Leisure and elegant prose

During the Spring Festival, many friends were lucky enough to spend their holidays in other places. I am particularly envious of seeing many photos of scenery or customs posted in WeChat group and space. I am also the kind of restless person, romantic in my bones, pursuing a kind of elegant rhetoric. I hope I can light a bonfire on the beach thousands of miles away, see the moon, grow up at sea now and experience the artistic conception of the world at this time. I also hope to enjoy the fragrance of flowers in early spring in the depths of the mountains. It's just that I arranged myself very tightly and very tired during the Spring Festival, just like the career I live on now. I don't like it, even dislike it, but I really don't have the courage to put it all aside.

It's not because I can't live, let alone how much hope this job can bring me. This is an inertia. I remember learning in physics class that the acceleration of gravity when landing is 9.8. When you run for a long time, once you decide to do something, it is very difficult to make it change. A destructive force or even destruction can happen, so we have adapted to this rhythm. It's been 45 Spring Festival. If there is no big change next year, I will still pay homage to my hometown, pay New Year greetings and pay homage to my ancestors. I still have to punch in and out step by step. I hardly expect change. I'm naturally afraid of accidents. There are too many such inertia in the cycle of life. I know the outside world is wonderful, but I am also afraid that the outside world is helpless. Laziness is human nature.

This spring is a little quiet. Yesterday morning, I walked around Beihu County, and there was not much chill in the clear water microwave. Seen from a distance, the willow branches are pale yellow. I looked carefully and saw that the delicate bud had opened her eyes and her breath was full of the breath of early spring. There is a flute on the lake, intermittent. No children are practicing. Suddenly I feel a kind of peace of life. I closed my eyes and felt it, as if I were in my twenties again.

But now, there is no doubt that I have no worries about food and clothing, but are the feelings of that teenager still there? Think about some of our leisure elegance, in fact, many of them are the truth that is suppressed in our hearts. We worked hard in society and got used to the world. We all wear coats, we are actors, and we all have various disguises. After a long time, even we were confused by our acting skills, just taking some primitive things as jokes. Perhaps it is in this casual way that we can discover the truths that have never passed away.

Actually, it's all right. Sometimes it's easy to give up if you live too well and are tired, just like it's always easier to let nature take its course than to sail against the current. The only difference is that it is plain and legendary. I can't go forward like that, but I can't forgive my unwillingness. When I was young, I shouted that since God has given talents, let them find jobs! Loud, but just shouted a few times: young people listen to the rain, red candles faint. In the prime of life, the boat is listening to the rain, the river is wide and the clouds are low, and the broken geese are called the west wind. Now I'm afraid I can only remind myself all the time, don't let go, letting go will be really old.

Sometimes it is not necessarily a good thing to think about leisure and elegance. When we are idle, we have a psychological burden on our backs, which is redundant, but people always have to leave a truth for themselves, at least to remind us that we are still alive!

When you lose everything, you know what you only want.

Many times, we always hope to get the good of others. At first, I was grateful. But after a long time, I just got used to it. Accustomed to a person's kindness to you, you take it for granted. One day, I am not good to you, and you will resent it. In fact, it's not that others are bad, but that our requirements have increased. When you get used to getting, you forget to be grateful.

The more people with stories, the more calm and simple, the more superficial and thin, and the more impetuous. The real strong man is not a man without tears, but a man who still runs with tears in his eyes. Be patient, be strong, and believe in yourself even if you can't see hope. The first thing we get old is not our looks, but our desperate enterprising spirit. Sometimes, you should dare to take on more burdens than you expected. After you really work hard, you will find yourself much better than you think.

Life can't be perfect, and there will be shadows in the sunshine, depending on what kind of mentality you use to look at life. Life is like this. Either you control your life, or you are led by it. How to get there is up to you.

Not all memories are beautiful, not all people are worth remembering, the river of years is too long, and most people and things will be washed away mercilessly.

Stop and relax when you can't finish the work; If you don't earn enough money, then look outside; Do not like the secular, quiet, let nature take its course; Endless sulking, speaking out, broad-minded; Endless entertainment, resignation, is good for health; Endless filial piety, take a walk and go home to see; Unfinished human feelings, weigh and do what you can; Endless future, slow down and stroll through life!

