Everyone hopes to have a happy love life, and preferably eventually get married. The time you choose to get married is also very particular. For friends who get married in their zodiac year, whether it is auspicious or not, whether they can get married in their zodiac year, and what are the specialties and taboos of getting married in their zodiac year. Interested friends can pay attention!
Why you can’t get married in your zodiac year 1
1. What is your zodiac year? Your zodiac year is your zodiac year. For example, if you were born in 1994, then the Year of the Dog will be your zodiac year from now on. , animal year is also called committing Tai Sui.
2. There is a Chinese proverb: "If you offend Tai Sui in your zodiac year, and Tai Sui sits on your head, there will be misfortune if there is no happiness." This means that the zodiac year is an unlucky year.
3. The ancient book "Yuanhai Ziping" contains: "Tai Sui is the emperor in the middle of the year, so he cannot be violated, otherwise it will be bad." This sentence tells us that Tai Sui cannot be violated, otherwise it will happen. Bad things, unlucky.
4. Because it is a custom passed down by the older generation, the elders think it is true. This is also for the sake of newcomers. Although young people do not care so much now, they will also advance in advance according to the wishes of their elders. Or postpone the wedding.
Methods to resolve weddings in your zodiac year
Newlyweds can attend a few more weddings of friends to feel happy, and choose a good and auspicious day to hold the wedding before the beginning of spring.
Why you can't get married in your zodiac year 2
What's wrong with getting married in your zodiac year
The so-called "zodiac year" is the twelve years - the year of the lunar calendar year, commonly known as Zodiac year. For example, for people born in the Year of the Rooster, 2017 is their zodiac year. In traditional customs, animal year is often considered an unlucky year. The folk saying "If you are guilty of Tai Sui in your zodiac year, if you have Tai Sui on your head, there will be misfortune if you are not happy" is the best portrayal of the unlucky zodiac year. Therefore, people usually call the "birth year" also the "threshold year", that is, passing the birth year is like stepping into a threshold.
According to research, the term "birth year" has been around as early as the Western Han Dynasty, originating from the Chinese zodiac and the "worship of red" psychology. In ancient China, people used combinations of heavenly stems and earthly branches such as A, B, Bing, Ding, Zichou, Yinmao, etc. to remember the year they were born. In order to facilitate memory and calculation, people used twelve animals such as rats and cows to correspond to the twelve earthly branches. The method is to use one of the animals as the zodiac sign of the year every year. The birth year of the Han people is derived from the cycle of the twelve zodiac signs, and it is closely connected with the twelve zodiac signs.
What is the year of the lunar calendar when a person is born? Then each zodiac year in the future will be the person's birth year. Due to the cycle of the twelve zodiac signs, every two years, people will When you meet your own natal year, you can proceed in this order. The natal year of life is 2 years old, 24 years old, 36 years old, 48 years old, 60 years old... Many ethnic groups in our country have the custom of attaching importance to the 60th birthday of the elderly, commonly known as "the sixtieth birthday". It is the sixth zodiac year in one's life, and it is also a reincarnation in the year of the stems and branches. It must be celebrated to express people's wishes for longevity, health and good luck.
The taboo of "birth" has a wide influence among the people. In the folk customs of the north and the south, there is a tradition of hanging red in the year of birth to avoid evil and avoid disaster. Therefore, people are particularly fond of red during their zodiac year. The emphasis on red in animal year should be derived from the worship of red in the traditional culture of the Chinese Han nationality. Red wards off evil spirits and is auspicious. This concept has existed since primitive society. Red is the color of the sun, the color of blood, and the color of fire. With the changes of the times, this idea of ??advocating red has not changed. Red couplets are posted on the New Year, and red is used for newlyweds in the old-style weddings of the Han people.
The Han people regard red as a symbol of joy, success, loyalty, courage and justice. They especially believe that red can ward off evil spirits and protect themselves. Therefore, on New Year's Eve, people put on red underwear or red belts early, and some accessories are also hung with red silk ropes to welcome their own year. It is believed that only in this way can we seek good luck and avoid bad luck, and avoid disasters. These red objects used to ward off evil spirits in the year of birth are what is often called "birth red".
