-The Analects of Confucius. "A gentleman carries things with virtue: a benevolent person loves others, and a courteous person respects others. Those who love others will always love others, and those who respect others will always respect others.
-Mencius: The Classics of Mencius and Li Lou. It is indecent not to come; It is also impolite to come and not go.
-"Book of Rites" Etiquette is a mirror that reflects everyone's own image. Goethe: One of the most important tasks of affinity civilization is to make people obey the form in pure material life, so as to become aesthetic people in the realm of beauty.
-Schiller: "Aesthetic Education Letters" Politeness is the art of making choices in one's true thoughts. A Stevens: "Mrs de Steele" pleases polite people as well as those who are treated politely.
-Montesquieu: On the Spirit of Law Politeness has nothing to lose, but it can gain everything. -Marvo montague: Etiquette in letters is the smallest but most stable norm among all norms.
-laroche Foucault: The Proverbs of Morality Politeness is the flower of universal love. People who have no manners can't talk about fraternity.
-Jubail: A collection of famous sayings makes a person great, not because of his wealth and family background, but because of his valuable behavior and noble character. -Ovi: quotations from celebrities.
2. The poem about etiquette "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand." -The Analects of Confucius and Ji's "A gentleman carries things with virtue": a benevolent person loves others, and a courtesy person respects others. Those who love others will always love others, and those who respect others will always respect others. -Mencius: Under Li Lou, courtesy reciprocated. It is impolite to go instead of coming; It is impolite to come instead of going. -On "Book of Rites Quli" Etiquette is a mirror that reflects everyone's own image. Goethe: One of the most important tasks of affinity civilization is to make people obey the form in his pure material life. Make people become aesthetic people in the realm of beauty. -Schiller: Aesthetic education of letter politeness is the art of making choices in one's true thoughts. ——A· Stevens: Mrs de Steele makes polite people happy, and also makes those who are treated politely happy. -Montesquieu: On the spirit of law, politeness will not be lost. But you can get everything. -Marvo montague: Etiquette in the collection of letters is the smallest but most stable norm. -laroche Foucault: The book of moral proverbs is the flower of universal love. People who have no manners can't talk about universal love. Joubaire: A collection of famous sayings makes a person great, not because of wealth and family, but because of its preciousness. The second is misconduct and neglect; The only way to avoid these two situations is to abide by the following rules, that is, don't look down on yourself and others. -John Locke: A ramble on education.
3. Who knows the ancient poems about civilized etiquette 1: a gentleman is kind and polite; Benevolent people love others, while courteous people respect others. Those who love others will always love others, and those who respect others will always respect others. -Mencius: "Mencius Li Lou"
Mencius said: "The reason why a gentleman is different from ordinary people is that he has different ideas in his heart. The idea in a gentleman's heart is benevolence and courtesy. Good people love others, and humble people respect others. People who love others will love others; People who respect others will be respected by others.
2. Courtesy is reciprocal, and it is indecent to replace it; It is also impolite to come and not go.
Translation: It means there should be reciprocity in etiquette. Now it also means to answer each other with the same attitude or practice.
3. Sages respect it, fear it, love it, love it, know its evil, hate it, know its good, gather and disperse it, move it calmly, get rid of money, take refuge, win, divide without asking for more, doubt without quality, and be straight without group.
We should be close to and respect those who are better than ourselves in moral character and talent, and we should fear and love them. For the person you love, you should not only know its advantages, but also know its disadvantages; For people you hate, you should know not only their shortcomings, but also their advantages. If you have savings, you should give them to the poor. Be prepared for danger in times of peace and be able to change the situation in time. In front of property, you can't get it; In the face of crisis, you can't escape. Haggle over every ounce, not seeking victory; Don't ask too much when distributing property. Don't pretend to know what you don't know. When you answer others what you already know, you should owe it to your teachers and friends, not as your own invention.
If the husband is sitting like a corpse, he should stand up straight, be polite and conform to the custom.
