at home? Who is always looking forward to your coming home and waiting for you to eat? Who is most nervous and anxious when sick? Who is happier than you when you are happiest? Who is more painful than you when you are most painful? Who will comfort you and encourage you when you are most frustrated and helpless? Who will accompany you when you are most lonely? Who has the greatest influence on your life? Who occupies the most position in your mind?
You may have grown up in the countryside, and your family has been farmers for generations. In order to survive, you can live and grow with dignity like other children. Your parents work hard all year round, but as long as their children are willing to make progress, they are willing to have no regrets. Whenever night falls and you go to the classroom for evening self-study, your parents may not have come home for dinner yet. If they wander around, do business and collect junk, maybe they don't know where the dinner is because they can't get paid. When you go to bed for further study, your parents often worry about bringing you tuition and living expenses for the whole family, and often can't sleep all day long ... They know that today's society depends on skills to eat. Although you have studied, there are many people competing in the society, but there are few jobs and the competition is fierce. It is not easy for children to exist and take care of themselves, so they dare not expect too much from you for the rest of their lives, and they may have to live in their later years. In fact, your parents' hard work is nothing more than hoping that their children can become useful people to society, be respected and admired, and their efforts will not be in vain! Think about yourself. Can you do it? As parents of farmers or migrant workers, when they are really old and can't do anything, their lives will have no support. To a large extent, they will rely on their children to spend the darkest years of their lives. What can you bring them?
You grow up day by day, but your parents get old day by day. Have you seen their faces? Have you looked at them carefully? How old are they? Do you know that?/You know what? They may have become very old, because of metabolism, people will naturally get old, but it is not normal to get old too soon. Over the years, they have been running for their lives, working hard and worrying about their children. You may often argue back with them and make them angry and sad. Your study is not ideal, and your behavior always makes them uneasy. They are often worried about your future and way out. How young can they be? Besides, they may still have many diseases, and they are unwilling to look up, afraid of examination and hospitalization, and they are always so overwhelmed. Are their lives in danger? How long can they live? Anyway, you should take some time and give yourself a chance to see your parents! It is time!
If there were no parents, what would happen to your study and life? In what ways do parents earn money for your education? What happened to them? Are they good to you? Do you often think of them? Do you often greet them? Do you still talk and laugh with them often? Do you still often hold their hands in the street? Would you like them to come to see you at school? Can you introduce it proudly in front of your classmates? Do you know their birthdays? Do you remember their birthdays?
Not long ago, when I gave a speech in a middle school in the coastal area of Guangdong, I heard the teacher there say that there was a boy in their middle school. His father was a pawn and his mother was in power in a certain department. This boy always thinks that he can rely on his parents to spoil him all day, study lazily, lead a dissolute life, rely on his wealth, be generous and spend money like water. His father and mother are busy with official business and social activities, so they have no time to take care of him. He's getting worse.
Originally, he was a dude and his father was Chengtou. He doesn't care about the teacher at all. He has a poor foundation, no desire to study, and he is arrogant. Naturally, his study became worse and worse.
Many people have sent their children to study abroad, and the boy's father has also sent him out. In domestic schools, I don't concentrate on my studies, and I can't learn English. How can I study in English-speaking countries in Europe and America at one time? Although I went to the language school first, it didn't help after all.
Far from home and classmates, he doesn't understand and doesn't want to read. Coupled with the language barrier, it is difficult to communicate with people and even go shopping. After two years of loneliness and boredom, one day, he returned to China.
But when I got home, everything changed. The door has been sealed by the police, and the kind neighbor told him that something had happened to your parents! I'm locked up. According to the situation, my life is in danger.
He never knew what suffering was, and suddenly he sat on the ground with a blank mind and a blank brain. After waking up, he went to the detention center. Dad, who used to be red-faced and full of energy, is now very haggard. Ask his father, and he says, Dad, how did you become like this? Didn't you tell me to rest assured?
His father said, "Son, my father did something wrong. He wanted to pave the way for you, but he did not expect to harm you and himself. " Dad probably won't live long, your mother will be locked up for at least ten years, all the property in the family will be confiscated, and our family will be completely destroyed. Mom and dad can't help me. Trees will fall and vines will wither. We are in such a situation that you can't count on any relatives or friends to help you. You have to rely on yourself in the future. Work hard and live as far as you can! "
In order to make a living, a few days later, the boy set up a stall selling frozen fish in a corner of the vegetable market. It used to be a few hundred dollars a day, but now a catty of frozen fish only earns a few cents. Make a net profit of twenty or thirty yuan at most a day. Of this money, he has to pay rent and eat, and there is not much left. I used to spend my parents' ill-gotten wealth, and I didn't feel bad about how much I spent. Now I have to think about every dollar I spend on myself. People who used to pass by the vegetable market to see fish were regarded as ants. Don't even look at them, even curse them when they are blocked. Now talk to them carefully and politely, always afraid of offending others. ......
So, classmates, you may often be complacent and proud of your parents when they become big officials and do big business, thinking that you can live a good life in this life, you can sit back and relax, live casually, behave dissolutely, and spend a lot of money all day and all night ... Have you ever thought about what your parents are like now when you are pampered and spend money like water? Did their money come easily? When you are in a good mood to squander your enjoyment, have you ever asked and weighed the source of the money? They have prepared a lot of money and a paved future for you. Is it dangerous to be safe? Will they ruin their future and life for you? Your parents will give you everything, but have you ever put yourself in their shoes? In this world, almost nothing is eternal. You put all your future on your parents. What do you think your chances are of winning? Why don't you study hard and rely on yourself?