Question 2: How to learn not to care how to learn not to care?
First of all, people should learn to be tolerant, kind and generous like a bodhisattva.
Only those who know how to bear hardships on themselves, enjoy others, give up everything, help others and care about others everywhere can learn to care about themselves all the time. ...
Question 3: How can we be indifferent? Look at the people and things around you optimistically! Don't always look at things so pessimistically! Don't blacklist others just because of their minor shortcomings and mistakes!
Question 4: Why don't you care about the gains and losses in life? Buddhists say that the courage to pursue is a kind of spirit, and the courage to give up is a realm. Indeed, there are too many fame and fortune in the world, and people floating in the world have too many pursuits. However, life is a fleeting journey after all. Holding the bright moon, you can't stop the breeze.
In order to pursue the grandeur of mountains, we must abandon the exquisiteness and beauty of hills; In order to pursue the mighty waves of the great river, it is inevitable to abandon the clean stream; In order to pursue the solitary smoke in the desert, it is inevitable to abandon the sparse bean seedlings in the small garden.
Anyone who has studied tea ceremony knows that there is a process called giving up. Those who are beyond the world of mortals know that there is a realm called giving up. Those who know life well know that there is a kind of wisdom called giving up.
Abandoning five buckets of rice, Tao Yuanming recited the leisure of "picking chrysanthemums under the east fence and seeing Nanshan leisurely"; Abandoning the fame and fortune of officialdom, Li Bai reveals the serenity of "never tired of looking at each other, only respecting Tingshan"; Abandoning the rich life, Du Fu saw the sadness of "falling leaves like waterfalls and not seeing the Yangtze River rolling in". Abandoning the splendor of the floating world, Wang Wei realized the elegance of "people are idle and sweet-scented osmanthus falls, and the night is quiet and spring is empty".
Giving up is not to lose happiness, but to achieve perfection-perfection after elutriation. We can't pursue absolute perfection in life, but we can pursue perfection after abandonment. Just like carrying too much baggage, you need to give up some and go on the road easily.
Life is a long and arduous road. There will be birds and flowers on the road, but the pace of progress can't stop, because we are chasing dreams and seeking tomorrow. In order to pursue those distant dreams of life, we have no choice but to abandon those seemingly beautiful gentle traps.
Buddhist language contains infinite Zen machines, and people are also spiritual creatures. Pick up a sentence by chance, and you can understand half of your life.
Question 5: How to make yourself tolerant when encountering things, and don't care too much about your own gains and losses. Try to care less, bow your head more, and think more about each other, so that you will become tolerant and indifferent.
Question 6: How to be indifferent in life? Yes As long as you consider everything from the perspective of others and think more about others, what would you do if that person were you? After a long time, I won't care too much about others. This is just my opinion, I hope I can help you, thank you! )
Question 7: How to care, compare and care? It seems impossible to really care, compare and care. We all grow up in comparison, and sometimes we have to make choices, but we can control our emotions and not deliberately think about these things, whether we want to forget or remember. Slowly, you will find that there are some things you don't care about.
Don't keep everything in your heart, communicate with friends, relatives and lovers more, find the root of the problem and prescribe the right medicine. Don't think alone. Many times, we are worried not because we can't let go, but because we haven't found something better. Maybe you will let go of something after communicating with others, or put yourself in other people's shoes, and you may find a reason not to care.
Hehe, it's a little confusing. I hope you can get better soon.
Question 8: How can we do it regardless of gains and losses? I have read too many books, and my mind is full of poems and books. Reading more books, reading good books and making yourself meaningful are the basis for cultivating and forming the atmosphere.
Experience makes people calm. Experience is a valuable wealth, it can make people mature, it can make people calm, it can make people no longer impetuous, it can make people understand the world.
Don't care, open-minded will show the atmosphere. Don't care about trifles, and don't worry about gossip. Life is so vast, don't be a frog in the well, don't dwell on trifles. If you don't care, you are open-minded.
Spin a thousand silver coins and come back! . Money is like dirt, but friendship is worth a thousand dollars. Don't take money too seriously, be brave in life, make heroic friends, and people can be atmospheric.
Take responsibility, regardless of personal gains and losses. I am willing to kill myself and dare to take the emperor down. Regardless of personal gains and losses, I dare to do anything for justice. Such people are atmospheric people.
Practice more to get rid of your pettiness. Not stingy, but atmospheric. Do more, start from dribs and drabs, start from the little things around you, make yourself free and easy, make yourself full of positive energy, and bring more love and happiness to others. This is the most atmospheric thing.