As for the way to sit, sacrifice should be as heavy as a corpse; Stand up straight and be as respectful as a fasting person. Etiquette should conform to what is appropriate and tasks should conform to local customs.
Polite people are safe, rude people are dangerous, so owners should learn.
If a person knows how to be polite, then he is safe and successful, otherwise he will be in danger. So people who know manners can't help learning from him.
Extended data:
The Book of Rites is an important book of laws and regulations in ancient China.
The content of The Book of Rites is mainly to record and discuss the pre-Qin etiquette system and significance, explain etiquette, record questions and answers between Confucius and disciples, and describe the principles of self-cultivation. In fact, this 90,000-word book has a wide range of contents and diverse categories, involving politics, law, morality, philosophy, history, sacrifice, literature and art, daily life, calendar, geography and many other aspects. It is almost all-encompassing and embodies the political, philosophical and ethical thoughts of Confucianism in the pre-Qin period. It is an important material for studying the pre-Qin society.
The Book of Rites is written in prose, and some chapters have considerable literary value. Some use short and vivid stories to illustrate a certain truth, some are magnificent and precise in structure, some are concise, some are good at psychological description and characterization, and there are a lot of philosophical aphorisms in the book, which are incisive and profound.
References:
Book of Rites-Sogou Encyclopedia
4. The poem about etiquette is 1, "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand." -The Analects of Confucius. Jishi "
2. A gentleman is kind and polite: a benevolent person loves others, and a polite person respects others. Those who love others will always love others, and those who respect others will always respect others. -Mencius: "Mencius Li Lou"
3. Reciprocity. It is indecent not to come; It is also impolite to come and not go. -The Book of Rites. Qu Lishang "
4. Politeness is the art of making a choice among your true thoughts. -Stevens: Mrs. De Steele.
5. Politeness makes polite people happy, and also makes people who are treated politely happy. -Montesquieu: On the Spirit of Law
6. Politeness has nothing to lose, but everything to gain. -Marvo montague: Letters.
7. Etiquette is the smallest but most stable of all norms. Laroche Foucault: A Record of Moral Proverbs
Etiquette is established in terms of appearance, appearance, etiquette and manners in order to respect each other in social communication activities, and it is a recognized code of conduct as well as * * *. Etiquette is the general name of etiquette, courtesy, etiquette and ceremony.
Etiquette is established by people, which shows their ideology of respect, awe and prayer for people, themselves, ghosts and gods, and nature, as well as various customary forms and behavioral norms.
The usual forms here include etiquette and ceremony. Etiquette is generally personal and can be accomplished without other things, such as kowtowing, bowing, handing over, greeting, etc. Most of the ceremonies are collective and generally need to be completed with the help of other objects, such as foundation laying ceremony, launching ceremony, welcoming ceremony, wedding ceremony, hole worship ceremony and so on. The earliest etiquette of human beings is sacrificial etiquette, which mainly expresses reverence and prayer for the gods of heaven and earth.
In ancient China, there was a saying of "Five Rites", in which the sacrificial ceremony was auspicious, the wedding ceremony was a ceremony, the guest ceremony was a guest ceremony, the military ceremony was a military ceremony, and the funeral ceremony was a fierce ceremony.
The content of the Five Rites of Etiquette is quite extensive, from the sacrificial ceremony that reflects the relationship between man and heaven, earth and ghosts and gods to the communication ceremony between family, relatives and friends, monarch and ministers that embodies interpersonal relationships; From the coronation, marriage, funeral and burial ceremonies that show the course of life, to the celebrations, disasters and funerals, people express their congratulations, condolences, condolences and pensions, which can be said to be all-encompassing, fully embodying the ancient spirit of courtesy and justice of the Chinese nation.
5. Civilized etiquette There are many ancient books about etiquette. You can go to them yourself. After all, what you have learned is the most impressive, and you can't always take them to socialism.