The most ruthless thing is not people, but time; The most precious thing is not money, but emotion; The most powerful thing is not the boss, but nature; The most terrible thing is not the disaster, but the helplessness after the disaster; The best thing is not to be professional, but to watch; The most terrible thing is not lovelorn, but psychosomatic insufficiency; The most comfortable place is not the hotel, but the home.

If you don't pursue what you want, you will never have it. Give time, let bygones be bygones and a new beginning.

Life is short, just a few decades. Living is a blessing, and health is a blessing. Since you are alive, choosing happiness is a day, and choosing pain is also a day. Why not choose happiness and live your life flatly? Maybe there are some things in life that are not only satisfying. If you are not alive, what is important? What is more important than health?

If you are still single, enjoy it. You are single not because you are not good enough, but because no one deserves you at present.

The saddest thing for people is not to lose too much yesterday, but to be immersed in yesterday's sadness. The stupidest thing about people is not that they don't find the trap in front of them, but that they fall in again for the second time. The loneliest thing for a person is not that the person he is waiting for hasn't come yet, but that the person has gone out from his heart. The most boring thing for people is not to dial a phone number casually, but to keep talking when others dial the wrong number.

Everyone has his own nature and lifestyle, and everyone has his own existence value. Don't sell yourself short and ignore other people's doubts, because there is only one you in the world.

The so-called maturity is not the aging of the heart, but the tears in the eyes, but we can still smile; There will always be a tear that makes us grow up instantly.

Many things in life are hard to meet and get, and those that are not expected often come unexpectedly. Therefore, we should have a carefree and comfortable heart, let everything go with the flow, without resentment, impatience, excessiveness, importunities, happiness for things, and sadness for ourselves. Fate is not resignation, but facing life with an open mind.

At every stage of life, cherish every moment with the person you love.

The only thing in the world that you can get for nothing is poverty, and the only thing that you can make out of nothing is a dream. Nothing can be done without hands. Although the world is cruel, as long as you are willing to go, there will always be a way; You can't see beauty because you didn't persist. There is no need to regret when you move forward. If it is beautiful, it is called wonderful; If it is bad, it is called experience.

Tomorrow's sun will not rise because of your disappointment; The moon won't stop setting tonight because of your complaints. Just because you are blindfolded doesn't mean that the world is dark; Blindfold others' eyes, when it's bright, it doesn't mean it belongs to you!

When you are alive, you always have to protect yourself with multiple thoughts. It is not the higher and deeper, but the happiness that is still strong in the big waves.

What faith can give a person is inner peace and dependence, rather than "talking about conditions and changing interests" with the gods-I believe you, you can make a fortune; If I believe you, I can have a harmonious family; I believe you, and I can get what I want from now on. When faith becomes an exchange of interests, it loses its meaning.

What we said, what we did, the road we walked, and the people we met are all memories of our future.

A person needs to have such a person in his life: even if he is thousands of miles apart, there are still endless topics when he meets you; Or, sitting next to each other, each busy, a few hours is just a whisper, still warm and full; In front of this person, you can lament with your eyebrows down, be arrogant, have no ambition, have no image, and have many shortcomings. This man is a confidant.

There is no road to despair in life, only a desperate heart. The other end of despair is hope, and the end of the crisis is the turning point.

Some things are destined to miss you, and persistence will eventually leave you; Some people can only be passers-by in your life If you linger on, all your expectations will eventually come to nothing. If it doesn't belong to you, then give it up. The world is vast and gloomy. What we can have is limited after all. Don't let endless desires bury the original happiness and happiness. If you want to catch anything, you can only catch nothing in the end.

The soul has a home, and life has a way out. Only by learning to be alone with yourself can the mind be clean, the mind mature and the mind broad.

When a person feels satisfied, bored, tired and peaceful, happiness is among them. When a person feels full, plays well, sleeps well and doesn't care, happiness is among them. What should be abandoned is helplessness, and what should not be abandoned is incompetence; Ignorance should give up if you don't give up, and persistence should not give up if you don't give up.