It is also customary for people to worship the "natal god" during their zodiac year in order to extend their life. The idea of ??natal God comes from Taoism. Taoism absorbs popular folk sayings about "birth" and puts forward the theories of "birth star", "birth year" and "birth day". If the person's birth year is in the year of the sixty-sixth year of the zodiac, it is called the natal year. Yuan Chen is also called the year of birth. As a religion native to China, Taoism naturally has a natural affinity with the heavenly stems, earthly branches, and twelve zodiac animals.
For the natal god, some places call it "Benming Shouming Xingjun", and some people call it "Benming Yuanchen", collectively called the Sixty Years God. Starting with the Year of Jiazi, people born in different years within sixty years can find their own natal god. For example, the national hero Yue Fei was born in 1103 AD, the year of Guiwei in the Xia calendar, and his natal star king was "General Wei Ren, Tai Sui of Guiwei". According to Taoism, cultivating one's nature and refining one's nature must devote oneself to one's natal Yuan Chen. Worshiping one's natal Yuan Chen in one's zodiac year or in ordinary years will eliminate disasters and bring blessings. This has become a custom that has been passed down to this day.
The saying about "Ben Ming Nian" is not unique to the Han people. In fact, there are similar sayings among some ethnic minorities in our country. According to the old Tibetan saying, everyone has an unlucky day and an auspicious day, which are calculated based on their birth date.
People think that at the end of each earthly branch in the Tibetan calendar, the second earthly branch at the beginning is a "duo" (meaning a hurdle, that is, an unlucky year), so everyone is 13 years old, 25 years old, 37 years old (and so on) It is taboo to go out and interact with others that year. It is advisable to recite sutras and give alms more to avoid disasters.
For the Khitan ethnic minority in my country, the custom of celebrating "Ben Ming Nian" was originally a custom of the Khitan people to celebrate their birth. In the Liao Dynasty, celebrating the "birth year" was also called the Rebirth Ceremony or the Birthday Ceremony. Because in the Liao Dynasty, 12 zodiac signs were used to record the year, and the zodiac animals reincarnated once every 12 years. When the year belongs to the zodiac sign of each person's birth, a ceremony must be held to commemorate oneself. I was born to repay my mother for her kindness in raising me.
In general, the year of birth is a blessing or a disaster, or it is as most people think: the year of birth is smooth, good luck is at the forefront, and it is unstoppable; there are obstacles everywhere, and everything is visible. There is no conclusion yet on the threshold and bad luck. But what is certain is that there is no scientific basis for saying that the year of birth is an unlucky year.
But in the year of birth, people often encounter a lot of unsatisfactory things, or do some ridiculous things, which makes people feel very strange. This "birth" phenomenon is still a blank in folklore research. Therefore, people who celebrate their zodiac year are very worried about their fortunes this year. Finding ways to cross this threshold is the biggest concern for most people in their zodiac year. What’s even more ridiculous is that every year when the New Year is approaching, businesses take full advantage of people’s psychological characteristics of seeking good luck and avoiding bad luck, and vigorously promote “Ben Ming Nian” products – such as red underwear, red underwear, etc., and seize the business opportunities to make a lot of money. .
Today's animal year, like some other traditional customs in our country, has lost its inherent meaning and has become a kind of propaganda for businesses. And most of us follow this trend with the attitude of "I'd rather believe it has it than believe it doesn't have it", or treat it as a new fashion. Wearing red clothes and wearing a red belt in the "birth year" is not just to "ward off evil spirits", it has become a popular fashion.
Numerology analysis of the reasons for unfavorable fortunes in the zodiac year
People often hear people say that "the zodiac year offends Tai Sui" and "Tai Sui is in the head, and there will be misfortune if there is no happiness." In traditional customs, animal year is often considered an unlucky year. Calculated in terms of time, the "zodiac year" is the twelve years - the year in which the zodiac sign is encountered, commonly known as the zodiac year. For example, for people who were born in the Year of the Monkey, 2016 is their birth year; for those who were born in the Year of the Rooster, 2017 is their birth year. According to the experience of many of us, some bad things often happen during the year of birth. So why is this happening in the birth year? This article analyzes it from the perspective of traditional Chinese numerology.
In order to analyze from numerology, we must first know what the birth date is. In ancient my country, people used the heavenly stems and earthly branches to record time. Among them, A, B, B, Ding, Wu, Ji, Geng, Xin, Ren and Gui are called the "Ten Heavenly Stems", and Zi, Chou, Yin, Mao, Chen, Si, Wu, Wei, Shen, You, Xu, Hai is called the "Twelve Earthly Branches".
