After tasting Wu Jun, I heard that there is a famous garden in Bijiang. If you don't know your host first, go to your home, and then get together in the frontier. When you're finished, it means you like others or not. The monarch was furious and said, "It is rude to be proud of your master; This is not a way to be proud of yourself. The loss is both, and it is not enough. " Then drive out the door and proudly offer it without crumbs.
Translation:
Wang Zijing passed by Wuxian from Huiji County, and heard that there is a famous garden in Gubijiang. He didn't know the owner of this famous garden at first, so he went directly to others. When I met Gu Bijiang, I was having a banquet with guests and friends, but after Wang Zijing visited the garden, he only pointed out the advantages and disadvantages there, and there was no one there.
Gu Bijiang's face changed with anger, and he couldn't bear it. He said: "Arrogant and rude to the host; It is unreasonable to think highly of others by virtue of their status. Without these two aspects, such people are not worth mentioning! " He drove his entourage out of the door. Wang Zijing was sitting alone in a sedan chair, looking around. His entourage hadn't come for a long time. Then Gu Bijiang asked someone to send him to the door and ignored him indifferently.
Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu
Extended data:
Shi Shuo Xin Yu is a masterpiece that pays attention to the demeanor of Wei and Jin dynasties, and records many contents related to the "forbearance" demeanor of Wei and Jin celebrities. They put up with what ordinary people can't stand and become what ordinary people can't do, and finally "endure" the arrogance they faced. Gu Bi showed a unique style of "forbearance" and remained calm and natural.
When dealing with people and things, "forbearance" can make people have a calm, cautious, conscientious and conscientious attitude; When dealing with things, "forbearance" reminds people to have self-control and agility at all times.