I like to see strangers in the street. Seeing a tall father walking leisurely with a young baby in his arms, I can feel the tenderness of his father under the invasion; Seeing a considerate husband gently holding his wife's slender hand, you can imagine how much they love each other; Seeing the gentle mother holding the children's fleshy hands, I can realize how happy they are; I can feel how satisfied my elderly grandmother is when she pulls her naughty grandson or granddaughter to snuggle up to each other.
Yes, happiness, how simple. A gentle hug is a simple feeling; Warm hand in hand is deep love; A quiet smile is a silent satisfaction; No matter noble or mediocre, we should return to this simple love, stay with each other for life and care for each other for life.
Emotion is the only thing in the world that needs neither return nor return.
Emotion is a trivial matter of life. When you need it most, the people who are with you are the closest and favorite people. When you are sick, the people who take care of you by your side are the closest relatives and the most loved ones. There is only this kind of affection, and there is no return. As long as you see your closest relatives and the most loved ones, they are safe and healthy, which is the greatest happiness in this life.
Life is colorful because of this affection; Life is safe and warm because of this affection; The greatest success in this life is not how many auras you can show off, but having a very happy family; The hardest thing to do in this life is not to earn much wealth, but to run a very warm family. This is the simplest but most difficult emotion that everyone yearns for and has.
Life is simple, because life itself is ordinary. No matter where you are and what kind of life you live, our final destination is a warm home. No matter how far we go, our hearts are rooted there; No matter where we are, our attention remains there. Everyone's deepest desire is to be with the person they love for life and never part.
In fact, many times, the simplest things are often the hardest to come by. We are habitually moved by the happiness of others, but many times we are indifferent to the happiness we already have. Often after losing, I know regret; When you have it, you don't know how to cherish it. When you look up to other people's happiness, don't forget to look down on your own happiness.
Happiness is actually very simple. Give enough understanding when you need to understand, give double care when you need to care, hug tightly when you need to hug, clasp your fingers when you can hold hands, accompany silently when you need company, and face difficulties, share happiness and cry when you are moved by never back down when you need support!
Everyone wants to find someone who can accompany him for life, and then form a happy family, have one or two children, run hand in hand on the family long-distance running line, and run through spring, summer, autumn and winter together, even if it is just imagination, it is also a very beautiful thing.
Happiness is as simple as that. Please cherish. Happiness needs to be pieced together with many trivial things. Only by constantly picking up those trivial things can you spell the happiness you want.
Family is so precious. Please understand and accompany. Family members don't need anything in return from you, just your safety and your health.
With all our love, draw a flower roll of love, and our hearts will bloom with happiness!
Chapter 2: Happiness is as simple as that. I have been busy with my own affairs recently, and I don't update my space as often as before. I suddenly came up to have a look today and found that I haven't seen you for a week and I have changed a little.
Interest is the best teacher. We should manage our interests and keep them. Interest is not a temporary thing, we need to know our interest correctly. Perhaps the biggest gain we can get from doing something with enthusiasm is wasting time. Sometimes we need to sort out the thinking of one thing, take care of it ourselves, and allocate everything as time. Dealing with your own affairs is probably the greatest victory.
Do one thing over and over again, and we take care of everything in a familiar way. But to really do one thing well, we still need to discover secrets and make use of leisure, so that we can have the greatest chance of success. We really need to discover the fun of what we do with our hearts.
Waiting blindly will only make us tired of our work at this time and complain blindly, which will eventually be eliminated from our lives. If you can't change yourself, you will be eliminated by the environment. It is not only time that is rounded by reality, but also our patience to wait. If we don't change ourselves and explore the sweetness around us, we will eventually be impetuous, enriched and eventually exhausted by our fiery fighting heart. Why not find a little happiness in life and grasp it well, and you will find that our life is really relaxed, real and beautiful.
I don't envy other people's lives, but there are some wonderful parts in my ordinary life. In a full and happy life, I also have my own little troubles. But happy people are happy after all, because they are infinitely expanding their sense of happiness and narrowing their sense of misfortune. They are always happy when others see them in their eyes. The happier others feel, the easier they live. Sometimes what you present to others, we can hear others' comments on ourselves. Therefore, if life makes you happy first, you will be happy.
