The contradiction between modern mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most intractable contradiction in marriage life, and every family will encounter this problem. If the husband is not the mother-in-law, he can also say a few words of justice for his daughter-in-law. If the husband listens to his mother, then he will feel that her mother is right and will make his wife feel chilling. In fact, the ancient method to deal with the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very simple, that is, firmly believe that mother is right. In the ancient feudal society of China, it has always been? Men are superior to women? Model, is it necessary for a woman to get married? Take husband as the sky? Husbands are the oldest, so women in ancient times were passive Nuo Nuo. They were just a fertility tool in the eyes of husbands, and they could have three wives and four concubines, but women must be virtuous, otherwise they would be immersed in pig cages. So when it comes to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the aggrieved party must be the wife, because the husband is filial to his mother, then? Take husband as the sky? Daughter-in-law should also be filial to her mother-in-law, unless she herself? Endure? Becoming a mother-in-law According to Peacock Flying Southeast, there is a short story that is particularly thought-provoking. Liu Lanzhi is a capable woman. She has a pair of skillful hands. When she is 65,438+03 years old, she can make beautiful clothes by herself. By the time 15 years old, she had taught herself the piano. At the age of 65,438+06, she can still remember her poems by heart. However, after she married Jiao Zhongqing, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law became irreconcilable. Liu Lanzhi's mother-in-law repeatedly forced her son Jiao Zhongqing to divorce Liu Lanzhi. Jiao Zhongqing would resist at first, but later he had to divorce Liu Lanzhi. After the divorce, they were all in great pain. Later, Liu Lanzhi's mother married Liu Lanzhi to the governor. When Jiao Zhongqing learned this, he told Liu Lanzhi that he couldn't live any longer, and Liu Lanzhi was also very sad. In the end, they were both double suicide.
What does this story tell us? Parents' life is difficult to violate? Even if men in ancient times got married, it was difficult to disobey their parents' orders, which finally produced a regrettable result.