Nowadays, cities are changing with each passing day and developing rapidly. People's living standards are getting higher and higher. With the improvement of living standards, the distance between people is getting farther and farther.
A series of doors block people's hearts, such as the layers of houses in the Palace Museum in Beijing, so that people who go in can't find the doors, and people who come out can't find the doors and are blocked by the doors. I really don't know how those ladies-in-waiting spend this tedious life of going in and out of cascade doors, and maybe they will be blocked by a door and die.
As soon as I entered the Houmen, it was as deep as the sea. It describes a large family which is heavily guarded and blocked by layers of gates. It's hard for people outside to get in and people inside to get out. Although there are luxuries every day, no small family is happy.
The world of Chai Men's small family is: the garden is half open and half hidden, and the rough tea is light and the rice is bitter and sweet. The husband sings with the woman, manages the house diligently, and competes with God for joy. This kind of life in a paradise is enviable, and it has also made literati in past dynasties splash their ink.
Now that Chai Men is left out in the cold. With the rapid development of urbanization, the pure rural scenery in Chai Men has been lost. Become aestheticism in poetry, sadness in prose and memories in novels. ...
1) The doors in the residential area are layered.
A few days ago, I accepted my classmate's invitation to visit her home. According to your classmates' instructions, start from home, take bus No.232 from Huangmiao Square and get off at Shenyang Station. Three stops by car, in a blink of an eye. In fact, you can walk along Xita Street and Taiyuan North Street and turn west to Shenyang Station. In order to find the subway, it is convenient to take 232. I haven't been to Shenyang station for a long time. Great changes have taken place in Shenyang Railway Station. The subway has gone, and I haven't done anything I don't want to go. I'm going to my classmate's house by subway today. Walk into the subway station and follow the crowd. Pushed and shoved into the ticket booth by the bustling crowd, people lined up in a long line, and the tickets were sold out quickly without waiting too long. The entrance to the ticket gate was blocked by an electronic door. Put the ticket on the electronic eye and wait until it is recognized before entering. But you must be quick, and you will be blocked from the door if you hesitate. The man didn't know what he was thinking just now, but he was blocked from the door when he was distracted. Ask the staff to help go in and get scolded. Automation is convenient for travel, less human touch and more indifference.
Go through the ticket gate, come to the platform and wait for the train to arrive. The process of waiting is the process of discovering beauty. The walls of the whole subway station are decorated with photos of stars, as if watching an American movie, which is thrilling and beautiful.
Cars roar in people's expectation. The car stopped, only to find that it felt like watching a big transparent wall in the United States open a door, blocking the close contact between passengers and the rails. The subway safety facilities in Shenyang are better than those in Beijing and Shanghai, and the latecomers are very vivid here.
Go through the door opened by the transparent wall and enter the train door. Two doors are clear. Get in the car. With the roar of the train, the journey of one hour is shortened to more than ten minutes. I feel that the convenience of the subway has brought convenience to people's travel.
Before I tasted it, I arrived at my destination. As people get off the bus and look back at the train leaving like lightning, the transparent doors are gently closed. In an instant, the star pictures on the wall are still gorgeous.
I met my classmate at the subway entrance. She has been waiting for me for a long time. Walk with her for about two stops to the neighborhood where she lives. I talked with my classmates about my first subway ride along the way. She said to me in surprise, why don't you look like a villager, but like a Shenyang person?
"How do you say I also like the villagers, I have never seen the world? I experienced the double doors of the subway today. The transparent wall actually has a door. My eyes are not enough to enter the Grand View Garden like Grandma Liu. " I told my classmates.
"It's good to go out for a walk often. I am used to taking the subway every day. Those are no longer scenery in my eyes, and my heart is numb. Look, it's the gate of our community. This is the first gate of the community. Ordinary people can't get in and need fingerprints. " My classmates told me.
I followed my classmates into the first gate of the community. Looking back at a dirt road that has not been repaired, the smoke is filled. Looking around, the painted road is spacious and bright, and there are few pedestrians on the road. There are many tall buildings in the distance, looking up at the blue sky proudly.