Life remains the same, friends are affectionate, not far away. Let's love today. Your happiness needs to be expressed by yourself, and your happiness needs to be experienced by yourself. You will get better and better. Let's go
Chapter 3: Happiness is so simple, I can't remember how many nights, I couldn't sleep, had countless dreams and woke up in the middle of the night. Although I slept little, I woke up too early this morning like a conditioned reflex. Yes, today is Tanabata, the day when the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl meet. Remember the message you sent me on May 20th 13: 04? Love me all my life, and I replied to you with the same firm words. You were in Dongguan that day, and you are going back to Shenzhen this afternoon to help me clean my room and cook dinner. Because of the unexpected traffic jam, your surprise for me fell through. By tacit understanding, I bought flowers to meet you at the station. As soon as I got off the bus, I watched you waiting at the gas station. The figure wearing a floral dress and holding an umbrella is so kind. I quickly walked up to you and said, wife, I love you all my life. At that time, you looked surprised and panicked, and it took a while to react. A happy smile with surprise and joy on your face tells me that you love me all my life. After more than two months, today, on this special day, I still want to give you the romantic plot you deserve.
Get up early in the morning to wash, dress neatly and "see" in the best way. Then go to the airport line 4, such as the platform of Longhua village Committee, where countless buses have been waiting. After getting off at South China City, the flower shop was already very busy. I have carefully selected a bunch of lilies, and I know you will like them. At this time, I took a taxi to Wanhang Jiahua Shopping Mall with flowers in my hand. In an instant, everything you see is so familiar. A platform for waiting for the bus together; Walking hand in hand in the street; Shopping malls together; Find a house that can be rented together; ……
Today, it seems that everyone is very busy, and the bustling crowd and the torrent of vehicles gather here. From time to time, passers-by cast envious eyes on the road. Soon, one step, ten steps, one hundred steps ... Building 52 will arrive. I dialed the familiar number 158 again, and made sure I didn't hear the prompt such as power off. I said I was downstairs. Happy Valentine's Day. I bought your favorite flowers. Yes, I can hear you clearly. You said yes, um, hung up the phone, although there was no record of dialing in the phone call record. I know it's my cell phone. This is my mobile phone. But you will never come out of Building 52 to accept the flowers I bought. I think you must have slept in it. If you wait, you will definitely come out.
People keep coming in and out of 52 buildings, but they can't find that kind figure. The sun is so big that I drag my forehead with my hand to cover my eyes and keep out the ruthless sun. In this way, salty sweat will not seep into your face, maybe it is sweat. At this time, you vaguely called my name in my ear. Looking intently, I finally "came out". This time, I will slow down, hold your hand and walk on this lovely street. "Be careful, there is a manhole cover in front, don't stick your heel in it" ... I know you will never appear here. You told me that you had no choice but to go back to your hometown and start a family with others. But I can feel that you are nearby, right beside me, and never leave.
It turns out that happiness is so simple. No matter where you are, the seeds of happiness will be sown. I want to tell you that I am very happy to have you. I love you, I love you unswervingly!
Chapter 4: Happiness is so simple. Although the solar term has entered autumn, it is still very hot today. It's still annoying at night. Ping decided to go out for a walk. She feels dizzy at home, the air conditioner is on, and she can't breathe fresh air. She walked alone to the square, where many people had gathered like an appointment, including children, the elderly and couples.
She found a place to sit down, but her ass was too hot for her to rest. She sat for a few minutes, her ears full of noise. She couldn't stand it for a moment and stood up at once. She stayed at home for too long, and besides working, she also planned to stay at home. All this upset her. She escaped from the noisy square. Where are you going? I can't go back!
She changed her mind and decided to go to the river. When I got to the river, I saw many people coming to the river to enjoy the cool. They also had various roles, but there was no more noise. She was thrilled, and that's what she wanted! There is not too dazzling light by the river, and everyone can't see the expression clearly. Ping walked down the steps, found the first floor and sat down.