Book of Rites-Confucian Classics, Book of Songs, Shangshu, Yili, Jing Yue, Zhouyi and Chunqiu. (Qin Shihuang "burned books to bury Confucianism", according to legend, the Book of Rites was lost after the Qin fire;
On this basis, the Eastern Han Dynasty added The Analects of Confucius, The Book of Filial Piety and The Seven Classics.
Zhou Li, Book of Rites, Biography of the Spring and Autumn Ram, Biography of the Spring and Autumn Beam, Erya and Twelve Classics were added in the Tang Dynasty.
Mencius was supplemented in the Song Dynasty, and later the Notes to Thirteen Classics was handed down from generation to generation.
Thirteen Classics is the basic work of Confucian culture. Traditionally, Yi, Shi, Shu, Li and Chunqiu are called Jing, while Zuo Zhuan, Yang Gongzhuan and Gu Liangzhuan belong to the biography and ceremony of Chunqiu Jing. The later four books refer to Daxue (one in the Book of Rites), The Doctrine of the Mean (one in the Book of Rites), The Analects of Confucius and Mencius, and the Five Classics refer to Zhouyi, Shangshu, The Book of Songs, The Book of Rites and Chunqiu. )
6. Seven-character quatrains on etiquette 1. Arriving in Baidicheng early (also known as Xiajiangling) Poet: Li Bai Dynasty: Tang Dynasty resigned Baidicheng, and a thousand miles of Jiangling were returned in one day.
Apes on both sides of the Taiwan Strait can't stop crying. The canoe has passed Chung Shan Man. 2. Poet of Peach Blossom in Dalin Temple: Bai Juyi Dynasty: Tang Dynasty, Peach Blossom in Mountain Temple began to bloom in April. I want to find a place where my life is dying, but I don't know that it has been moved here.
3. Night Zheng Poet: Bai Juyi Chao: In the bright moon with red strings on the purple sleeves of the Tang people, I feel dark and depressed. String coagulation refers to the throat stop, affectionate 10 thousand.
4. Autumn Poet: Du Mu Dynasty: In the Tang Dynasty, Qiu Guang painted a cold screen with silver candles and fanned a small fan to fly fireflies. The stone steps at night are as cold as cold water, sitting and staring at the cowherd and the weaver girl.
5. Before I left, I climbed the Leyou Tomb as a poet in Xing Wu: Du Mu Dynasty: Tang and Qing Dynasties, with poor taste, loving lonely clouds and quiet monks. I want to send the crowd to the rivers and seas, and I want to look up at Zhaoling in Leyuan Scenic Area.
6. Two farewell poems (1) Poet: Du Mu Dynasty: Tang Heng rolled more than thirteen times, and cardamom was in the first two months. In Yangzhou, the spring breeze blows all over Sanli Long Street. With beaded curtains, no one can match her beauty.
7. People became poets: Du Fu Dynasty: Tang Jiangyue walked only a few feet, and lanterns shone at night. The heron in the sand head is silent, and the fish in the stern are screaming.
8. Appreciating Zheng Lian's quatrains Poet: Du Fu Dynasty: Tang Zhengzi will make an envoy, and there is nothing in the bag to offer respect to his relatives. It's a long way to go in Xiu Yuan, and Qiu Ma is a grateful person.
9. Biedongda (the first of two poems) Poet: Gao Shi Dynasty: Tang Dynasty, during the day, the north wind blew geese and snowflakes came in succession. A gentleman is poor, who wants to meet today without paying for drinks?
10. Cool Poet: Han Wochao: Tang Bi embroidered curtains hung low, and the scarlet screen painted broken branches. Eight-foot dragon must have square brocade mattress, when it is cold and not cold.
