What poems describe the dilemma between work and family?

Dig hard and bow hard, hoe your wife. From Wu Jun.

If you swear to farm, you will eventually protect your wife. Self assertion

I have worked hard to support more than a dozen people, and I am also very good to my wife. From Han Yu

Why didn't the great man take weapons to collect the fifty States of the mountain? Please go to see the paintings of the founder heroes with pictures. Another scholar was once called the aristocrat of a million families? -South Garden by Li He

Yellow sand wears golden armor in hundreds of battles, but the loulan is not returned. Excerpted from Wang Changling's Four of Seven Military Songs.

Men are determined to leave the countryside, and they won't come back until they learn.

The war lasted for more than half a year, and letters from home were rare, with a hundred thousand gold. Spring Day by Du Fu, a poet in Tang Dynasty.

If I were Di Qing next year, I would report to Taohua.

Don't be a golden brain, go and step on the clear autumn. Li he

I seem to have lost my piano pushing to buy wine. Who said I could send it? -Ouyang Xiu's "Listening to Cao Rong"