Ping feels that she has regained her mind and can think about some problems. She looked up at the night sky and found it was so lonely. The summer night sky in her memory should be lively, right? She even doubted whether she remembered correctly. When did this night sky appear? Will human activities also affect stars? She looked at the river again and didn't feel its comfort until today. She sighed secretly and felt that she was behind the times. Below the dike is a shallow water area where children can play. And a guardrail separates the deep river. She thinks the government has done a great good thing. She turned her eyes to the river. It was too dark for her to see clearly. She only knows that it is still, but she knows its power.
Ping took out her headphones and took them with her. She chose a song by Jeff Chang Shin-Che Shenche. Listening to his songs at this time is simply enjoyment. His voice was indescribably clear and sad. Bai Yueguang is somewhere in my heart, so bright and so cold. Everyone has a sadness that they want to forget, but it's shattered glass. Everyone has sad times and wants to forget them, but they are all growing up. Your tears are in my heart. Ping suddenly felt a little salty at her mouth, and tears flooded easily. She can't treat it herself. She knows that sometimes she doesn't cry. Listening to the song and looking at the river that never looks back, she thinks of him.
He found her only a few days ago. Tian is Ping's first love. They were each other's only lovers in adolescence, and broke up secretly for various reasons a few years later. There is no news anymore, as if each other has disappeared into the other's world. He found her and just wanted to know how she was. She felt that he didn't even have the courage to call her. She couldn't help poking him with a thorn. Do you hate him? In her mind, it is her wish to live a good life. But I just can't help being willful like a little girl, forcing God to speak his mind. Don't waste her miss for so many years. Otherwise she doesn't think it's worth it!
Under the pressure of Pingping, Tian's emotions have nowhere to escape. He told her his pain and loss, helplessness and sadness. He told her that he had looked for her several times, but he couldn't find her. They talked about the good memories of their love and gradually asked about each other's family and children. Everything seems to have changed from ups and downs of love to smooth sailing of affection. The purpose of peace has been achieved, and my heart is quieter. Looking at the river, maybe the love now will be long and lasting. Some things can't go back and can't go back. As long as the other party is happy! They are still in each other's hearts, just changing roles.
Then Xu Zhimo said, "I searched for the only confidant of my soul in the vast sea of people, and I was lucky enough to get it." No, I'm screwed. "Everything is doomed. Only by your side is your last wait. There's not so much to take! Always telling her Zen, she smiled bitterly. Call him a smelly boy. Sitting by the river, Ping felt relieved. God only wants her to be happy!
Ping turned on her mobile phone and saw a message from the sky asking her why she didn't sleep. She said she was in tears. I was angry that he sent two words: Daiyu. Ping thought the sky still regarded her as the delicate porcelain doll that needed to be cared for. God knows what kind of pain and despair she has. If he is not strong, I'm afraid he is not in this world, and there is no chance for him to find it. But it's not his fault! This is hers. Why does she get angry when she talks to him? She couldn't help feeling as if she had bullied him. At that time, he was willing to do anything for her except the stars and the moon. Even if you drop out of school. There was a smile on her lips. Bullying him is fun.
The phone rang. It was her husband. Said he was coming to pick her up. After her husband came, he took her man to shallow water. The husband knew that she was afraid of water and dared not go down alone. It's cold and comfortable to walk under. The husband and she came to the guardrail in the river without talking, and both of them looked at the distance. After a while, the husband said, "When we are old, only the other side can rely on us. You are my baby and my reliance. " Ping didn't make any noise. Just pulled his hand. Ping just wouldn't say that. Her husband led her back to the shore and went home hand in hand with her. Ping was filled with emotion, for fear that this feeling would disappear. Woman, being loved is happiness! She thinks the night by the river is so beautiful today. Although it is a thick black background.
Chapter 5: Happiness is so simple, just like this for a lifetime, just like this for a lifetime, giving you simple happiness-my promise.
