Unlike climbing Campbell,
Show off yourself with your tall branches;
If I love you-
Never imitate spoony birds,
Repeat monotonous songs for the shade;
You have your copper branches and iron stems,
Like a knife, like a sword, like a halberd;
I have my red flowers,
Like a heavy sigh, like a heroic torch.
We share cold waves, storms and lightning;
We like mist, flowing mist and rainbow.
Throughout the ages, countless people have left their own love stories, but I think that only the love between Jiang Yang and Qian Zhongshu has achieved "I must be a kapok beside you and stand with you in the image of a tree."
1, close at first sight
1932,21year-old Jiang Yang borrowed from Soochow university in Suzhou to Tsinghua University, where she met the love of her life-Qian Zhongshu.
Similar to the experiences of many talented women, a witty and humorous young talented woman met a lively and lovely pretty woman at the entrance of Gu Yue Hall in Tsinghua University.
The first meeting between them was wonderful, and the two sides had a good chat.
Start with face value, fall into talent and be loyal to character. The first encounter between Jiang Yang and Qian Zhongshu took the first two places, which was lucky.
And this seemingly accidental luck is also the necessity of the continuous efforts of two excellent people.
Jiang Yang, born in 19 1 1, is a scholar with a strict family education. Her parents didn't despise her because she was a daughter. On the contrary, they attached great importance to Jiang Yang's education and made Jiang Yang receive the same education as boys.
Jiang Yang is smart and determined. She had planned to apply for the Foreign Languages Department of Tsinghua University, but she was admitted to Soochow University because Tsinghua University had no enrollment quota in the south at that time. However, Jiang Yang did not give up. She studies hard and strives for the opportunity to stay in Tsinghua University.
Like Jiang Yang, Qian Zhongshu was born in a scholarly family and his family education was very strict. Qian Zhongshu himself is also very knowledgeable. He not only reads widely, but also gets full marks in both foreign languages and Chinese. He is the man of the hour in Tsinghua University at a young age.
Once two excellent people with similar interests meet, they are like happy ever after, who is famous. When they meet for the first time, they will beat countless people.
In Zhihu, there were bosom friends who shared their favorite girlfriends' opinions and said that they were evenly matched.
Love never comes out of thin air, and two people who are evenly matched are more likely to meet love.
2. Perfect marriage
I didn't want to get married when I met you, and I don't want to get married, Me Before You.
Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang got engaged six months after they met, and got married three years after they met.
After marriage, Jiang Yang did not care about her husband and children like many women at that time, and completely retired behind Qian Zhongshu and became a housewife. On the contrary, while taking care of the family, she is still writing, and the two read each other's works and express their opinions.
When Qian Zhongshu writes Fortress Besieged, Jiang Yang will read it first. After reading it, Jiang Yang talked about his own ideas, and Qian Zhongshu revised it. Two years later, he finally wrote a masterpiece that caused a sensation in the literary world.
Jiang Yang also wrote many beautiful literary works: Satisfied, Making a False Reality, Game World, Invisibility Cloak, The Three of us, Walking to the Edge of Life and so on.
Good love is the tacit understanding that although my body does not have bright phoenix wings, I can feel the harmonious heartbeat of the sacred unicorn.
3. get along well.
Although Qian Zhongshu never forgets anything and reads widely, he has a serious shortcoming: his self-care ability is very poor.
During her pregnancy, Jiang Yang did housework at home, either soiling the tablecloth of the landlord's house or damaging the door shaft at home, which helped a lot.
Jiang Yang, who was pregnant, not only didn't blame him, but comforted him gently so that he didn't have to be depressed. If he can't handle it well, give it to himself. He can solve these small troubles properly.
On the other hand, at present, many people get married, and many lovers get along because of who washes the dishes, who looks after the children, who cooks, who cares about money and other trivial matters.
The wife thinks that the husband doesn't understand the fatigue of taking care of children and doing housework, and the husband thinks that the wife doesn't care about the depression at work.
Finally, the two sides drifted apart and had to end up in divorce.
Everyone has his own temper, and there will inevitably be friction between couples. Only by mutual tolerance and understanding can the two sides go far.
4. Care for each other all your life
Qian Zhongshu once praised Jiang Yang as "a unique combination of three incompatible people: wife, lover and friend".
When all the mountains are leveled, the sky and the earth merge, and only then will I leave you. In a blink of an eye, the love between Jiang Yang and Qian Zhongshu has gone hand in hand for sixty-three years!
Over the past 63 years, they have experienced too many life tests, including the joy of becoming famous at first and the hardships of being decentralized.
Fortress Besieged written by Qian Zhongshu became famous after its publication. Many young female readers want to know him, but Qian Zhongshu is unmoved and does not have an affair with others. He is still deeply in love with Jiang Yang.
1970 or so, Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang were decentralized at the same time, and life was a little difficult after decentralization. However, they didn't complain about each other. They still loved each other as before. They seized every opportunity to get along with each other and had a beautiful talk of "meeting in the vegetable garden".
Good love is not vigorous, not a luxury car, not obedient, but whether it is poor or rich, whether it is good or bad, whether it is health or disease, we will join hands, * * * share weal and woe, * * * share joys and sorrows, hold your hand and grow old with your son.