Isn't it said that everyone will like good people? Only hateful people can be annoying. But Xia really has nothing to do with her mother. It's very kind of mom. Don't be angry even if others bully you.
She thinks her mother will be strong all her life, no matter how hard and tired she is. "Women hold up half the sky." Xia feels that mother has simply propped up a home. Although I mainly rely on my father to earn money to support my family, I can't support my three daughters without a wife who can earn money again? My father is almost busy with business, and everything in the family depends almost entirely on my mother.
Although my mother hasn't read any books, she is hardworking, kind, simple, intelligent and wise. It's no exaggeration to use any praise! When my father was a cadre, it was my mother who persuaded him again and again to solve the difficulties again and again. Xia thinks that if her mother is a man, she can do great things. But the only drawback is that "being too kind" sometimes feels that kindness is mistaken by kindness. Kindness is synonymous with cowardice. It is oneself who suffers. Xia sometimes really doesn't like her mother's kindness. How did she do it? If you are sure, you will fly into a rage.
At school, my mother always gave the three sisters living expenses without telling my father that they exceeded the budget, which made Xia's sisters very grateful. Appreciate mother's kindness.
Mother has been kind to others all her life. Even if others offend themselves first and never hold grudges, she will forgive others. You said, "Do more good deeds and accumulate good karma and virtue for your children.". Parents are actually people who have suffered a lot. Xia's father had no father since he was a child, and later he had a stepfather, but his stepfather treated him badly, often beat him and moved his things out of the house, even though the family was already poor. Xia's grandmother can't control her man. So my father didn't eat less of his stepfather's eyes and fists. There is a resentment in my heart.
But Xia's mother was once very kind to him, and she didn't hate him like other relatives in the past year and complain that he ignored him. Look at him. He is always miserable and often takes care of him to eat and drink. Xia never understood or even got angry with her mother. "You want to be good to him, but we don't want to be good to him. Think about what he did to his father before, and don't persuade him to forgive him,,,, "Xia once said to his mother.
Out of sight, out of mind. Why should such a person contact him? Just live your own life. This is the world. Without anyone, the earth still turns. Why do you want others to say hello and please whom? Xia once thought that her mother cared about what others thought of her, so she hoped everyone would say that she was good. Will you live very tired? Perhaps, the mother is virtuous and has nothing to do with others! But if it's sunny in Xia Xue, she can't and she doesn't want to. I don't want to be wronged by other people's opinions. Hate if you want, and love if you want. Life is miserable, let's live a little more smartly!
A kind person who can forgive others' mistakes is still admirable. Although I saw that they would rather compromise themselves and help others, I was also very angry. But this is another kind of beauty in life!
There are many strange things in the world. There are good people and bad people. It exists for a reasonable reason. Live by yourself and let others live.
There are people who are as kind as Xia's mother, and there are people who are too bad to be saved.
Xia's mother-in-law is the other extreme. Love money and face, pretend to be rich when you are poor, and say a lot but it is not the point. It is all fabricated and exaggerated. I like to sow discord. Best of all, you can quarrel with others at any time.
Sometimes, Xia gets angry when she sees her mother's kindness. She hopes that her mother will not wronged herself, not worry about offending others, and speak politely. There is no need to be polite to the bad guys.
Sometimes, Xia sees her mother-in-law's little face and even wants to slap her.
Yeah, why feel sorry for yourself. It is precisely because people are different that life is meaningful! Otherwise, the sameness is like wearing the same mask. What's the meaning of life?
Why can't "too good to make people angry" be unfair to her? She has her own way of life.
"Bad is hate" Why not be ashamed of her? She has her own reincarnation.
What is the reason why the cultivation is not up to standard?