I have nothing to do at noon, staring at my hands in a daze. Only then did I find that my nails had grown a lot unconsciously. If it's longer, you can practice the legendary Jiuyin White Bone Claw. Hey hey! Take a closer look at "Oh!" There are some stains in it. Hey! Feelings are the traces left by cooking. (Hey hey! Evidence! Hard-working and simple woman! Represented by a).
Actually, I used to think I was a neat freak. When I was a child, I didn't like to eat other people's meals, which was too unclean; And the mother at home, I beat her many times for skipping, stealing food and sleeping under the bed. I guess she must hate me to death. Washing hands is always used to using soap and washing it repeatedly. There are many similar things. ...
Now it seems that those so-called cleanliness hobbies have long been a thing of the past. The complicated work and trivial life every day began to feel a little tired. Unconsciously began to pursue the phrase "unclean, eat not sick" hehe! I don't know if there is any basis. In short, many times I am not so particular. Occasionally, I will choose the way of "out of sight is clean" to deceive myself. It feels good. It really works. People have also become a lot easier. For example, the floor should be mopped once every two days. After I changed my vision, I found that other places were still clean, so I changed it to three or four days. I am very concerned about the day after the postponement. You must put on clean shoes to go home. Therefore, my husband is often swept out of the house in the name of destroying the fruits of my labor and has to take off his shoes to show his compromise. Ha ha! Only on the same day! You only need to do it twice a week. It saves me a lot of time and labor. (haha! I can't believe it: is this still the hardworking me? Lazy and slippery! )
Cleanliness seems to be gone. However, long nails and microorganisms parasitic in nails must be eliminated. It is tolerable and unbearable! I can't believe I took the opportunity to settle here. You have a lot of nerve! Hum! How can I deserve my sandy jade hands without repairing them? Take out my "bone" scissors and hurry to have a "none left" hehe!
Ok ... I am very satisfied with ING ... ... only to find that my husband is still sitting in front of the computer with the latest system. What a coincidence! I cut it for him. Honey, give me your hand and I'll cut your nails. When' tis once spoken, his hand naturally reached over and put it on my leg. I was shocked at that moment. I was shocked by what I said that sounded so familiar but a little strange. Yes! How long has it been since I manicured his nails? I used to fix him when I was in love. Of course he doesn't let go of his toenails, and of course he always laughs and scolds his feet.
When did you forget this habit? Looking back ... ... I always criticized him. Say how he is not intimate; When I am not in love, I am so miserable. I love me; I don't know how to cherish and care about me after I get it. I don't think so? I can't even stick to such a small habit. But naturally I asked him to do the same thing for me. But I forgot the important point. Our identities are different. We formed a family. He's not just my lover. As a man, you have to bear more responsibilities. More burdens need him to carry. I am obsessed with what I call thoughtfulness and romance.
It is true that he is not a romantic person. Sweet talk. But he has a heart that really loves me. Think of the Qixi Festival a few days ago. I looked at the pancakes in someone else's pot and asked for them. He has never done it. But do it silently for me. Although it is the first time to try to make pancakes. But he did a good job. I pretended to be picky and said it was too greasy, a little soft and a little sticky. How should I eat better? (in fact, don't mention how beautiful it is. I am this person. They call such people "spill the beans", hee hee! )。 I just like to see him in a hurry. Ha ha! As a result, he retorted that I was a guy who only knew theory. Ha ha! That's what I do. I'm his strategist. And he is destined to be my soldier for life. Be ready to obey unconditionally at any time and listen to my command. (Actually, I really want to ask him: Dear, would you like to? But for life! Ha ha! )。 Later, someone asked me: what did he give me on Tanabata? My answer is that he gave me his whole heart. Isn't pancake the best gift? He devoted all his love, and the taste of happiness was unparalleled ... nothing like candlelight dinner, champagne and roses. (haha! I don't know if my mind is a sour grape! Anyway, I still want to say: thank you, dear! )
Look! My thinking is really elegant! Where were we? Hey hey! My husband's nails haven't been cut yet ... then, I hold his hand and put it in the palm of my left hand. His hands are still warm and fleshy, but much rougher. His nails are really long, and some are obviously uneven. I guess I haven't cut it for a long time. There are still indelible black oil ideas under the nails. Probably because of repairing the machine. (This is life. At that moment, my heart was sour. )
I carefully cut it ... for an instant, we seemed to return to the previous scene: we sat side by side on the bluestone steps of the university campus, and his hand was on my arched knee. I buried my head and carefully trimmed every nail for him. Bury your head. I can feel his fiery eyes staring at my face. ...
