In real life, I often hear people talking about how someone is very grand and good. The impression given by grandeur is that a person is open-minded, heroic, refreshing, broad-minded, generous in behavior, majestic, etc., while stinginess is the opposite. The formation of the atmosphere is caused by innate personality inheritance, the influence of the people around you, and the influence of the environment. Generous people can make more friends and form better connections, which are the basic qualities of leaders and leaders, while stingy people are just the opposite.
From the perspective of social humanism, all aspects of social life can be measured, quantified and analyzed using the utility function in economics. Work environment, income, family environment, marriage, children, and geographical environment are all important factors that affect human utility. They are also issues that have been discussed more often. However, personality factors are an important factor that affects utility. If we start from the perspective of It is even more important to analyze from the perspective of emotional intelligence.
From the decomposition of atmosphere, it mainly includes the characteristics of broad, refreshing, broad, open, heroic, arrogant, mighty, majestic, yang and strong. People with such traits as worry, miserliness, extravagance, and jealousy tend to gather in groups, are good at gathering people, can gather sand into a tower, and lead people to achieve things. Stingy people repel people because of their weak breath or perverseness, making it difficult to gather people and block their connections. Therefore, when people are scattered, the utility will also be scattered, and when people are gathered to connect people, the utility will also be gathered.
For example, it is suspected to be a small piece, which wastes time, harms oneself and hurts others, and has completely negative effects, but people today are happy to do it. However, many of the above-mentioned sexual disadvantages are common to everyone, and they vary in depth and severity. How to cultivate the shape and body of the atmosphere.
If you want to refine the nature and body of the atmosphere and achieve the greatest effectiveness, you need to pay attention to the following points or aspects:
First, if you want to become the nature of the atmosphere, you must first The body must be in good health. If the body is strong, the body will be strong. If the body is strong, the Qi will be strong. If the Qi is strong, it is easy to produce blood, and the essence, Qi, and spirit will be strong. Those who are generous do not want their bodies to be huge and their bodies to be taller than others, but they must not be compared to those who have slim bodies and loose bodies.
Secondly, if you want to achieve the grand nature, you need to understand hardness and softness. There are four types of combination of hardness and softness. Since it has been mentioned in related articles, I won’t go into details here.
Thirdly, if you want to become a noble person, you must be kind and eliminate your own evil. The nature of a lady is strong and weak, long and short. You must promote good and eliminate evil, so that you can pursue benefits and avoid harm. Extremely effective. However, everyone has attachments. Desires arise from attachments, and desires are biased. The whole nature cannot be obtained and partiality arises. They are often harassed by blackmail, and there are no noble people to support them. The energy and thoughts are getting weaker and weaker, and it is difficult to have a strong atmosphere. live.
Fourth, if you want to achieve the nature of the atmosphere, you need to know how to sow it, and after sowing, there will be a harvest. The effect is easy to see, but the effect is small; the effect is rarely seen, but it is great when used. If a man desires something like a pound, he will get it by a pound, and his energy will be a pound. How can it be considered great? If things go on like this, only ordinary people in the market can succeed.
Fifth, if you want to be a great person, you need to use people's strengths and don't blame others for their shortcomings. Everything should be judged based on long-term effectiveness, and long-term effectiveness should be rewarded. Over time, the longer it becomes, the longer the overall effectiveness will be.
Wanyue: tactful, implicit, soft and beautiful
The word "Wanyue" was first seen in the pre-Qin ancient book "Guo Yu·Wu Yu" in "Guo Yue's words", Jin Lu Ji's "Wen Fu" " is used in literary rhetoric: "Sometimes it is pure and empty, and it is graceful, and every time it is troublesome, it is free of excess." According to various exegesis, the words "gentle" and "yue" both mean "beautiful" and "qu". To put it differently: "Wan" means softness and melodiousness. The original meaning of "Yue" is to bind, and by extension it means to be refined, vague, and subtle. Therefore, "elegance" is opposed to "annoyance".