The ten heavenly stems are combined with the twelve earthly branches to mark the year. For example, 2016 is the year of Bingshen, 2017 is the year of Dingyou, and so on. The same is true for the year, and the same is true for the month, day, and hour. Therefore, the year, year, day, and hour of a person's birth can be recorded using one heavenly stem and one earthly branch, with eight characters - one and one. This is what we commonly call the "birthday eight characters", also called the four pillars. In numerology, each heavenly stem and earthly branch also has the attributes of the five elements, such as: A and B belong to wood, Bing and Ding belong to fire, Wu and Ji belong to earth, Zi belongs to water, Chou belongs to earth, Yin belongs to wood, etc. Therefore, each character in the eight characters has five elements attributes. Numerology believes that the horoscope is about the balance of the five elements and yin and yang. If the five elements are out of balance, disaster will occur. When encountering the birth year, the earthly branches of the fleeting year will be the same as the year pillar earthly branches of the horoscope, increasing the power of the five elements they represent.
For example, if someone's zodiac sign is rat, since the five elements of rat are water, the power of water will be doubled when the person encounters water in his natal year, resulting in an imbalance of the five elements. If water is the taboo god in his horoscope, disaster will occur; on the contrary, if his horoscope is short of water, his year of birth will be smoother. Therefore, some people's birth year is good and some people are bad. It varies from person to person. It can only be determined by a comprehensive analysis of the horoscope and the Grand Luck.
So how do we deal with the unfavorable zodiac year? Among the people, the "zodiac year" is also called the "threshold year", that is, spending the zodiac year is like stepping into a threshold. Every year when the year of birth comes, Han people in all parts of the north buy a red belt and wear it, commonly known as "red tie". Children also wear red vests and red pants, believing that this can help them avoid disasters and avoid disasters. This custom is still popular in various places today. During the Spring Festival, red and yellow silk ribbons with "auspicious belts" and "auspicious knots" are sold everywhere in the market. People in the year of their birth will tie them around their waists and wrists, so that they can eliminate Disasters can be turned into good fortune.
In addition, it can also be effectively solved by wearing some mascots, such as wearing the Fushengxiang obsidian zodiac Buddha, Hotan sapphire natal Buddha or white crystal natal Buddha according to your zodiac sign, because these three This natural material can absorb negative energy, balance the power of the five elements, and at the same time use the blessing of Buddhism to protect yourself and eliminate the interference of the five elements from the outside world. Through these methods, we can spend our animal year smoothly.
About the scientific explanation of zodiac year
Many people still believe that "the zodiac year is not going well".
In fact, everyone over the age of twelve has experienced their animal year and has some feelings about whether this year will go well or not. Netizens often discuss their own experiences on the Internet. Some people will say that "it really didn't go well", but there are also people who say that their animal year was "mediocre" or "everything went well". What's going on?
In fact, those who think "everything is not going well" often do so because of psychological effects. There are always some twists and turns in life. If a big twist happens to occur in the year of your life, then people who don't believe will not connect the two at all, while those who believe will consolidate their superstition.
As we all know, when encountering difficulties, mentality is the most important, so people who do not believe can often get through it with a normal heart. On the contrary, superstitious people are trembling mentally and behaviorally, and they can get through it easily." "Kan Er" may have kept him "walking on thin ice" for a whole year.
"The year of birth is not going well" indeed cannot pass the test of facts. To give a counterexample, Zou Yinglong, a scholar in the Song Dynasty, was born in the Year of the Dragon. He was extremely talented. He once passed the imperial examination and became the first scholar in the imperial examination, and he was appointed as the Minister of the Ministry of Household Affairs, the Ministry of Punishment, and the Ministry of Industry. However, he was only twenty-four years old when he won the first prize. , coincides with the Year of the Dragon.
Mr. Liu Xinwu wrote an article titled "Going through the bumps in the year of birth". He also believes that the year of birth may be a "bump", but this is not caused by some mysterious reasons. , but from the perspective of psychological development.
At the age of twelve, a person’s psychological difficulties may manifest as premature maturity and loss of innocence, leading to deviant behavior; society".