"fingerprints are needed to enter the gate, and outsiders can't get in." I said.
"Of course, when you come to my house, I will wait for you outside the gate." This classmate said that he looks very proud.
I walked with her for about ten minutes, and several fork roads appeared in front of me. I looked at my classmates in confusion and said, which direction is your home?
"My home goes straight ahead, not far from that gate." My classmate can read my mind, and she also knows that I am confused about which direction her home is. The nine bends and eighteen bends built in this community make it impossible for new arrivals to find the north.
The second door, not bad. Without fingerprints, students take out a card, insert it, and the door opens automatically. I followed her into the second door and looked back at the first door. It looked at me coldly.
After the second door, we can't walk far, and we reach the building where our classmates live. An iron gate at the entrance of the building is closed, and when students knock on the password, the door will automatically open. I said: fingerprint for a while, key card for a while, password for a while, fortunately, young, if the old man has a bad memory, he will not understand.
"It is. I am also confused about these things, but the community environment is good, safe and reliable. Do you think that without idle people, idle people can't get in? " After the classmates finished, they also smiled.
"There are too many complicated doors for ordinary people to get in. But I'm confused and I can't go home myself. What should I do? " I'm worried about people who are as confused as I am.
"Nothing, just wait patiently. When people come out or go in, just follow." This classmate said.
"It turns out that it is not an iron wall, and bad people can sneak in." I just realized that there are so many doors, so long as I want to come in, I still have a chance.
"If you can't get in, the security guard will ask. If you can't answer it, you will be miserable. " This classmate is confident that her community is the safest.
When I entered the elevator, my classmates took out their cards. The elevator door opened and my classmates and I went in. My classmates told me that there are two elevators at the entrance of the building. If you get on the wrong elevator, you must go back and take it again.
"This community is really complicated, and I admire this designer." I said.
"There are stairs at the end of the elevator, and sometimes I climb the stairs to exercise." My classmates told me that there were stairs.
Soon the elevator arrived at the classmate's house, and the door of the classmate's house was facing the elevator. The elevator here is used by two families on the first floor. The students took out their keys and opened the door. Her two-story security door guards its territory like two stone lions.
I fell on the sofa of my classmate's house, feeling very tired. I took the tea handed over by my classmate and thought about it while drinking it.
2) Chai Men in my hometown.
Sitting at a classmate's house, leaning against the door all the way was a little dizzy. While drinking tea, my thoughts are flying, flying to my childhood and flying to my hometown. The old houses in my hometown are all square red bricks, and rows of them are neatly located on the west bank of the Taizi River. My home is near the road, and a road connects a bridge across the Taizi River, connecting the whole city.
The front and back yards of my house are all made of wooden boards, and you can see the small vegetable garden along the gap of the wooden boards. The door of the small courtyard is also made of wood, which is nicknamed Chai Men by people. There is no lock on this door, but an iron ring is used to cover the door frame and staff. Because it is small, it has not been covered.
Chai Men is half open and half closed every day for the convenience of neighbors. Entering Chai Men, we call it a path along the gap left by two small vegetable gardens the size of tofu blocks. We entered the house at the end of the path. The door of the house is wooden, which can be seen everywhere. The gate is open in summer. In order to prevent rats from entering, my mother blocked the threshold with wooden boards, which was almost as high as the threshold seen by the Palace Museum in Beijing. About a foot and a half, maybe higher. That was a long time ago, when I was young. I can't remember the details.
Mother gets up every morning, opens the door and puts the boards away. It seems to tell everyone that I'm up. So the neighbors' doors opened one by one, and a new day began.
I was still sleeping when I heard my aunt next door say, Sister-in-law, my soy sauce is gone.
"Wait, I'll pour it for you." Mother poured half a bowl of soy sauce for the aunt next door. Pass it to her through a stick.
"Sister-in-law, the hair cake I made is delicious. I'll give you one. " The hot cake sent by my aunt across the hall has appeared in my kitchen.
