I think the most important skill of a domestic aunt is to gain the trust of her employer, so that she can serve her family stably and need not look around for a domestic job. After reading many people's descriptions of inviting domestic aunts in Tianya, I think it is one thing for domestic aunts to do things quickly, and the most important thing is to have good conduct.
Everyone knows what domestic service is. Auntie has to go to the house to clean the house for others. Home is a space for the dead to oneself, and a secret place for outsiders. Every family has unknown habits and secrets, and it's not good for outsiders to know, including domestic aunts. Therefore, the domestic aunt should work more and talk less. No matter what happens in the employer's house and what she sees, as long as it doesn't violate the discipline, don't care.
In addition, the domestic aunt is facing the employer's whole home, and there should be a lot of valuable things in it, especially those who can invite the domestic aunt to clean the house. Generally, their families are relatively good. The domestic aunt must be steady when facing the real money, and her hands and feet should not be dirty. Actually, I'm not talking about the domestic aunts. The domestic aunts I saw in Tianya are really not easy.
A domestic aunt provided for her son to go to college by herself. For so many years, her son has been doing domestic work by himself. But my aunt has never thought about the things in her employer's house. The employer is also a very good person, and she regularly invites this aunt to clean up. Once, because she was busy with her last family, she delayed eating and almost fainted. The employer quickly cooks for his aunt, and every time she comes to clean and do housework, she always keeps her aunt for dinner, and she also packs her son's clothes neatly and takes them back for her son to wear.
That's the advantage of a well-behaved aunt who can win the trust of her employer. She can not only get a long-term job, but also be regarded as a friend by her employer, so I think aunt and employer are very important to her temper.