Su Xun's wife and Su Shi's mother-Su Cheng's family
Su Cheng's family, which can be called Miss Cheng at this time, was born in Meishan and his father was Cheng Wenying of Dali Temple. She is a scholarly family and a good family. After marrying Su Xun, Sue's family was poor at this time. Someone advised Sue to ask her family for help, but Sue refused to be laughed at by her family for her husband's sake.
Strong and resolute Sue not only urged her once idle husband Su Xun to study hard, but also served her mother-in-law wholeheartedly when her husband was away from home because of long-term study tour. Su Xun's mother is so strict that her people dare not even breathe in front of her. Only Sue served the old monarch well, and her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had a harmonious relationship and envied others.
At the same time, Sue has her own experience in children's education. One day, he took little Su Shi, who was only ten years old, to read The Biography of Fan Pang in the Later Han Dynasty. Fan Pang was a famous person in the late Eastern Han Dynasty, and Liu Biao called him Eight Horses. He was wanted for the disaster of party struggle and turned himself in to protect his family. He said to his mother who came to see me off:
"(My brother) is filial enough to support him. Pang went from Long Shujun (the nickname of his father Fan Xian) to the underworld and lived in his proper position. Only adults can't bear to break their feelings, so don't add feelings. "
Mother relaxed everything and said, "You are as famous as Li and Du (,) now. Why bother to hate when you die?" With your name, can you have it both ways? "
Seeing this, Xiao Sushi said to her mother in tears, "Mom, if I grow up to be like Fan Pang, will you like it?" Su Shicheng replied with a smile: "You can be Fan Pang, why can't I be Fan Pang's mother?"
As the old saying goes: lead by example! I'm afraid that's all. In the future, Su Shi bluntly dared to remonstrate, deposed Wang Anshi from power, and wrote countless hearty and bold poems, which may all come from the teachings of today's mother.
Ma Guang, an important official of the imperial court, wrote an epitaph for him, saying, "Poverty does not pollute his husband's name, and wealth does not think his son is tired; Knowing mechanics can show its doors, while straightness can be honored in the world, and it is worthy of being the mother of ancient sages. "
The murderer's wife, the only tenderness in the tyrant's heart-Zhang Hui, Queen of Yuan Zhen
At first glance, I'm afraid few people know that there was such a woman in this world, but when it comes to her husband Zhu Wen, everyone knows. "Tyrants, bad kings, murderers, pickpockets, perverts and so on." Almost all adjectives that can be used to describe a poor king in this world can be used.
But if you study such a tyrant carefully, you will find that in his young life, there is such a touch of Bai Yueguang, and that person is Zhang Hui.
Young Zhu Wen is just a prodigal son in Songzhou, while Zhang Hui is a young lady from a big family in Shaanxi. Zhu Wen had a good impression on Zhang Huizao and had a sigh. Later, due to the Huang Chao Rebellion, Zhang Hui was forced to marry Zhu Wen. At that time, people said, "The door is wrong, the door is wrong."
Zhang Hui, who married Zhu Wen, is not as weak as she looks. Facing her impulsive husband, Zhang Hui always pointed out his mistakes in time and made suggestions on Zhu Wen's military strategy.
Zhu Wen was tyrannical, and his younger brother Zhu Youyu fled after his defeat. Zhu Wen was furious and wanted to cut it, while Zhu Youyu ran into the eldest brother's house and knelt down in the atrium to ask for the eldest sister-in-law. Sure enough, Zhang Hui ran out barefoot, wrapped his shivering brother-in-law in a quilt, knelt down and cried for her husband: "It's strange that Zhu Youyu sculpted himself. Isn't it obvious?" Zhu Wen just put down the butcher's knife and saved Zhu Youyu from the capital punishment.
Zhu Wen likes fishing. After he broke through Zhu Jin, our envoy from Tian Ping, he returned to Bianzhou with his wife. Zhang Huiqianli came to Fengqiu to meet her long-lost husband. She happened to see Zhu Jin's wife in the motorcade. After hearing her crying, she asked for an audience with Zhu Wen: "Zhong Yan (two states are under the jurisdiction of Tian Pingjun) and countries with the same surname as Sikong, as well as Kunzhong, made a big fuss about a small matter and brought us here; If Bianzhou dies, so will my concubine! "
Hearing this, Zhu Wen looked at his beloved wife in front of him, scratched his scalp, coaxed his wife, sent Zhu Jin's wife to the temple to become a nun, and sometimes sent some food, money and silks to support him, which was polite.
It's a pity that every day is a holiday, and Zhang Hui died in the first year of God bless, and didn't stay until Zhu Wen proclaimed himself emperor. The New History of the Five Dynasties holds that:
"After his death, Mao began to be dissolute, a pawn, and a cloud of disaster."