"Thank you, sister-in-law, I got up late." In fact, it's not my mother who gets up late, but my aunt across the hall who gets up too early.
"I gave the girl a leek box before she got up." My aunt across the hall came to me with a leek box. Smelling the fragrance, I can't lie down any longer. I got up, grabbed the leek box and began to eat.
"Wash your hands before eating." Mom said there, I don't care, I have already eaten a box of leeks. The leek box made by my aunt is really delicious, so I like to eat other people's cooking.
A busy and warm curtain was opened, and everyone had a good time without any bad feelings. Although the material was scarce at that time, the spiritual world was very substantial.
The world of adults is that from the moment the door is opened, plumes of smoke are emitted from the chimney. The children's world shuttles between Chai Men. After breakfast, adults go to work and do housework. We preschool children, shuttling between small yards in Chai Men. The door left unlocked is just right for us to pass through. Catch dragonflies in the yard next door and grasshoppers next door. Pick a flower in the opposite house, and then everyone will gather in my small yard to pick Achnatherum splendens flowers and dye their nails.
Children's world is happy, they don't know the taste of sadness. On a hot summer day, everyone moved a small bench and sat under my grape trellis, enjoying the cool while telling stories: A long time ago, there was a mother tiger who came home dressed as her mother. She sleeps with the girl in her arms at night. In fact, the girl's mother was eaten by the tiger mother on her way to grandma's house. Tiger mother will eat the girl tonight. The girl tactfully saw that she was a tiger mother, not a mother, but she pulled her face down. She said to mother tiger, mom, why is there hair on your face ... whenever I talk about this, I will get goose bumps because of this story and don't want to hear it.
At this time, the story of tiger mother came to an end and began to tell the story of rabbit and wolf. There are many vivid stories under the grape trellis.
Childhood happiness is like countless stars in the sky. As long as you meet the right time, your memory will be awakened. Arouse sweet memories, the door left unlocked in our hometown is the only way for us to go in and out every day, which brings us closer. Children's growth experience, peep inside and outside through the door, enjoy innocence.
Chai Men, whose hometown is left unlocked, is not only the fun of children, but also the friendship and trust between people, which has opened the spiritual world of a generation. Leave eternal memories for the years and deeply think and reflect on the future. ...
3) Don't close the door, open the door.
At the age of sixteen, I left my hometown with my parents and came to Shenyang. The home in Shenyang is not a bungalow, but a building. Natural conditions are good, and the door is often closed.
On that day, my friend came home. When I closed the door behind me, my father saw it and told me: If there is someone at home, don't close the door and let others suspect that our family has secrets.
"Why can't we have a secret? As soon as the door opens, there will be no secrets. " Although I have reached the age of flower season, I still don't understand the minds of adults.
Don't close the door, open it. But at that time, the rules of family residence were different from those of hometown.
I still find it incredible. No one can close the door at home, but I can't lock it. Neighbors who can't get in through the door will be talked about: this family has secrets.
Therefore, there is no habit of knocking. Pushing the door in, everyone thought it was easy-going. Do as Romans do in Rome. My door is never locked. I must open it if there are guests at home.
At that time, the family building was a big corridor for several families. Every door is open, and everyone can hear what they say without going out. Ask questions at my house and the neighbors will answer them immediately.
Children can visit everywhere, and adults often get together to chat with their parents in their spare time. Although I miss the small vegetable garden in my hometown, it is good to open my heart and door to each other.
One day, I suddenly asked my father: Why is someone opening the door at home?
"Because the whole family is ok, if you are alone at home, it's okay to have an aunt at home. If you come to see your uncle, you must open the door. This is the rule, this is the unwritten rule here. Didn't you watch me go to my neighbor's house? The aunt next door opened the door. " Dad is more careful than mom, and mom doesn't care about all this.
"Oh, I see." I didn't fully understand it at that time, but just did what my father said.
Later, when I grew up and lived at home, I deeply understood my father's words. If you have friends of the opposite sex at home, you must open your heart and reduce unnecessary troubles for yourself and others.
