You remember when you were a toddler of about one year old, you always felt very scared. You must hold my finger, even a little finger, so that you can take the first step. In order not to scare you, I have been holding you back according to your temper ... until the night when you were one year old and four months old, we were still walking slowly hand in hand on the school playground. I said to you gently, "son, mom pulled your skirt at the back today, and you will be safer." Is that all right? " "OK, Mom, you must pull." At that time, you were very talkative and trusted your mother. So I slowly turned behind you, and you boldly walked forward. I've been talking to you in the back. In fact, my hand left your skirt a long time ago, but you walked forward confidently without knowing it. My steps gradually slowed down. I can't help laughing when I see you walking forward alone. My casual laughter disturbed you. You suddenly turn around and find yourself far away from me. The expression you couldn't say at that time was both joyful and surprised. A few seconds later, I giggled ... my tears rolled down and said, "son, how much mom wants to see your confident side!" "
Do you remember that you are going to kindergarten when you are two years old and four months old? The first time I came to a strange environment, you held my neck tightly and cried, and I almost suffocated! I finally let go of your hands and "escaped" the new group you will face. Outside the kindergarten window, my tears couldn't stop flowing. I silently said, Son, it's not my mother's cruelty. My mother can't be with you forever. You must integrate into large groups, learn to get along with others and learn to stand on your own feet.
Do you remember that you should go to school at the age of six and a half? On the first day, your father and I accompanied you to school, and you secretly shed tears in the playground team. I know you're scared again. You are afraid of facing the new environment, leaving your mother, and the pressure of study ... I am standing not far away, watching you all the time. Tears slipped down quietly again. I said, son, childhood is happy and short, and the pressure of study will accompany you. How to deal with the pressure of study and how to get along with classmates needs to be pondered by yourself.
You are fourteen years old today, half a head taller than me, and your childish face is full of confidence and pride. You always say that I don't look like my mother, but like my sister, because I always like to touch your head, smell your body fragrance, watch you eat and sleep, like to play with you, like to make fun of you ... In fact, I often ask you some very serious questions, such as how much did you get in the exam, why did you make mistakes, what should I do to reduce mistakes, and why shouldn't I have such an excuse. You should find the reason from yourself. I also like to ask you if you get along well with your classmates at school, what you like and what you don't like ... Sometimes you will swear to answer, "Mom, mom, I will work hard. Please believe me, okay?" You must believe me! "I said seriously," son, many things are not spoken, but made and proved by actions. "
Dear son, my mother wants to talk to you about life today.
No one in this world has an obligation to be nice to you, except me and your father. If someone is kind to you, you should learn to be grateful and understand why others are kind to you. Some people are good to you, but they are not really good to you. He (she) may have a purpose, so it can be said that it is essential to harm civil air defense people. This is a fact.
A person's life is short, and no one can predict his own life and death. Maybe it's fine today, and it will disappear forever tomorrow. If one day I or your father leave you forever, don't be sad. Life and death are doomed. Only when you face the reality bravely and understand that no one in the world is irreplaceable and there is nothing you must have, it is no big deal for you to lose these.
I always remind you to study hard. You have refuted it several times. Your fallacy is: There are many successful people with low cultural quality, so why can they succeed? What I want to say is: Can you succeed without studying hard? Not necessarily! Only by learning knowledge and possessing the weapon of survival can we be sure to live for a long time.
You must keep your word, but you can't ask others to keep it. Don't expect others to repay you for everything. How you treat others doesn't mean that others will treat you. If you can't see through this, it will only increase unnecessary trouble.
It is fate that you and I are together. No matter how long you and I get along in this life, we should cherish the days together, because it is impossible to be together in the next life whether we love or not.
Dear son, mom has told you so much, I hope you can really understand the real meaning and take every step seriously! I don't expect you to make much contribution, but please behave yourself!
Love your mother forever!