Do you have any good suggestions for the confusion of high school students' communication with others?

High school students are confused about interpersonal communication. In high school, when communicating with others, we must consider whether the three views of two people are consistent. And see if the two sides are from the same level and class. These two aspects are very important and we must pay attention to them. In addition, there is a circle that does not belong to you. Please don't force it. In this case, it is embarrassing to yourself and others.