What does the clove in the gift mean?

Noble quality and strong personality.

Poetry: upstairs at dusk, I want to rest, and the jade ladder is like a hook across the moon. Banana hearts don't show lilac's frustration, but they are also sad about the spring breeze.

Interpretation: I climbed a tall building at dusk and wanted to look over the railing, but I finally gave up sadly. The jade ladder is horizontal, and there is a crescent moon in the sky, sprinkling a faint glow. The banana's heart has not yet unfolded, and the buds of lilacs are clustered like knots; It is also the spring breeze, and the two are United in different places, and they are all worried about not meeting each other.

Culture:

Lilacs are small and weak, and the flower tube is slightly longer, giving people a feeling of wanting to do everything. In the Song Dynasty, the king called lilacs "sad and depressed, as if remembering the Lord in the south of the Yangtze River".

Most poems chanting purple in the past dynasties have the characteristics of elegance, solemnity and significance. When lilacs don't bloom, their buds are densely covered with branches, which is called lilac knot. Since the Tang and Song Dynasties, poets have often used lilacs as a metaphor to express the deep sadness and parting between husband and wife, lovers or friends.