Couples keep fresh. Judging from these three points, it is not difficult.
First, keep it fresh.
Most couples are busy with their families and children, and they no longer pay attention to their personal image. Some people even develop distrust, where they become a yellow woman and a greasy uncle. When I was lovelorn, I saw each other's feelings.
The appearance is not welcomed by the other party. Song Meili didn't let Chiang Kai-shek see his plain. Ye Zhi is also a good time to see it. I like life.
Ms. Li, the favorite of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, has been there and thinks that the Han Dynasty will also go. Li Furen didn't see Han impermanence until his death. So Ms. Li has always been a country in the Han Dynasty.
Now, no matter men or women need beauty, what do they love? In the face of a beautiful wife or handsome husband, no matter how happy people are.
After the couple's wedding, she went from poetry to firewood. Her family was very complicated and she was busy with her children at work. Various contradictions emerge one after another. The gentle woman and the cheerful and considerate man have become weak. The lion in the east of the river, its image has been destroyed, and violent thunder and wind are all there. In the long run, we are tired of each other, and we still have new feelings.
Couples should adjust their mentality and adapt to married life. No matter what happens, you should be calm and smile. As long as husband and wife work together, rain is a rainbow. Pay attention to improving and maintaining your image and avoid losing control of your emotions. Punishing guests, the case is the basis of husband and wife.
Secondly, keep your distance-strengthen new feelings.
"When the stimulus is repeated in the same way, the intensity and frequency of repetition and the response begin to weaken."
When husband and wife are together, the pillow is like a pointer. Psychological and physical enthusiasm will inevitably fade, and there will even be a sense of profit and loss. So leave some space for each other and keep your distance. Not all distances can only be pain, but also distance can produce beauty. Travel on business, return to China, etc. Deliberately create opportunities to keep two people at a certain distance, so that the interests of the other party and the other party can be reviewed.
In the past and now, both places have produced literati and American sentences. Li Bai's Once upon a time, the tears this spring, Ouyang Xiu's Liu Hui and Chun Qing, and Bai's Thinking, Hatred and Hateful Return to Time and Space are all very long. If you ask someone, unless you meet them, "Wait, you don't really think you will stay as soon as possible." Couples keep fresh. Judging from these three points, it is not difficult.
On the Double Ninth Festival, Li Qinghao expressed her thoughts in her husband's Drunk Flowers. From mist, golden beasts, jade pillows, curtains and autumn chrysanthemums, there are no words and feelings that cannot enter each other. Especially after the end, "Mo Dao is not the soul, the ant of the wind, and people are thinner than yellow flowers" is a stroke of genius.
In short, a small resort is a wedding. Every time we get together, the love between husband and wife will be stronger. Disagreement is painful, and both husband and wife will cherish time. For example, the epidemic forced some couples to separate from their husbands. Being apart allows them to see the other side and know that these two people are happy together.
Third, create surprises-add freshness.
Smart couples will prepare gifts and rich meals on each other's special days, wedding anniversaries and Valentine's Day. Ordinary days will also surprise each other. Watch a movie, chat, travel, praise love, occasionally change your image and wear a nice pajamas. We should cultivate common interests.
Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng spit tea on the gambling book, Zhang Kuankuan drew a pair of fried eyebrows, Qian Yuqi's beloved wife "Mohua, you can return it slowly", and Hong Song "inferred" that his wife would not "refuse" the princess's party. Such a surprise filled the couple with fun.
Unexpected little surprises can not only add fun, but also make them satisfied with their husband and wife. Moreover, two sons can be as smart as jade occasionally. I want to explain how husbands and wives should relate to real examples in the world.
My cousin has been itching for the past seven years. She is the family she looks up to after burying her marriage. She no longer pays attention to her image, especially after giving birth to a child, and does not pay attention to maintenance, which has changed a lot. Husband is too lazy to see her, although, the husband and wife quarrel and have a marriage crisis.
Later, I insisted on physical training in beauty treatment. She often changes her hair style, makes up and improves her clothes. Even the chef is special. Peace of mind, kindness and elegance, always with a confident smile and eyes in my heart. She seems younger and more beautiful than last year.
The deviation distance is beautiful. From now on, it will get together with its little girlfriend to go shopping. Have a son's holiday, go home, stay, or travel When the mortar is around, my husband is sitting. I always call to urge him to come back and think about his feelings.
Update a new one? Go to the kitchen, go to the kitchen, there is a beautiful scenery, and my husband has a sense of crisis. On the one hand, balance calculation, on the other hand, strengthen self-cultivation, pay attention to personal image, efforts and gaps, because the wind is a veritable good father and husband at home. I have achieved good results in solving "aesthetic fatigue" and the preservation measures of Wonda, and now their feelings are getting deeper and deeper, becoming a model of husband and wife. Everyone envies her husband, envy her husband, but I don't know if she has a long face. Paying attention to image and keeping the boundaries between oneself and individuals will make a woman more beautiful.