Between people, with the improvement of life, it becomes more and more vague and sometimes elusive. Don't close the door, open it. It is the scenery of my adolescence and the warm memory left by the years.
4) Opposite the door
After getting married, I moved several times. When we met several neighbors across the street, everyone opened their doors and hearts. The first house across the street is my classmate's parents' house. My classmates just got married and moved out, and there are grandma, parents and younger brother at home.
Every day when I come back from work, I open the door and leave it open. There are always people in the neighbor's house and the door is always open. At this time, I was cooking in the kitchen, and the grandmother across the door picked up her son and walked to her house. My son spends almost every night at her house. The child has peed and needs to change his pants. Grandma came into my room, directly opened the closet door and took out the children's pants to change, without asking me.
It seemed normal at the time. It is the help of my neighbors that gives me time to cook and take care of myself and my family.
After a long time, the children mistakenly thought that the grandparents of their neighbors were their own grandparents. That day, my son told me that I still remember her.
The best thing for children is the neighbor's grandmother, who is over 70 years old and thin and petite. Big eyes are amazing. You must have been a beauty when you were young. The skin is fair, smooth and delicate, which is a little more beautiful than her neighbor's aunt and daughter-in-law.
My classmate's brother, who was still in junior high school, stuck in my house and talked to me every day. He doesn't like being called his sister-in-law, but his sister, which is very sweet. I feel very useful in my heart, so I regard him as my brother. When my son was young, he really thought we were a family, so he went to his grandparents' house casually.
Happiness is too short and loneliness is too long. In the blink of an eye, three years passed and we moved to a new home. Meet the second person across the street. There are five people in their family, uncle, aunt and three girls. My aunt didn't get married until she was thirty-two, so the children are still young. My uncle is about the same age as my parents. They regard me as their daughter. When I come home from work every day, I feel my eyes shine when I see my aunt open the door. Then open your own door and open it. When cooking, my aunt always brings my son to her house and feeds him. My son is full, and my meal is not ready yet.
Her three daughters are all beautiful, like fairies, and they are called the Song sisters. It seems that they all went to junior high school that year, and my son's aunt called them that kiss. Once again, he mistakenly thought that we were a family and ate dinner at grandma's house every day.
Until that year, family conditions improved. Bought a commercial house, moved, and left my old neighbor. Every household in commercial housing is burglarproof, and my family is no exception. A security door separates the neighbors, as if Qian Shan is separated by thousands of waters, and people don't know each other upstairs and downstairs. Every time I go home, I open the security door and then close it quickly, so as not to let the bad guys follow me.
On that day, the Shandong netizen said: In their community, thieves came in because some families left their doors unlocked at night.
From then on, after going home every day, you must lock the security door before you can rest assured. I feel safe, I don't know if it is economical, and I am eager to prevent thieves. The floating population is still relatively large, and the public security environment is not good. I often hear that a high-grade residential area has been stolen.
The year before last, at dawn, I was awakened by a clear shot. The window was full of people's voices, and only after listening to people's comments did I know that someone had sneaked into the house and was found by the owner. The owner called the police and the police surrounded the entrance of the building. Who knows that after the thief found out, he climbed to the seventh floor like a legendary flea on a drum, then jumped off the seventh floor and escaped unscathed. The police fired a warning shot. As a result, I let the thief escape, which made me afraid to leave home. Afraid of thieves, what's wrong with the world? The security door is not to prevent thieves, but to close the heart door between people.
Exactly: when strangers meet, neighbors are like passers-by At dawn, the gun will break my soul, and I dare not close the door.
Postscript: the door is getting better and better, and the door is getting tighter and tighter. The door between people is closed to affection and friendship, and people's hearts are becoming more and more indifferent. For example, if I go to my classmate's house and no classmate comes out to pick me up, I can't fly into her house even if I have wings. Go to the classmate's house and be blocked by the door layer by layer, send some feelings and dedicate them to their memories of the future.