At the age of twenty-four, the psychological difficulties may tend to two extremes. One is to become an "angry young man", who has a deep hatred for society, elders, and especially the inherent traditions and norms. Spitting out rebellious desires, pursuing subversive and destructive desires; first, becoming a "cowardly youth", having low self-esteem, being weak, unable to form any opinions, especially afraid of elders, leaders, authority, and strong men, and always being self-conscious He looks ugly and can't find a way to improve himself.
In the two natal years of thirty-six and forty-eight, there are generally two kinds of obstacles in people's hearts: one is excessive self-confidence, feeling that success and fame are a bright future, and desires are so swollen that they are about to burst. The first is excessive self-denial, feeling that no matter how big or small you are, you still can't make a difference, your future is bleak, and you are completely disillusioned with yourself.
At the age of sixty, a person's psychological difficulties turn into difficulty adapting to new things, being addicted to nostalgia, being cynical, or feeling discouraged. These psychological crises turn into physical suspicion. , I always feel that I "can't do it anymore", as if the curtain of life is about to fall.
If you want to survive these psychologically dangerous periods safely, you cannot rely solely on "natal red". Mr. Liu Xinwu gave two solutions: one is to need help and support from people around you, and the other is to learn to self-regulate. This understanding of animal year keeping pace with the times also makes some sense.
2. The newlyweds can post "Qilin is here" on the upper left side of the bed, and "Phoenix is ??here" on the upper right side of the bed to avoid the bad luck of getting married in this year.
3. In some places, people will place 36 Five Emperors coins under the bed to resolve the saying that you cannot get married in your animal year.
Why you can’t get married in your zodiac year 3
What are the taboos about getting married in your zodiac year
Because Tai Sui’s name cannot offend, if the words used in the personal name are the same as Tai Sui in the fleeting year , which violates the taboo of Tai Sui. This, together with the year of birth, forms the compound offense of Tai Sui, and it is not suitable to get married if the compound offense of Tai Sui occurs.
If the direction of the zodiac year violates Tai Sui, it is also a compound violation of Tai Sui, so it is not suitable to get married. In one's birth year, if one encounters an evil god in one's birth year, it will be extremely unlucky, and one cannot get married. Those who have unlucky years and twists and turns in fortune should not get married.
What are the taboos in Ben Ming Nian?
Ben Ming Nian has a wide range of influence among the Han people. In the folk customs of the northern and southern Han people, there are people who hang red in the Ben Ming Nian or ask Guandi Pavilion to consecrate Guan Gong to avoid evil and avoid disasters. Tradition. Therefore, people are particularly fond of red or keen to worship Guan Gong, the god of wealth and wealth every year of their life. In ancient China, there were many sacred objects and various Buddha statues used to ward off evil spirits in houses. Guan Gong has always been regarded as an amulet that can ward off evil spirits and bring people a healthy and happy life. It can have the effect of good fortune for people with bad luck, so it has the reputation of "Master Guan".
The emphasis on red in the year of animal year should be derived from the worship of red in the traditional culture of the Han nationality in China. The concept that red wards off evil spirits and is auspicious has existed as early as primitive society. Red is the color of the sun, the color of blood, and the color of fire. With the changes of the times, this idea of ??advocating red has not changed. Red couplets are posted during the New Year, red wedding dresses, red hijabs, red candles, new wedding papers, etc. are used in old-style Han weddings. No matter when and where, people use red to add joy. The Han nationality regards red as a symbol of joy, success, loyalty, courage and justice. Red is especially believed to have the effect of expelling evil spirits and protecting the body. Therefore, on New Year's Eve, people put on red underwear or red belts early, and some accessories are also hung with red silk ropes to welcome their own year. It is believed that only in this way can we seek good luck and avoid bad luck, and avoid disasters. These red objects used to ward off evil spirits in the year of birth are what is often called "birth red". It is also customary for people to worship the "natal god" during their zodiac year in order to extend their life.
In fact, luck in your animal year varies from person to person and cannot be generalized. Saying that one's birth year is unlucky originally originated from the numerology school that ran around in the world. Every year, they would come up with some bad luck and then suggest people to resolve it. The essence of it is to seek personal gain. As long as you are a truly experienced numerologist, you will never say that your zodiac year is a year of disaster.
The above is the relevant content about whether you can get married in your zodiac year. The fortune analysis itself is a reference direction, so don’t be too blindly superstitious!
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