Soon, I repaired my left hand Hey hey! Looking at half of my masterpiece, I was filled with joy. "Honey, that hand," I said. The husband stopped and his right hand moved up from the mouse. Turn around and face me. The moment when eyes meet. I saw his smile, as naive as a child. My eyes are full of smiles, too. I seem to see him who was a little shy when I first fell in love. I can't help laughing. "Ha ha! What are you doing? I stared at people ... "He remained silent and just looked at me. Eyes like fire. My heart secretly rejoiced. It seems that this guy was moved by me. Calm; Calm ... I told myself in my heart, otherwise it would fall short! )。 I held his hand and put it on my chest: "Fool, your eyes are sharp enough!" " How come? Didn't you find me so beautiful before? Ha ha! "I intentionally tease him. See how long he can remain silent. Ha ha! "I feel very happy. "He really cheated, and finally let him speak his mind. (I succeeded! Yeah! )
In fact, how can I not understand his heart? But I am such a vain woman. I want to hear it from him. He is a man who is not good at words, and he is also a man who doesn't show his feelings easily. Being able to say it shows his intention. At this point, I don't know how to answer. Scold a "fool" and choked my throat ... I couldn't find the right words to respond, so I had to bow my head and continue to cut my nails ... (not because I was shy. How can a cheeky person like me be shy? (I just feel a little ashamed. I am speechless to myself.
I have been living in my own world for several years since my mother left. Happy or sad. I often take it out on him because my emotions are out of control. At first, I even yelled at him hysterically. And he never blamed me. He always tolerates my bad temper with his mind and warms my cold and numb heart with love. Now more than four years have passed. I finally came out of my sadness. I chose another way to continue my love for my mother. Let her live in my heart forever. Use my heart to warm her and compensate her. )
Only then did I realize how stubborn, stupid and selfish I have always been. Torturing yourself in the most cruel and extreme way will do more harm to others. I feel sorry for him. More than four years is not long, but it is not short. And the person who waits for me silently has always been him. From my despair to my present hope, from my depravity to choosing a new life now, from my sadness to my present gratitude. He has always been quietly staying together, giving silently, with no regrets. In my life, maybe he is not the one who touched me the most, but after years of baptism, he is the one who suits me best-the only lover in my life (dear, I'm sorry! Did you hear that? I said I was sorry! You know I never like to say sorry. Now I say it. Just for you! )
Looking back now, it is obvious that the happiness he wants is that simple. This little thing can make him so moved. And I haven't done it for him for a long time; I haven't listened to what he is thinking for a long time; I haven't asked him what he really wants inside for a long time.
Now I finally realize the true meaning of the phrase "plain is true"-trivial and ordinary life, dribs and drabs of touch, and happiness within reach. And these are exactly what I want.
Not bad! It's not too late, not too late. We still have a long way to go, hand in hand, a bright future to walk together, and lovely babies to love and raise together. Also, many, many ... (and I just want to say: honey, I love you! )
I finally woke up. It's like sleeping for a thousand years. I don't want to tell him again when I wake up. Honey, I want to tell you. In the future, let me do as before: cut my nails and cherish the white hair that occasionally grows on my head, because you are not only a theorist, but also a regular army at your disposal, okay?
Live your life like this, live your life like this.
I only do these little things for you all my life;
I will only give you these simple pleasures all my life;
Hold your hand all your life and watch the days when the water keeps flowing;
Only * * * can you write a song about the end of time. ...
Ha ha! The end of the story is that the nails have been trimmed, and happiness has just begun ... staged ... Hey! Shh!