It seems that some difficulties encountered in life can be alleviated if we have the opportunity to belittle our compatriots and raise strangers. However, those beautiful things I mistakenly thought were actually a dream.
In 2002, Julia and her black Bahamian boyfriend, Xiao Lang, ignored his physical condition because Julia had been taking care of her relatives from afar.
Of course, in the eyes of ordinary people, symptoms such as cold, fever and cough are trivial, but I never expected that her real boyfriend actually got AIDS. This disease can't be acquired in a day, which shows that Xiao Lang's private life is disorderly, so it was also transmitted to Julia.
First, you should be careful when choosing a partner, although good feeling is a very important thing in the process of interacting with people. If two people have a good impression, then many barriers can be eliminated.
However, choosing a partner can't be based only on your own goodwill and paranoia. At least when choosing a partner, you should have the same vision and aesthetics as the public. The three views should have many similarities with themselves, so as to get the greatest emotional feedback in the case of small-scale efforts.
Many people have preconceived ideas about people and things they don't know, and they all think that the less they know, the more mysterious they are. Therefore, many people have the mentality of worshipping foreign things and obsessing foreign countries, and in turn treat fellow villagers who are equally familiar with them.
Even compatriots have an exclusive attitude. However, this idea stems from my own self-distrust, and it is my childhood experience that leads to the lack of personality. This imperfect personality will gradually change with the process of socialization and the degree of self-learning.
Second, what is a foreign country? 1 .foreign 2. Foreigners 3. Foreign countries 4. Tanzania? Libya? South Africa? Philippines? There are always people who say this kind of generalized vocabulary in various short videos and articles from the media field. The expressions of "foreign country", "foreign country" and "foreigner" seem to be summed up in a case, but the imprecision of this expression is caused by the lack of self-knowledge and self-cognition.
Open your mouth and shut your mouth are foreigners, but in fact, even Filipinos may not have seen them. However, this does not affect their paranoia and flattery on the Internet. After all, there are always some people like him who have the same idea.
Like-minded people get together and seem to win again when they like it.
But they seem to forget a saying called the silent majority. Many people are not good at expressing themselves on the Internet, because they see a lot of irrational and even anti-intellectual remarks and disdain to express their views. Because science popularization and persuading others can't be bought by money. No one is willing to spend energy to give them unnecessary explanations.
3. Confidence is the cornerstone of communication 1. Believe in yourself. Self-esteem and self-love 3. Have your own principles. Because everyone has his own principles, it is more important to stick to his own nature and do what he insists on when he can't effectively convince others.
After all, it is difficult for our own actions to directly affect others. Only through indirect influence can the other party feel the importance of self-esteem and self-love. If a person can believe in himself and won't easily change his beliefs because of other people's opinions, then it will be full of charm.
One's hometown and one's compatriots have many advantages to boast about. It is an act of inferiority to blindly think that black people are excellent or white people are excellent.
Moreover, this morbid psychology is not recognized by everyone, and even our family members will quarrel with themselves because of this idea, so we must believe that the people around us are also excellent, and don't always think that the foreign moon is round.
To sum up, every country has many excellent people, and so does our country. Therefore, only by discovering the advantages of friends around you and making yourself better can you have the opportunity to be with the people you like.