7. Ancient poetry talks about civilization and etiquette, and quietness is self-cultivation and frugality is self-cultivation. -Zhuge Liang
A gentleman worries about Tao but not poverty. -Kong Qiu
Poverty has no flattery, wealth has no arrogance. -Zigong
Strong this section is white, and the sky is not poor. -Xun Kuang
The extravagant and lazy are poor, and the thrifty are rich. -Han Fei
Gentleman's journey is quiet to cultivate one's morality, frugality to cultivate one's morality, indifference to ambition and quietness to inaction. -Zhuge Liang
Luxury is frugal, but fierceness is in sight. -Bai Juyi
Don't think about being prepared for danger in times of peace, and refrain from extravagance and thrift; Think long to cut the roots, long to block the sources. Wei Zhi
Looking at the ambition of a virtuous country and its home in the past, we will be thrifty and extravagant. -Li Shangyin
The overlord takes the two rivers alone, and the descendants drop hundreds of cities. What about happiness and security after the success of luxury? -Wang Anshi
If you are extravagant, you will have more desires. Scholar desires more Taoism, then he yearns for wealth, and the abandoned Taoist version seeks quick disaster. -Sima Guang
Who warmly welcomes guests, as close as brothers; Evil spirits welcome people and harm soldiers. -Guan Zhong
There are brave people in the world who are not surprised, embellished or angry when they suddenly come. -Su Shi
Without learning manners, there is no way to establish power. -Confucius
The reason why mortals are more expensive than animals is out of courtesy.
Do not act on small evils, and do not act on small good.
8. Poetry of Etiquette and Civilization Civilization and Etiquette are with us. Civilization is a flower, a flower with permanent fragrance.
We irrigate with sincerity and nurture with enthusiasm, so that the poems of etiquette will always be treasured in each other's hearts. Etiquette is a poem, elegant and clear.
We use understanding to melt and care to comfort, so that the poems of etiquette will always be treasured in each other's hearts. We are cross-century teenagers, and we should be the spokesmen of civilization in the new era.
Under the rain, we sow the seeds of civilization; In the sunshine, we dress up the spring in our hearts. Bring a smile to others, and others will give you infinite happiness.
Bring warmth to others, and others will give you a bright mood. Give your heart to others, and others will miss you deeply.
Give others humility, and others will respect you. Let's hide the spring thunder in the team drum and ring the war drum of the times.
Tell my motherland, tell my mother that I grew up with civility and etiquette. Let us plug in the wings of civilization, fly to the blue sky, fly to the future, and tell the sun and the moon that we are eagles that are about to spread their wings in the new century.
To be the messenger of civilization, let us pave the road of civilization with a smile; Teenagers who are etiquette, let's build a bridge of etiquette with our heart. Accompanied by civilization and etiquette, Chinese virtues shine.
Civilization and etiquette accompany me, and the flowers of civilization bloom everywhere.
9. The old saying about etiquette is untenable if you don't learn etiquette. "
-The Analects of Confucius. "A gentleman carries things with virtue: a benevolent person loves others, and a courteous person respects others. Those who love others will always love others, and those who respect others will always respect others.
-Mencius: The Classics of Mencius and Li Lou. It is indecent not to come; It is also impolite to come and not go.
-"Book of Rites" Etiquette is a mirror that reflects everyone's own image. Goethe: One of the most important tasks of affinity civilization is to make people obey the form in pure material life, so as to become aesthetic people in the realm of beauty.
-Schiller: "Aesthetic Education Letters" Politeness is the art of making choices in one's true thoughts. A Stevens: "Mrs de Steele" pleases polite people as well as those who are treated politely.
-Montesquieu: On the Spirit of Law Politeness has nothing to lose, but it can gain everything. -Marvo montague: Etiquette in letters is the smallest but most stable norm of all.
-laroche Foucault: The Proverbs of Morality Politeness is the flower of universal love. People who have no manners can't talk about fraternity.
-Jubail: A collection of famous sayings makes a person great, not because of his wealth and family background, but because of his valuable behavior and noble character. -Ovi: There are two kinds of impoliteness in celebrity stories: the first one is coy and shy; The second is misconduct and neglect; To avoid these two situations, we must abide by the following rules, that is, don't look down on yourself or others.
-John Locke: A ramble on education.