Question 9: How to keep a good attitude? Don't care about little people? Are you calm and impatient when you are in trouble? Unfavorable, annoying, sad, even angry, unbearable things may come one after another every day. Only under the eyebrows, but also in my heart, but since the water is still flowing, although we cut it with swords, I feel that life is not alive and I have lost my real life.
Life is not living, but a life of regret. Let life restore the true nature of human nature, that is, self-balance, self-adjustment, clearing heart and qi, eliminating troubles, achieving self-transcendence and philosophical psychological quality and a good life realm.
Always keep a sober mind, so that people's mind is always peaceful and calm, so that they can look at the world calmly and deal with it calmly. Treat life with a positive attitude, with good cultivation and noble morality, make people's mentality happy forever and their mental health last forever.
Indifferent to ambition, quiet and far away. Let life be simple, get rid of redundant parts, reduce redundant "things outside the body", and don't let "things outside the body" become a burden in your life, and your life will be simple, rich and profound.
Simplicity is a kind of beauty and a seven-color life. Simple home, a soft bed, a room of my own, a curtain that can isolate the noisy world, barefoot at will, dressed in cloth and a cup of tea, put aside the busyness and tension of the day and return to my simple self. This is life. Madame Curie said: "In my life, I always pursue quiet work and simple family life." Far from the intrusion of personnel and the exaggeration of fame, the Curies finally reached the peak of science and read another magnificent life landscape.
People get along with each other simply, take off their masks in sincerity, put down their guard in trust, stay away from entanglement in calmness, and deepen their true feelings in selflessness. There is neither lofty compassion nor ancient grievances. If so, the most complicated things in the world can be delivered in simplicity with the simplest and happiest life.
The simplicity of mind comes from the realm of being kind to others and not competing for profits with others. If you have more desires, you will think of gorgeous houses, seats earned by many people, and light and heavy tickets ... so you will be busy and your mood will be heavy, so you can't sit down and enjoy life. Giving up is an easy way. A person is reluctant to throw away everything he wants, and he may end up with nothing. That's why there is such a saying as "lose your pawn and protect your car".
Simple emotions, but quiet and elegant life. Facing difficulties and twists and turns, being broad-minded, open-minded and indifferent is the principle of being a man. There is a poem written like this: "Learn to be tolerant/learn to love/don't listen to the frog's ridicule/tadpoles/that long black tail …/allow tadpoles to exist/only in this way can frogs croak in summer nights. "
Allow others to oppose and criticize, fully look at the strengths of others, regardless of personal gains and losses, and learn from others' experiences and lessons. "Being tolerant is great, being strong without desire", "an upright man is open and poised, little people are often in the same boat". Tolerance has become a healthy electrocardiogram and a beautiful passport to the world. Always remind yourself: "Don't let greedy desires, angry emotions and strong * * * possess me."
Angry, submit to humiliation, and an open mind that is rarely confused are the accelerant of a good attitude and the best policy to treat life with tolerance. There is a good saying, "when you only have yourself in your heart, you actually leave the trouble to yourself;" When you are thinking about others, in fact, others have provided you with convenience unconsciously. "
Zeng Guofan's accomplishment is also an example for future generations to learn. He regards self-cultivation as a daily thing, and has five words for his life cultivation: sincerity, respect, quietness, sincerity and constancy. Among them, quietness means that people's mind, qi, spirit and body should be in a state of peace and relaxation. Wake up, whether there has always been a quiet heart, a happy heart and a happy heart in your life, whether you are impetuous, vain and competitive.
Let's live in a noisy world. Facing the ups and downs of life, all kinds of hardships and bad luck, we should "sit tight in a fishing boat" even if dark clouds cover and stormy waves. Look down on fame and fortune with a normal heart and an optimistic attitude, and don't worry about things that you can't control. Everything goes with the flow, taking it easy, keeping yourself in a cool breeze, Xu Lai, not seeking Wen Da, not making public, being tolerant of loneliness and being kind to tranquility, showing a calm, elegant and quiet magnanimity, always maintaining pleasure and maintaining physical and mental health.
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Question 10: how to do small things without caring? 20 points, you should care about small things, just not in front of others. As for what small things are related to personal interests, those that have nothing to do with themselves are small things related to themselves. Keep it in mind in case you lose money in danger next time. If it's too much, you should dare to say and care.