Some people say, and cherish.
The road of life is like a one-way street. We can only go all the way forward, and we can't turn back.
Time flies, walking on the road of life, our steps are always unconsciously accelerated, and the scenery on the road is like a fleeting glance, which passes by before our eyes, and we have missed it before we even have time to taste its beauty. It is precisely because there are too many such misses and losses that cherishing is particularly precious.
Only those who know how to cherish can appreciate the scenery on the road of life. Only those who know how to cherish can avoid the bitterness of missing the taste.
Jiang Yang is a person who knows how to cherish. Her understanding of the word "cherish" comes from some books she originally had, but they disappeared before she could read them.
Jiang Yang's father, Yang Yinhang, was an educated man, who had a deep influence on Jiang Yang.
Jiang Yang likes literature since he was a child, and Yang Yinhang is also very supportive. In order to enable Jiang Yang to read widely, Yang Yinhang often buys some books home, especially Jiang Yang's favorite poems and novels. He is never stingy. If Jiang Yang is interested in any book, Yang Yinhang will personally find it out and show it to her.
Yang Yinhang loves Jiang Yang deeply, but his love is not indulgent. The books on the table are to be read. If Jiang Yang doesn't read it for a long time, the book will disappear.
When Jiang Yang went to look for these books again, it was too late.
For Jiang Yang, these lost books are like a silent condemnation, which makes her feel bad.
Everyone knows that "flowers can be folded straight, don't wait for them to be empty". However, people are so strange sometimes. When they get it easily, it seems insignificant. When they really missed it, lost it and couldn't turn back, they knew how precious it was.
Yang Yinhang never said a harsh word about the books that Jiang Yang didn't read, but their disappearance made Jiang Yang more appreciative. And this treasure is rooted in her bones. Not only reading, but also feelings, work, study and life.
"It is better to pity the people in front of you than to miss the mountains and rivers." Yan Shu's words are full of reason in a touch of sadness. It's no use hurting spring and mourning autumn. Cherish the present, cherish the present, this is the most important thing.
The word "cherish" means timeliness to a certain extent.
Time is like a long river, which never stops. If you don't catch it, it will slip away. People who know how to cherish also know how to grasp the present. They will do what they should do in time and love the person they should love in time; They can express their feelings in time, be grateful in time, enjoy happiness and happiness in time ... they try to grasp everything they can, live up to the fleeting time and be worthy of the present.
This is to cherish.
Jiang Yang knows how to cherish, and she knows how to pity the present.
When I first met Qian Zhongshu, there was a big misunderstanding between them. At that time, Jiang Yang asked her classmates and learned that Qian Zhongshu was engaged, so she was very upset. All encounters are fate given by heaven. It's really not easy to meet someone you like in the vast sea of people. "Magnificent and beautiful" Qian Zhongshu was deeply imprinted in Jiang Yang's mind, but they seemed to meet too late.
Jiang Yang sighed and regretted it.
Like this matter, you can be duplicitous, you can be insincere, you can cheat others, you can say you don't like it, but you can't cheat your own heart.
Jiang Yang knew in his heart that he liked Qian Zhongshu, but even if he loved him deeply, he was helpless.
Fortunately, it wasn't long before Qian Zhongshu found Jiang Yang. Although he also heard that Jiang Yang had a boyfriend, the throb in his heart puzzled him and made him unable to let go calmly. He didn't want to miss Jiang Yang so quietly.
Qian Zhongshu cherished this meeting with Jiang Yang. Similarly, Jiang Yang also cherishes the fate with Qian Zhongshu.
So as soon as they met, Jiang Yang said she didn't have a boyfriend. The so-called boyfriend in everyone's mouth is just a matter of friends she has known for many years, Qian Zhongshu explained.
Just right, Qian Zhongshu's so-called engagement is also an own goal event.
Clear up the misunderstanding in time, and all the concerns between two people will disappear.
Love is a flower, which needs to be nourished by heart. Only by timely watering and careful care can the flowers bloom. Obviously, Jiang Yang and Qian Zhongshu are people who know how to nourish love and cherish their lovers. Cherish in time, let their love have a beginning, cherish for a long time, let their love be engraved in time and become eternal.
A pair of lifelong people, hand in hand through thick and thin, never give up, which makes many people envy. But in fact, when this relationship started, it was just to cherish the initial encounter and cherish the feeling of heartbeat.
It is easy to cherish, but in fact it is far from optimistic.
Too often, when we suddenly wake up and desperately want to catch something or someone, it (he) has gone far and disappeared. We say that we should cherish it in time, but in fact, our treasure is always late. What is even more frustrating is that everything is easy to do at once, but once the deadline of "life" is added in front of us, that long time becomes a mountain in front of us. Let us stop step by step and gradually wear out our hearts. And cherish it.
It is not easy to cherish for a while, but it is even harder to cherish for a long time, but can we give up because it is difficult? Of course not! The more difficult it is, the less we can give up easily, and the less we can put it down easily.
Cherish in many cases means persistence.
It is easy to give up, and you can get temporary relief, but giving up means losing. Especially if you give up what you once cherished most, the painful taste will inevitably lurk in a short period of relaxation, and then ferment in a long life, so that you can't let it go for a long time. On the contrary, it is persistence. Although it was difficult for a while, looking back, those pains and difficulties will turn into butterflies that break out of their cocoons, blooming colorful flowers and dancing.
Jiang Yang and Qian Zhongshu know how to cherish, and they cherish each other all their lives.
Their life is not without wind and rain, but the wind and rain brought them not cold erosion, but let their hearts collapse and the world go away. On the contrary, the wind and rain bring them mutual snuggling, hugging and warmth, cherish each other and work together.
What is a treasure?
Cherish, that is, don't let go easily, don't be afraid to pay, don't have a clear conscience, and don't have regrets.
In fact, a person's life is a long practice. In this practice, he cultivates deep love through wind and rain, true feelings through ups and downs, calmness through dullness and tenacity through hardship. This practice is a great test for all of us, but it is also a generous gift. Because everything we experience will seep into our bones and melt into our blood.
Cherish all this, because all this good and bad will eventually become the most precious memory in life.
Cherish it in time and don't let it go easily. ...
Jiang Yang read this from those books that disappeared.
Time flies, and a hundred years is just a flick of a finger. In this hurry, Jiang Yang cherishes the person he loves most and has the love of his life. Cherish the books you can read, and you will be full of poetry books; Cherish the time with children and gain the deep affection between mother and daughter; Cherish the opportunity to get in touch with new fields and new jobs, and get a career full of flowers and glory.
It took Jiang Yang a hundred years to cherish everything he had, which surprised people at that time.
We should also learn to cherish that wonderful time, but at least we can live up to ourselves.
Life is like a gorgeous flower. In the long river of years, our life is only fleeting, but this short life can also bloom.
May your life be gorgeous and amazing, may you cherish all the people you should cherish, and may you be cherished.
Author | Liu Ying "Jiang Yang: Calm and Calm, Elegant"
Authorization | Spring Breeze Melts Rain
Typesetting | Xiaoya
Audit | A Zi
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