Her native family makes Tian Yulan’s personality sensitive and puts all her expectations on her children.
Tian Yulan grew up in a country where her father was an alcoholic, a beater, and she clung to Nan Jianlong’s mother, Cai Juying, who everyone called “old mistress”. Although Nan Jianlong and Cai Juying later reorganized their families, their mother Having a daughter has brought about qualitative changes, but it cannot change her inherent sensitivity. In addition, after getting married, her husband Yan Peng stayed at home all day long and did not do his job. Her parents-in-law despised her because of her mother Cai Juying.
Her only pride is her son Yan Ziyou. Yan Peng, the rich second-generation husband with a giant baby, cannot understand why his wife Tian Yulan is so chicken-blooded, does not understand her efforts, nor does he understand that he works hard Not counting, we still have to force our children to study hard. He had a hallucination during the Optional Cup exam. When he saw Tian Yulan telling him that he must get at least the second prize, and when his friends called him to play football, Ziyou immediately overturned the table, tore up the paper and ran out. But because Ziyou failed to complete the exam and was expelled from the master class, Tian Yulan took him to buy red wine to apologize to the master. Ziyou cried and shouted, "I will never go to this bad class again?" Tian Yulan slapped herself and said I asked Ziyou, "What do you want me to do?" Can't you make more progress? ?, seeing this scene, I really feel sad for the child.
It seems that the child Yan Ziyou is the best proof of the results of Chinese education. Tian Yulan is also a portrayal of every parent who hopes that their children will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes. The children have carried too many expectations of their parents, and even exceeded them. limit his ability to bear it. Sometimes we cannot judge whether such parents are suitable. They always give their children a better learning environment in the name of their future. Maybe this is not what the child really needs, nor is it what he can bear, but for parents, are their children's ideas really that important? Can they really act according to their children's ideas? This should be a question that every parent should think about.